u/notevilyet99

To clarify, the girl lives across the street from my partner. My partner lives in an apartment. When the leaves start to fall off the tree that blocks the view, you can see directly into her bathroom. My partner has told me this multiple times and we had discussed telling her last winter but forgot. It’s started to happen again so I figured I should be the one to tell her so she’s not totally uncomfortable.

But I’m scared of telling her in person. I thought I’d leave a note but that might feel more creepy. And I’m also worried she’ll see my partner and his roommates on their balcony and realize it’s them and call the cops. What should I do?

The options for women’s tops are terrible - nothing looks good, they look pretty cheap actually. The styles are meant to be trendy I suppose but there’s always something wrong with each item. Like something’s off.

Unlike others on this sub, I haven’t quit smoking for a long period of time. I’ve stopped smoking cigarettes, it’s probably been a few months since I have but I replaced it with vaping.

I was in my home country for the month of May with my family when my mom passed. I didn’t smoke then because I couldn’t. Now I’m back where I live - it’s been maybe 10 days and I haven’t vaped but the urge has gotten worse in the last day. I don’t know if I can fight it off for long. I want to smoke because I feel like it’ll numb my pain for that moment. I’ve thought about having a drink instead but I’m worried about slipping down that slope too. Emotions are high with grief, I’m depressed as well and I don’t know how to fight this off and if I should.