u/AgnesFANG

How to feel safe and anonymous, or is it just more tech consumerism?

Hi, I’m from the UK, autistic transwoman and struggle to communicate and advocate for myself in person. In the UK, alongside refugees, transwomen are used as the number one distraction and monster without a voice. And with capitalism in the western world collapsing, while mass surveillance and AI are rolled out across the NHS, transport and supermarkets; I hope you can forgive me for feeling terrified that folk like me may be the first to be locked out of these life enabling systems.

I feel powerless, restless and grasping at straws at what i can do? I’ve removed myself from the obvious social media and algorithm streaming services. Turned off all the apple tracking features. And hoped maybe replacing my smartphone outdoors will give me some respite from feeling watched. I‘m thinking of carrying a dedicated camera and DAP, even physical maps instead of my smartphone. But am I worrying too much and is this just more expensive consumerism?

My car will still be tracked and I’d have to take my (switched-off) phone out anyway incase of emergency. So im hoping you folks with more experience and awareness of these accelerating issues, could possibly offer some advice or reassurance? What can i do to feel more secure and safe longterm? I’m very grateful for any help, thanks.

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u/AgnesFANG — 5 days ago
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Saluki Rescue - Desperate for Advice

Just over a week ago, my 9 month pup was purchased (saved?) from travellers. I was mislead and didn’t know her origin or condition until it was too late. She’s lived outside, had to scavenge for food from bins and discarded food wrappers and is subsequently significantly underweight and underdeveloped.

Over the week I’ve calmed her desperation for food completely and the change in her appearance is obvious. Plus we’ve bonded well and she’s the most affectionate dog you could imagine.

However she’s terrified to pee/poo outside. Although my enclosed parking spot feels more safe to do her business (sometimes) and is praised with treats when she does!

Futhermore it’s hit/miss whether she’ll attempt to bolt at the sight of other dogs approaching. She’s increasingly attempting to run away from any sight of dogs or humans. And she‘s increasingly rejecting being on a lead/collar/harness. She may jump out of her skin until she’s free and has run loose on my local roads a dozen times. Thankfully I live in a quiet housing estate and able to calmly catch her.

But I feel exhausted and overwhelmed. We just returned home after she got loose outside my home, twice, and I feel like I’m ruining any progress previously made. I’m currently hiding in bed after having a daft cry. I did so well for my previous dog but I wasn’t prepared for such a wild neurotic pup. And Id therefore be very grateful for any and all possible advice please. Thank you in advance for your help.

u/AgnesFANG — 13 days ago
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Hello

I acknowledge that reddit isn’t the ideal place to find a Saluki girl puppy. However after months of searching the obvious websites, adding myself to waitlists for sighthounds on ChampDogs and visiting a local dog show to possibly find any leads, I feel defeated.

I’m a retired competitive athlete living in the south yorkshire countryside. I’m hoping for a wonderful longdog who can match my need for adventure. They would (hopefully) be my best friend and alongside me day to day; so I have zero intention for breeding. And I’m more than happy to establish a relationship with a breeder and follow any health checks, to reassure everyone involved that I only have the best intentions.

I lost my previous SalukiX over a year ago, who I raised from a puppy and I’m ready to begin the adventure again. Since childhood I’ve had rescue sighthounds, so I’m accustomed to their needs. I’m confident that I can raise a happy, responsible and characterful companion, with a premium raw and varied diet and endless adventure in the countryside.

I know there’s older rescues available. But this time, id like to experience the full journey with a puppy and give them the best possible start in life. Again, I acknowledge that reddit may not be a ideal place to find a new best pal. but everyday feel like a waste without their companionship. If anyone has any advice or might be able to signpost me to someone who can, i’d be awfully grateful. Thanks

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u/AgnesFANG — 25 days ago