I don’t know if I should tell a cheaters wife that he cheated
I was seeing a man for a few weeks, nothing seemed out of the ordinary. He suddenly sent a wall of text saying he has a wife and kids and that he really likes me and asked if I’m okay with that. He also admitted to cheating on her multiple times in the past. Immediately I was appalled and blocked him. I did some research on Facebook with his last name and his coworkers and found his wife’s profile. She was friends with many of his coworkers. I have all his socials, which I now believe were burner accounts since he never posted a picture of him. I have proof (nude photos of him). My dilemma is I’m afraid of hurting his wife. I’ve been cheated on before and I would want to know if someone was cheating on me, but it’s also a deeply painful betrayal. I’m not tip toeing around this because I don’t want to seem like a bad person or scared of confrontation. I just don’t know if it’s the right thing to do solely because of her feelings