u/Aggressive_Tart_7783

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Q Just Threatened Suicide

Moved into a great new apartment with my family 13 months ago and Q holds the lease. I’ve slowly withdrawn from life except for kids and husband. Close friend told me last week to make a list of 3 things that bring me joy, pick one each day and do it for an hour. It’s the first time I’d felt normal since discovering new Q is late stage. Spent months beating myself up for not spotting the signs as an ACOA.

From 6/2 through now Q has been steadily going downhill with hundreds of texts and emails daily to berate me for everything as her circle runs for the hills.

Finally had enough after Q admitted they were not sober when they signed the lease. Was able to get the broker to send a lease addendum after I filed a police report for harassment because broker is liable for not vetting Q.

Q woke up the day after we gave notice, felt bad and cried to a friend to call us. I refused the call. Husband took it. Less than 24 hours after tearful apologies Q was back at it, threatening suicide today. The friend called for me to go over and check on them. I refused and told the friend to call 911.

I have to come up with a plan.

Alcohol is horrible.

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u/Aggressive_Tart_7783 — 8 hours ago