[17MTF] Navigating NS as a Tgirl?
[really sorry for the repost, apparently got caught in Reddit's filters]
Hi all 17 MTF here, I haven't seen a lot of posts on this topic but m really wondering what will happen to me when I'm called up to serve?
For context, I've been on hrt for 11-2 months (supplier got blocked 4 months in and had to wait for a new one to resurface) on diy hrt, and now that I'm starting an Anti-Androgen and the feminization has REALLY kicked into high gear (softer skin, fat redis thru the face ON TOP of what the estradiol has done), I'm scared ill be forced to detran to keep up with the physical ly demanding aspect of NS, ESPECIALLY IN LIGHT OF MAY 5!?!?!?!
I am also VERY worried that I'm going to be put in very physically demanding jobs (mainly army cuz lower strength and being viewed as lesser and bullied for ykw) and being forced to shave BALD?!?!? I've been bald to save money on school haircut and I've felt nothing but pure agony from it
But luckily, I've just started poly and have 3 years for it to work its magic so I'm wondering if I can get away with looking the like a girl
OK HI QUESTIONS I ALMOST FORGOT TO ADD
- Is it possible to get a pass if you look fem enough? Its 4 years it should be long enough (hopefully)
- Is it possible to totally avoid NS ALTOGETHER (specifically army and SPF, SCDF depends tbh, mechanic work in general is fine) if I pass/get PES E/F? 2.5 if not, what roles will I be given? mainly non physically demanding like admin work(hopefully even mechanic work???)
- If I get a PES E/F, will birth parents be notified about it? 3.5 Any good reasons to say to them if I get a PES E/F without outing myself?