u/Agitated-Cress-6544

I M_6'4Ft Looking For Female For Hookup Only. No Emotion No Commitment No Relationships Just S*x

Dm Me.

I'm 20M, and my ex is 22F.

We were together for almost 2 years. During that time, she once went to a movie with a guy who was clearly interested in her just to make me jealous. That was the point where I broke up with her.

About a month later, we got back together because we still loved each other. That relationship lasted another 4 months before we had a huge argument over something random, and we mutually decided to end it.

After the breakup, she kept trying to contact me. I had already decided not to get back with her because I was thinking long-term, and I no longer saw a future together. My parents also don't like her anymore because of some of the things that happened during our relationship.

Eventually, I blocked her after another fight. She then threatened to defame me in front of our relatives (our families know each other) and even messaged my father about our relationship. She didn't mention that we had been sexually intimate during our relationship, but we were.

We officially broke up on November 28, 2025.

A few days ago, I created Snapchat for the first time using my old number. She apparently got notified, sent me a request, and I accidentally accepted it because I accepted everyone's requests without checking.

We started talking again. At first it was casual, then she said she still missed me. Eventually the conversation became flirty, and she suggested becoming friends with benefits.

I asked her multiple times whether she had dated or been with anyone else after our breakup, and she said no. She also admitted she has a high sex drive and would probably have casual sex if the opportunity came up.

Now here's where I'm confused.

We've agreed to meet tomorrow at a hotel, and the plan is to have a purely physical relationship with no commitment. She can date someone else in the future, marry someone else, and I won't interfere. The idea is just to continue seeing each other physically until one of us moves on.

Part of me thinks this could satisfy both of us without getting back into a relationship.

Another part of me thinks this is a terrible idea considering our history—the fights, the threats, involving family, and the emotional baggage.

So I'm asking for honest advice from people who have been in similar situations.

Would you go through with the FWB arrangement, or would you walk away completely? Why?