u/AgreeableSir6806

so for context i’ve been snapping this guy for about 4 months and a couple of weeks ago we kissed at a party. Now he’s invited me to his house and i think he wants to have sex ( im a virgin). I’m not totally against the idea but i’m worried he’s using me and i’ll never see him again after this bc i do genuinely like him. We don’t know each other that well as we’re not talking and he’s known to be talking to and getting with different girls a lot in the past. Should i go?

so last night i was at a party and got with a guy. we were just making out on a bed but sitting up and i was straddling him and grinding on him when he said to wait because he was uncomfy- not in like an uncomfortable with the situation uncomfy but like just sat uncomfortably i think? he’d pause for a second and then keep going and this happened a couple of times when i was on his lap. i was worried that i was like grinding wrong or something but he would always keep going and when we lay down like a couple of minutes later i was on top again and he was like moving me to grind against him. is it possible i was doing it wrong or something bc i’ve heard it can be kind of sore for guys if u do it bad but idk? also idek if he was hard so maybe i just wasn’t doing anything like i thought i could feel something but it wasn’t like crazy obvious? help!