r/WhatShouldIDo

Hi guys, hope to find you all good, and thanks in advance for every one that’s gonna spend time to read this and maybe reply….
i start whit saying, i’m 22 living with my gf from almost 3 years, i moved in this nordic country from italy, where we are living now 3 years ago, and i meet my girlfriend not so much time after i moved. I’m the type of guy that’s keep the sunshine in the pocket and with that i mean i love making happy my family, my friends, colleagues ecc… let people smile even if i been in tough situations in my life, growing up without father, and barely seeing my mom, because she had 4 works, and at 7 yo i had the responsibility of all. Now we get back to the relationship, i’m the one working in the house, she don’t work. she has problem with “adhd” and she wants to work whit what she likes and she say that is not in this country we living rn, it’s gonna be in warm place.. i said okay, i love her, i pay more then half of the rent because i’m in a city and is the most expensive of europe and i did it because i liked and also for have better future, that in italy i couldn’t have, btw after paying the rent that is half of my salary, i help my mom she’s alone and my siblings they are not helping her even if she has healt problem, after all that i can’t do anything else like buy clothes , go out for a travel ecc… fuck that because i love them, my gf also whant her space and i work 37 h/week after work i come home at around 15/16, i should shower and relax after a working day, but she want to do her stuff, then i leave the home *btw the home has a 2 rooms where i can stay, but she doesn’t feel okay to do her stuff, as preparing food for her, whatching tv ecc…* after i leave the home every day im back at 21:30 when she’s done, and i did it for 3 years almost, okay.. she doesn’t cook for me, she doesn’t talk with me about what i don’t like it’s like getting appointments to talk, sometimes i say we can talk is important and i get “i’m to tyred or we do next week ecc….” we don’t sleep in the same bed because i snor a little and she wake up, but in the night i sleep before her and i go in the bed to try to sleep, when she stay up late watching tv and smoking her joint and eating her snack, when she’s finish around 1/2 she need’s to sleep and she come to wake me up and i need to move to the other room on the sofa, in the beginning we was sleeping togheter, that thing came around half a year of relationship, sometimes if i started to snor in the other room she scream at me in the night, having traumas that’s is killing me, im doing all that for love but idk i want you guys to help to wake me up if i’m not noticing something…

I was gifted a really nice European sports car recently by a very dear family friend. The car is over 20 years old and spent the last year sitting in their garage. The car was very well cared for but barely driven. Once I got it and started to drive it regularly it started to have mechanical issues, mostly just a function of time. However European cars are very expensive to repair and I don’t have the money to keep up with the repairs. I don’t want to seem ungrateful as I am beyond grateful for such a thoughtful gift, but I am looking to possibly sell it and put the funds toward something a little more practical and manageable. NOTE——-
I am certain this was NOT a case of them unloading the car before they had to make expensive repairs. I also don’t want to tell them how much the repair estimates are and make them feel guilty. Their friendship is far more important than any car or money

I work from home and my neighbor across the hall knows I’m usually around. I’ve helped her son a couple times when he forgot his key and once watched him for maybe 20 minutes while she ran to the store. We’re friendly but definitely not close.

Yesterday I got a call from his school saying he was sick and his mom wasn’t answering. I was confused how they even had my number and the woman told me I’m listed as his uncle and an authorized person to pick him up.

I called my neighbor and she admitted she put me down because she has no family nearby and figured I’d be okay with it since I’m home a lot. She said it was only for emergencies.

Being around more doesn’t mean I want responsibility for someone else’s kid. What bothers me more is that she told the school I’m family without even asking me.

She thinks I’m making a huge deal out of something harmless. Should I tell her to remove me and leave it there, or should I call the school myself and tell them I never agreed to any of this?

Hi! Trying to stop smoking and detox of weed. Kind of looking for a full body detox kinda thing- no real time limit.. just looking for suggestions for a detox that actually works! No “get clean fast” kinda bs- I’ve heard there are some that do a pretty good job in a week or two. Open to suggestions, thank you!

I applied for a job that I am very qualified for.

At first they sent me a rejection email (fine, the job market is atrocious lately, it hurts but that’s the game), just for a couple of hours later say it was a mistake and they actually want to meet me (emotional rollercoaster)

Today, the day of the interview, I got up early, made my office very cute and such, played with the lighting, logged into Teams 30 min before so see how it would look on camera, looks cool, 3 min before the meeting I join it, and I wait…and wait…and wait.

5 min later I email the person and say something like “hey I am in the meeting, hopefully everything is okay, just check that this is the link etc..”. Nothing.

I stay 20 more min and then leave.

That was the second whammy.

I am upset but whatever. However as time passed by I grew increasingly more upset, about how unprofessional and unfair this whole thing was. The economy is rough and how dare they treat people like this. So I emailed the main email of the company explaining the situation and hoping the person who was supposed to interview me was okay.

Only then did I get an email from that person, saying they were in the meeting but didnt see me so they left after 5 min (not true, also why not answer my email asking where she was then), and that thanks for emailing globaly the company and in the meantime they found a better candidate.

I can’t believe the audacity of this person.

I could let it go or answer one last time with my log times into Teams to them AND the company. Or I dont know, I just hate how big companies think they can treat people however they want

So basically me (17m) and this girl (16f) are new to a job and we have people we got the job through. She’s really shy and was for the first few shifts then all of a sudden I started to make her laugh when talking to her and ever since then we talked more she seems to ask questions about me when working together getting to know me she remembers stuff about me and we would like mess each others work up as a joke not badlt just one or two small things and thenn the other day I had a QR code a picture of it we needed for something I said I’d help her and she can scan it and she said do I just wanna send it to her (asking for my snap) then we add each other we start snapping and she asks me what my TikTok is not even for the QR code I tell her it we was talking a tiny bit on messages she sends me videos on TikTok how I’m her fav co worker and about a co worker we both hate but the other day I asked to walk her home she said yes and I walked her. I guess I’m just trying to say is do you think she likes me and if so what should I do to make it to the next step?

I’m posting this on behalf of my friend because we aren’t really sure what to do. Basically, my friend let someone who she thought was a friend stay with her for a few weeks while this person figured out what to do as she was living in her car. My friend offered to help her financially but she declined. Now my friend is missing an envelope with $3500 cash, an entire safe containing more money plus personal documents, jewelry and a spare set of car keys. There is no one else who knew about the $3500 and no one else who had access to the apartment. This girl is denying everything and even going as far as trying to frame my friend’s mom for doing it and framing her for harassment by fabricating text messages. A police report has been filed but there’s not much the police will do as they say it is my friend’s word against hers. Conveniently this girl now has a new apartment and a new kitten. What would you do?