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Combining Colors : Warm, Neutral, Cold

Combining Colors : Warm, Neutral, Cold

Hey Hey,

Trying to make it short: I feel and look my best in soft summer colors. Mostly the medium dark to dark colors of that season. Some colors I really like on me tho are closer to soft autum. Like my sage green that I adore. Not even talking the black, that I still wear, even tho not close as often as months before. Which I can get away with, but I know it's not my best.

So, I added this outfit flatlay, with those brownish burgundy clogs. Is there a universe, a way, where those colors could look good together and make sense? I guess bc the colors, like the blues, the taupe are more neutral, it could work, bc it's not too far away from those reds? Or am I wrong and it would look better with a more pronounced contrast. Help :D

I have been looking for this japanese color combo book a while ago. But the thing is, color combos making sense in theory and than making sense on me is a bit of a different thing I guess.

Tia

u/Agreeable-Mail-3453 — 8 days ago

Resonance | Left Down

Hey Hey

Dunno where to start. So, I needed some new flared jeans, cuz my old ones don't fit me anymore, and are causing me discomfort cuz they slide down while wearing, and look a bit saggy. So I ordered those 100% cotton ones. They are technically my size, but what does this even mean nowadays, lbr. When I tried them on, I got so frustrated, cuz they fit very snug. But I decided to keep them, cuz my last pair of 100% cotton trousers almost got wider by one size. And yea, luckily after one day of wearing they turned out to be the perfect fit. Anyway.

While I was trying to decide which outfit I wanted to post, I got a bit frustrated, to the point where I felt I have no idea how to dress my body. Tried to come up with something more visually interesting. But my wardrobe is kinda small, so the slightest eclectic combo looks just really off on me. Even this skirt over pants situation. I really like how I feel when wearing it, but it doesn't look so right to me on the photograph.

So, when dressing I don't think of the occasion, or what I'm expected, or what I want to communicate so much. It usually leads me astray an makes me uncomfortable. I just focus on my mood that day, and basically what resonates with me in the moment. Usually I need a lot of ease, comfort, and a bit of skin and delicate details.

So, yea! Happy Sunday.

u/Agreeable-Mail-3453 — 18 days ago

Instinct: some fits

Hey Hey,

Happy Sunday to y'all.

Here some fits that I'm planning to wear, and that I wore a lot the past weeks.

I finally tried to take a dip into Ritas Style System again. Back than when I started to learn about it, I thought I was left down. Than Rita had this thing going on on Instagram that u could send her an outfit selfie, and she would type u based on that pic. Or at least give u an idea where u could land. She said RD, Illuminatrix. Since than I just went with it.

Looking into my approach to dressing myself I heavily lean onto Instinct, and my inner experience on things, rather than on Occasion, Setting and so on. So, I guess I rather identify as a LD, possibly Wildflower.

When choosing what to wear for the day, I just go with the flow. It's rather unconcious and based on how I feel that day.

Ciaooo.

u/Agreeable-Mail-3453 — 25 days ago

Confident & Powerfull: Sage green

Sage Green is a surprise. Never wore it before, or gravitated to it naturally. Still once I picked up this shirt it immediately clicked on me, and got compliments from friends that I look fresh, and that it’s a nice color on me. I feel at ease wearing it, which gives me room for confidence and showing up relaxed.

I ended the search for new shoes with those sage green sneakers. They are almost grey. They arrived on time, when my red chelsea boots also decided to fall apart along with my black derby shoes. Haha :..)

The fit feels cohesive in it's color story, muted dusty colors, medium to low contrast, relaxed shapes, and casual details. It's made from natural fibers, which is best for the environment, consindering land fills etc. and so good on skin.

I still guess I'm RD. Will write a post about it, when Im less foggy. Tata

u/Agreeable-Mail-3453 — 1 month ago

Feels like me | but shoes?

Hey, the sage green shirt and the stone grey skirt are two of my more adored pieces. The material is soft on the skin and has a nice drape.

I really like a bit more cohesion when it comes to shoes. Rn I only own the black chunky sandals, the red chelsea boots, and my black combat boots. (Plus Trainers and a pair of shoes where the sole is broken and unrepairable)

Some of my style keywords i would define as: soft structure, sensuality, utilitarian, androgyness, delicate and sinplicity.

If anyone has an idea, what kind of shoe would suit those style words, and my outfits that I shared in the last post, pls share ur thoughts, thx.

u/Agreeable-Mail-3453 — 2 months ago

Feels like me ?!

Hey,

Felt like posting again. So here is a quick update on my style journey. It's late summer here, but luckily it feels like early autumn rn. Tried to wear less black, but ocassionally still like the simple, subdued feel/look of it. I still guess i'm in the RD Quadrant cuz I appreciate some level of harmony, and prefer choosing what to wear by expressing how I feel rather than by how others read it. I want to get more into Ritas system again, and trying to find the right headspace for it. Not sure if my understanding of RD is actually correct. Ah. Well. I added the colors and textures I like wearing rn. And some things I like to look at, and that make me feel excited. Ok bye

u/Agreeable-Mail-3453 — 2 months ago

So, I'm in my mid 30's and recently thinking about if I actually could be bi (bb :D)

I was thinking of just giving it a go, and trying to date women as a bi curious grrl. But it would be nice, to maybe having a better idea of my situation first.

I had my first sex and orgasm with a girl, when i was a kid. I had a crush on Jasmin and Mulan I guess. But also on Legolas. Lol. Since Im an teenie I only had romantic relationships with men. Often had trouble being fulfilled while having sex tho.

When I wa studying I sort of had a crush on a girl. But I wasn’t sure if I was losing myself during that time, so Im not sure if that counts.

When I was a kid, I was super scared to be a lesbian. Don't know why, where I learned it would be bad.

And sometimes I watch lesbian porn. BUT I kind of never see a women and think I want to have something romantic with her nowadays.

Could it be, that there is something in me, hidden and safely detached? Or am I just lost in the sauce???

Thx in Advance! <3

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