Bad dancing is better than "good dancing"
I think untrained dancing is better than trained dancing because it feels more genuine
I had a roommate in college who could not dance at all. He always said he didnt dance. But in the right moment, he would just let go. It was not smooth or impressive, but it was honest. Watching him move without caring what he looked like would actually make me tear up in joy. Not like laughing at him or anything like that, but just to see someone lose themselves in music, its really a special kind of thing.
On the other hand, when I watch dance cyphers or dance circles/parties whatever with highly trained pop, lock, or break dancers, it feels so performative and fake. Everyone is doing impressive moves, but it feels like they are waiting for the reaction. Waiting for the “OOOOHHHHH.” Even the vibe, the outfits, the silly little hats, it all starts to feel like a show built around getting approval and its actually alittle pathetic.
So that is the difference. One is just someone moving because the music takes over. The other is people performing to be seen. And I will take the awkward, untrained, honest dancing every time.