u/Agreeable-Put-3806

I'm detached and I cannot make myself feel in love again. I never went through the honeymoon phase -- not strongly at least. I've decided I don't want to drag this out any longer since it will only do us both harm, but I'm not experienced with the dating world and the concept of ending things is scary. We live about an hour and a half apart. I don't want to be that person to break up over phone or text, but is setting up a "date" just to send her home crying really that much better? I don't know what to do. She's going to tell me I'm being an avoidant and running away and my feelings are a lie again. She's not bad by any means, she's a decent friend. I don't want to end things in a bad way, if possible, but I know I'm done. Can someone please help me?