r/stopsmoking

I need help

I can't stop to save my life.

I've tried chantix but it made my super aggressive.

I've have the gum and mints but they give me heartburn so bad I can't take it. Same with zyns.

I have the patches but they do absolutely nothing.

I have COPD.

Any advice on medications or tips/techniques that has helped you would be greatly appreciated. I cant get in with my doctor for 3 months but if there is a different med,I can possibly have him call it in.

I saw someone in the vape group say Desmoxan but they said I can't get it in the US.

I honestly think I could stop if I could take the Zyns but they just destroy me with heartburn.

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u/ai_ismygod_now — 4 days ago

Decided to personify my pack of cigs to see who's the strongest

I’m so fucking tired of my addiction. 25yo and spent almost 11 years smoking cigs daily, a pack a day.

Cigs and weed ruined my life, my relationships, and my health. Fucking hate these.
Clean from weed since October 1st after 10 years straight, now it's time to kill the cigs.

We’ll see who’s the strongest between me and this little piece of shit making fun of me right now. You’re staying locked up with those 7 cigarettes inside you for good. I’m going to fucking win. No more smoke in my lungs, I’m taking my control back.

Now time to smoke my last cigarette ever while listening to "Smells Like Teen Spirit" by Nirvana.

u/Substantial-Alps4359 — 4 days ago

30 days done!

I can’t believe how much my life has changed in the past 30 days, somehow it feels like yesterday and an eternity at the same time.
I floated through the first 2 weeks probably because of the cancer scare, maybe stress, the scare, shifting apartments, breakup hit me all at once. I felt hollow, void of thoughts and feelings, floating through days, most days felt like a haze. Anxiety, derealization and brain fog fucked me up. I’ve tried multiple times to quit before but all this was a first, I thought I could handle physical withdrawal symptoms and here I was losing my mind.
Barely left the house except to go to the gym.
It started getting better around the 4th week.
To anybody reading, it’ll get better eventually. It’s worth fighting for. Believe in yourself.
We’re all in this together.

u/throwaway09972 — 4 days ago

Thought I’d Check how long it’s been today. Pleasantly surprised.

Haven’t really thought about it since month 2, but checked today and was met with my 6 month milestone 🥳

u/BleakTeeth2026 — 5 days ago

Slipped today

I’ve tried to quit many times without being fully in it. I’m motivated now. Very motivated. But today has been a bad day. I’m on day four. I felt very sick yesterday and today not from no cigarettes but from the flu. It’s overall been a lot easier this time, but I had a really fucking bad day. Gave in and smoked a cigarette. Sitting right now feeling emberassed about it, but at the same time more comitted to quit. Because after just three and a half days smoke free, I can taste and smell this shit again. It’s so gross. And I don’t want to subject my friends and family to this. Or myself.

I just wanted to get this off my mind.

Sending all the encouragement to everyone else trying to get off this horrible habit. Stay strong!

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u/Pretty_Bowler_9587 — 4 days ago

Hoping this time I will succeed

I’ve quit many times and failed. I’ve used Allen Carr. After doing a lot of self-reflection, I think the (main) reasons why I’ve failed are because get past the entrenched belief that nicotine helps me focus and concentrate and that I won’t ever be able to enjoy a wild night out again without nicotine.

I also can’t get past the ‘if I have one at Christmas’ or ‘one on holiday’ next year it will be fine. I think I hold these beliefs to be true subconsciously as much as scientifically I know they are wrong. Just wondered if anyone can relate and how they worked to overcome it?

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u/Small_Function8950 — 4 days ago

You can

Every person I see who even takes three days off, I admire them greatly. They have enormous balls or ovaries, and they're someone to admire. We can all do it if we can!

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u/Middle_Leg_4592 — 4 days ago

Have you ever started your day by saying “I won’t smoke today”?

Affirmation that you won’t smoke today just works! Try it. And remember each day matters. ;)

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u/Virtual-Ad6186 — 4 days ago

Day 3 of quitting smoking.. nearly quit

Recently trying to quit smoking again after a relapse a few weeks ago due to feeling lonely. I don't know why, but this time the urge to smoke is far quitter than past attempts at quitting, so that sucks. Probably because I also decided to not use any vapes in the process, since in the past it just made me content with vaping instead of quitting entirely.

I do hate myself with every fibre of my being after every cigarette, so I am really hoping this time I'll get rid of it for good. I am 18 and have been smoking since a year, and I already get scared everytime I get a cough or chest pain. I really hope to avoid any long-term effects of smoking, so that's another motivation. I know I would wish to travel back in time to this moment if I continued smoking for decades.

Anyhow, still holding strong and I bought some lollipops whenever I have cravings. I would recommend that for anyone struggling with cravings, it's candy but a million times better than lighting up a cigarette. I just have a pack of lollipops in my bag now lol, and everytime I have the urge I suck on one of them till the urge is over. Seems to be working for now.

Good luck to everyone reading this and also holding out!! We are stronger than those god awful (expensive) cancer sticks.

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u/Ok-Chipmunk-8472 — 4 days ago

Day 4

Cravings, stomach issues, anxiety, irritability is what I’m dealing with currently. But one thing I wasn’t expecting is processing thoughts from over a decade ago I found this very strange. I have been having “flashbacks” and thoughts of my past ALOT more anyone experienced this? It’s like a veil was lifted and I have to process these moments all over again.

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u/Foreign-University76 — 4 days ago

Finally

Finally, I’ve managed to stick to a nicotine-free lifestyle for a full year!

Since 2018, I’ve made several serious attempts to quit, lasting anywhere from a few days to a few weeks or even a few months, in no particular order.

2023 was the first year of my life in which I spent more days without nicotine than I did smoking or vaping.

In August 2024, I reset this timer app once again. Unfortunately, I still relapsed on 12 separate days between then and October 2025, although thankfully, never on consecutive days.

During that period, I almost completely isolated myself from the world. I wasn’t working, partying, or really socializing at all. My social life had practically dropped to zero.

By doing so, I was able to confront my biggest trigger: mixing tobacco with cannabis. This usually happened when I’d forgotten my dry herb vaporizer, the battery had run out, someone offered me a spliff (which, where I live, is typically mixed with tobacco), or I simply wanted to hit the bong on New Year’s Eve (yeah, I know, crazy — a bong with a mix of both!).

Making sure I always had my cannabis vaporizer, a spare battery, and those little capsules with me gave me peace of mind. With that confidence, I started the timer app again.

And here I am: **ONE WHOLE YEAR NICOTINE-FREE!**

I’m SO GRATEFUL to the COMMUNITY here on Reddit, as well as to r/quitvaping and r/stopsmoking. Especially during the early stages of each attempt to quit, YOU helped me SO MUCH and gave me the STRENGTH to keep going.

Without your SUPPORT honestly I could have not made it this far.

**THANK YOU ALL!

FYI: as English is not my first language, I used AI (SI) to correct my writings

u/mic_insteadof_nic — 4 days ago

A week without smoking!

Just wanted to share. Huge win for me. I’m using the patch which I know many are against but it’s the only thing that’s gotten me this far. Totally takes cravings away and I feel so much better physically already!

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u/TheSnoringDragon — 12 days ago

You are paying for a subscription

Imagine paying for a subscription that costs $200 a month that eventually causes cancer, fucks up your lungs, makes your teeth yellow and it’s only objective is to keep you coming back offering nothing else in return. Yes, that is what you have been paying for, you were scammed, time to let go.

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u/Pandaeyes28 — 12 days ago

I developed constant acid reflux from smoking 2 packs a day and drinking 5 coffee. Today needs to be the day. Any helpfull word will help

Smoking since 13, now 31. Im still young and I want to improve my health until I make permament damage.

This will be the hardest thing I do in my life, and O dread the process but I need to do it for myself

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u/Capable-Deer744 — 12 days ago
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Outgrowing smoking..

I'm so emotional I'm actually tearing up as I type this. A year ago I genuinely didn’t know if I could do this!! I had days when I wanted to quit quitting. But this is what happens when you stop fighting the addiction at the surface and actually work on what’s happening underneath. So many thing I believed smoking helped me with only to realize it was actually making it worse. This simple realization helped me see that I'm not 'giving up' cigs I'm 'outgrowing' them.

P.s. - I saved up enough money quitting to buy myself the new iPhone lmao

u/memoryhunter24 — 12 days ago

78 hours without smoking and I'm on a 10/10 craving

Help, I have everything, mints, cold water standing up, playing the guitar, but right now my gf is not home and I have the cash to go for some cigs and that coincidence started the craving. should I smoke just one? I was smoking 12 cigs per day for 5 years I'm 23

u/StudioDazzling1877 — 12 days ago