My girlfriend checked who viewed her story and now we keep fighting about it
Last weekend my girlfriend posted this kinda revealing mirror selfie on her close friends story while we were out drinking with friends. Later that night when we got home she started laughing because one of my friends viewed it almost immediately after she posted it. She kept making jokes like “damn he was READY” and asking if I think he’s secretly into her.
At first I laughed too honestly. But after that I started noticing stuff I guess I ignored before. He replies to almost every story she posts, sends her memes all the time, and somehow they talk enough that he knows random details about her day before I even hear about them.
Whenever I mention it though she says I’m reading way too much into normal behavior and that I only started caring because of one stupid Instagram story. I can admit I’ve gotten more aware of it since she brought it up. But at the same time if one of her friends was constantly messaging me and reacting to everything I posted, I don’t think she’d love it either.
At this point I honestly can’t tell if there’s actually something weird going on between them or if I’m just getting in my own head. Should I confront the friend directly, bring it up with her again, or just leave it alone before it turns into a bigger issue?