u/Agile-Vacation4386

2 weeks no contact but we never actually broke up. should i reach out?

me and my bf havent spoken in about 2 weeks but the weird thing is we never actually broke up or agreed to go no contact.

things got rlly awkward between us and i started shutting down/barely talking during our hangouts because i was overwhelmed. he did try talking to me but eventually pulled away.

afterwards i tried reaching out. i asked if he wanted to talk and later my last message was asking if he was okay. he never replied.

i got hurt and blocked him everywhere for like a day, then unblocked him on imessage. since then neither of us has contacted each other.

normally hes actually the one who reaches out first after arguments, which is why 2 weeks of complete silence feels rlly weird.

i still care about him and miss him sometimes but im also questioning whether i even want the relationship back because we argued a lot. i also dont wanna keep chasing someone when ive already tried reaching out and he left my last message unanswered.

does this even count as no contact if nobody actually decided to do it? would u reach out one last time for clarity or just leave it and let him contact me if he ever wants to?

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u/Agile-Vacation4386 — 4 days ago