Hello everyone,
So here's the deal. I (34F) am now eight months pregnant and my husband (31M) and I were talking about our birth plan and he casually mentioned that he would be getting a paternity test done on the baby. We have been together for five years, married for 1. I asked him why he thinks he would need to get that done as I've been faithful to him through our entire relationship. He said he just wants to get it done as proof that the baby is his, but I told him he doesn't need to get that done, it's just an unnecessary step and to be honest it would be humiliating for me to have all the nurses judging me while he gets a paternity test done for no reason. I asked him not to do it and he came back with "why, have you cheated?" To which the answer is no. Now I don't know what to do. I'm already going to be going through a lot of emotions having this baby and I didn't want to go through the embarrassment of the staff judging me when he asks to get a test done. It makes me feel like he doesn't have any faith me or respect for my honour as a faithful women amongst the hospital staff. I don't want to be remembered as the woman whose husband asked for a paternity as soon as the baby was born. I want to be remembered if at all as the loving couple who had a great delivery. This would honestly leave such a bad taste in my mouth over the whole birth of he asks for that. I don't know what more to do.