u/Agitated_Zucchini104

What do you do if you get everything you ever wanted ( THE love of your life walks back into your life

After 25 years.

He was my childhood sweetheart. Was with him from age 12 to 17. Parents moved and well shiz happened, but I seriously spent at least 15 years mourning this man.

Then he comes back into my life when I'm 41 and he's 43. 2 Failed marriages and 10 kids between us. Both broken by other stuff as well, so a mountain of baggage. But I LOVED this boy with a capital L. But I don't know the man yet.

I run right? I need all the help I can get, can anyone tell me synastry things. Help

u/Agitated_Zucchini104 — 6 days ago

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IS BEING AN INFPS TRAUMA BASED/MORE LIKELY TO HAVE CHILDHOOD TRAUMA

Just a personal observation.

I think many infp traits are similar to c- PTSD behaviours and adaptations. And I've noticed in many infps online make reference to growing up in difficult households, having traumatic childhoods.

I'm just thinking out loud( well typing silently but you know lol) but what comes first, the chicken or the egg.

What if a whole heap of us aren't really "true" infp but trauma coded into infp traits from childhood trauma?

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u/Agitated_Zucchini104 — 6 days ago