u/Agreeable-Boot6280

I was in a really toxic relationship with this guy M23 I am F21 currently (we dated when i was 19)

so when we were dating if that’s what it was🤣it was more of a situationship where he wanted the kitty cat and not a label(I laugh)

we ended things back in 2025 a cycle of on and off so many times and I haven’t spoken to him since.

I was able to experience other loves but that breakup led to dark place in my life but I moved regardless

New year New me I wasn’t single till March and oh boy when we broke up with my babe (I am bi) I decided to focus on myself.

I never believed in ex coming back especially him and his ego so I was shocked,excited,curious…like bro where is your girl

weird? right? But i do believe when someone comes back you didn’t learn a good lesson

Well he texted me and was like can i come visit you

bad idea still went with it because i felt like i needed an explanation to why he treated me like that and a confession that he cheated

alcohol got involved 🤡and oh boy we did link intimately which i didn’t think much of but he left me at my place after the act but we had agreed to go together since we live with the same area

When i called him he was on Dnd and proceeded to text not even call the next day

I have his charger and we have agreed he will pick it up cause I am on break from uni rn back at our hometown

here’s where i need advice I have moved on and I dont wanna go through all his shit again but I feel nothing for him and we might go on a trip together later this year

do i give him the charger and deep✌️no contact or go with the flow?🤷🏽‍♀️

Cause I dont even know

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u/Agreeable-Boot6280 — 23 days ago