u/Aimee2171

Yesterday I posted a confession of my mom and I getting into an argument because of a relative of mine.This man had complained to my mom about my dressing style.This man had the audacity to complain about me when he legit is a creep.

I saw a WhatsApp status of him posting such as that he heard there's a call boy out there in the Ganga red-light area.Mind you he is an educated man.I mean he has a lot of degrees.And he's openly discussing about it.

Like seriously,I am so mad about these sort of men.

Him questioning about my morals,what about his?

I am told to compromise and cover my body when all I ever wore was a Tank top and a jeans.It wasn't even vulgar.But he goes on to post shit like that.

I have never raised my voice against any elders in my family.

Its just not the way I dress,they talk about my body,my education and question about my male friends.

But these questions are never asked to my younger brother.

Tired of this nonsense.Ahhhhhhhh.

QLast night I posted a confession here claiming that a relative of mine had complained to my mom about my dressing sense.This man legit posted a WhatsApp status letting people know that there's a ļoʻ⁹

My mom and I were having a heated argument over the call over my dressing sense.She told me that some of my relatives were complaining about what I wore.However that person never said anything while they were with me. Ngl she's a wonderful mom and always have been.Had I been in her place,I could never.

Also,it wasn't too derogative cause I just wore a tank top paired with a jeans.I don't really know what went through that person's mind but my mom was so mad at me.She yelled at me for wearing that and told me if dad had ever saw me like that,he would be mad at me.

In the midst of everything,she uttered those phrases and it had stuck with me now.This woman has been through sm.I am just mad at that person for bitching about me.Never gonna hangout or be around that person anymore.Khud toh jeeta nahi hai aur dusro ko jeene nahi deta hai. Its fucking 2026 y'all.Let everyone do whatever they wanna do.If there's anybody who has a problem with the way women dress up,fuck you.

At a family gathering,I heard one of the so called relatives claiming that if their women can't provide them children,they would go for the rigmes while eyeing us as if we are baby making machines.

These men claim themselves to be good husbands but they hate their wives.The level of misogyny in them can't be measured.

Their legit words were"yaha mein itna sara rigmes hai baad mein unlog ko le lega,rigmes ka kami nahi hai🤮"

We don't even want you uncles.

They are the very reason I hate family gatherings.

Sab namuna barti hota hai ese jagah mein.They don't treat women equally and treat us like shit.

Toh ese jagah mein jayega bhi kyun.

Pura mood off karke rakha these married men. I am really traumatised by their words. Abhi har mard ke baare mein yahi thoughts aa raha hai ki they are really petty and they don't deserve any ounce of respect from us. Seriously achi/makbo log itna ganda panda kyun hai na. Already nyishi community itna badnaam hokar rakha hai aur badnaam karo ha tumlog.

Ye sub reddit aapka baap ka jagah nahi hai ha jo mann chaha kuch bhi post karne chale aaya.

Ladki log ke topic se dur hi raho toh best hai.

Mind your effing business.

Ye haring log hum Arunachali ladki log ke baare mein galat galat post kar raha hai ye sub mein ,tum log ko dikhai nahi de raha hai kya?

Kal ko tumlog ka bhi beti hoga tab pata chalega.

Ignore toh mat karo.

Agar kuch nahi bol sakta hai toh the least you could do is report the account na.