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Trying to Perfectly Preserve Media completely misses how culture actually works

The increasingly common belief that everything must be preserved, whether it is a game, a book, or any other type of media, and that failing to do so somehow “destroys culture,” is, in my view, fundamentally mistaken. It ignores how culture has actually functioned throughout all of human history.

I believe that the loss of media is not automatically a tragedy. It is a natural and essential part of cultural evolution. I am not advocating for the active destruction of works. I am saying that the systematic and almost forceful preservation of every single thing simply because it exists is neither necessary nor historically normal.

Consider penny dreadfuls: cheap, disposable entertainment printed on low-quality paper that was never intended to last. Most of them are gone today. This is not a cultural disaster. It reflects what the society of the time valued and what it did not bother to protect.

Throughout most of human history, works survived only if people considered them valuable enough to keep, copy, or maintain, or if they survived by sheer luck. That selective survival shaped culture itself. When people look back at earlier decades and think, “Media was better back then,” they often forget that the only reason it seems that way is because the material that survived is the material people cared about. The forgettable and mediocre mass-market works disappeared, and so they no longer influence our impression of the era.

Loss is not always harmful. It is often revealing. Culture grows through selection rather than through perfect archival completeness. Future generations create new culture based on what the past leaves behind, whether intentionally or by coincidence. That process is how culture has always evolved.

For that reason, the idea that every piece of media must be preserved forever is not only unrealistic but also incompatible with how cultural development actually works.

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u/Interesting-Injury87 — 4 days ago

Friendships rarely survive when one person has kids and the other doesn't.

People don't like admitting it, but having kids changes friendships, especially when one person chooses to remain childfree.

You can have the strongest friendship, genuinely believe nothing will change, and promise each other you'll always make time. But in reality, nine times out of ten, things slowly shift.

Suddenly, everything revolves around the friend who has kids. Catch-ups happen on their schedule, plans need to work around their family, spontaneity disappears, and you're often the one expected to make the effort and accommodate their new life.

And I get it. Kids become the priority, as they should. But that doesn't mean the friendship isn't becoming increasingly one-sided.

Eventually, you stop asking as often. They stop reaching out as much. Nobody necessarily falls out or does anything wrong. You just slowly drift apart until you're living completely different lives.

I also think there's an unspoken expectation that the person without kids should always be the flexible one, almost as though their time is somehow less valuable because they don't have children.

It's not that you stop caring about each other. It's that the friendship you once had no longer fits into either person's life.

I'm sure there are exceptions, but I genuinely think this happens far more often than people are willing to admit.

Curious to hear from other childfree people. Have you managed to maintain close friendships with friends who became parents, or did you eventually drift apart too?

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u/togepi8888 — 6 days ago

Schools should return to handwritten assignments only

I think schools should get rid of laptops, tablets, and even printed assignments. Everything should be handwritten. We’ve spent years putting computers in classrooms, and I’m not convinced students are any better at using them because of it. Plus, technology changes so fast that a lot of what they’re learning may be useless by the time they’re adults.
Reading, writing, and thinking for yourself seem more important to me. I wouldn’t be surprised if schools eventually went back to paper anyway.

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u/Ok_Commission5003 — 6 days ago

Cemetaries take up too much usable space. Land should be for the living.

I understand the want/need for people's lives to be memorialized, however, I think that should be a private, individual family thing. All that space is on this crowded Earth is wasted on the dead.

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u/Rutabaga2022 — 6 days ago

The art of haggling over prices has largely been lost at the grassroots level and it is a great pity

Back in the good old days there were many small shops and markets which were directly owned by the person sitting there, and you could haggle prices with them. In my opinion, this was a fine art. One employed multiple tactics such as:

a) Calibrating to meet in the middle - they are charging 20, you are willing to pay 15, so you say 10, they say 18, you say 12, and in the end the difference is split.

b) Appeal to emotion - hey boss I've been an old and faithful customer of yours; come on don't I get a loyalty discount?

c) Business sense - how about if I buy more, can I get a bulk discount?

Nowadays everything is dominated by supermarkets and chain stores and of course we can't haggle prices with the employees - the prices are fixed. I do believe that the loss of this skill is detrimental to us in our careers and daily life because the art of healthily bargaining is not sufficiently practiced enough.

Currently, our first haggle tends to be at our first salary negotiation, first used car bought or first house purchase. The lack of prior practice does not build up enough skill for these crucial moments.

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u/uselessprofession — 6 days ago

Not making or trying to make a friend or two at work is weird.

Ok stick with me for all the bean soup type of people im not talking about toxic work environments or places where you work alone. I guess this is more of an unpopular opinion for the types of posts that say trust no one!!! Talk no one work!!! I mean places where you have a team and interact with people on the daily. It is more fun when you have a friend or two at work! Makes the days go by faster plus it’s nice to have a confidant that you can share stuff with. (Sparingly of course)

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u/Prestigious-Law9991 — 5 days ago

5:00 AM is the real midnight

Ok hear me out on this one, I believe 12:00 AM is really 5:00 AM because that’s when the next day truly begins. Like if you stay up until 4 in the morning, it still feels like the previous day even though its the next day already, but past 5:00 AM is the point of no return. Since at that point the sun is rising, the birds are chirping, your dad is making noises in the bathroom, etc. so you might as well just pull an all nighter and not go to sleep.

The math makes sense too because let’s say you go to bed at 4 and you get 7 hours of sleep which is pretty average, then that means you’ll wake up at 11 and you can still have a pretty normal day. But if you go to bed at 5, 6, 7, you’re waking up in the afternoon so you pretty much already wasted half of the day. Anyways I should probably go to bed but that’s my reasoning for my opinion

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u/BeautifulSetting2286 — 6 days ago
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ESL company marketing needs to be seriously controlled

People in Western countries, particularly English-speaking but also in countries where other languages are spoken are told huge lies about how by spending a few hundred to a few thousand dollars, they can attend classes and get a diploma that will let them travel the world and experience life in a new country, learn a language while making a salary comparable to the folks back in your country. The first promise is absolutely true, the second is partially true (your colleagues will be mainly other expats or locals that studied English at university level so you have to actively seek opportunities to learn the language in your free time) and the last is simply not true at all. ESL teachers either go back when they've had enough of living in a crappy flatshare or end up having lived abroad for many years without any savings.

It needs to be made clear to young adults that TESOL is not a long-term career unless they get qualifications which can be used to get a job in a public school (which can be very hard to do once you leave your own country) or have the funds and skills to start a private business and have people teach for you while you take a share of the profits. I personally live well but I am not and will never be the main breadwinner in my family. Meanwhile many are living in poverty abroad with no clear route to improving their own circumstances.

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u/pet-fleeve — 10 days ago
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The phrase "Save the Planet" is human arrogance..earth will be fine, we are only fighting for our own self-preservation.

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u/Intrepid_Entry4226 — 9 days ago

Minivans are the coolest

I really don’t understand how minivans aren’t considered cool. You can literally take your whole group of friends with you, especially if you’re going on a road trip. The cabin is really comfortable, and you can fit all the stuff you need.

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u/Opposite-Ad-9502 — 14 days ago

Physically disabled & frail elderly people shouldn't buy high energy dogs

50% of the dogs in my country are underwaked, this isnt rare or exclusive to the disabled but they play a part, specially old people

Someone who cant walk up the stairs without getting out of breath, buying a Husky, a collie, or a Malinios puppy

Seeing these fat huskies, fat Spring spaniels, developing limps and hip problems, because their owners cant adequately walk them. These dogs and many more breeds need atleast an hour every day, without fail

Frail 80+ year old owners, owners who cant walk at all, wtf are you buying them?

Buy a fucking cat

Great, If you can afford daycare everyday or dog walkers thats fine, but ffs, why did you have to choose a dog like a Mali who requires 3 hours walking a day if you cant walk 30 feet yourself

Source: 16 years in the industry

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u/Thrill_Kill_Cultist — 14 days ago

Most people asking easily searchable questions are being lazy not looking to have a conversation

Anytime I see someone on the internet asking a question that is easily answered by Google and has a definite answer(not opinion based) you see someone saying go Google it and other people getting mad at that person saying that the person just wanted to have a conversation. Most people posting easily answered searchable questions just want someone else to do the legwork on something they want answered but aren't in a rush about. It's almost more annoying that people pretend that this is the case.

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u/zugtug — 14 days ago

Breadcrumbing is Worse than Ghosting

Both suck.

With ghosting, you know where you stand (once you accept).

With breadcrumbing, it is prolonged abuse.

I met this girl through a friend of a friend. We went on a few dates, had sex, pretty good vibes. She eventually (and no, not immediately after we had sex), started to increase the silence between text responses. Eventually, it would go days. Then, she would come back around with some BS excuse about being busy ("Hey!! How are you? I'm sorry I was super busy lately, wanna grab a drink tonight?"). Would just pop back up out of no where and expect me to just grab drinks with her that same night. At first, I did this. We would grab drinks, "catch up", and then days turn into weeks. Very minimal contact.

I learned not to chase. To match that energy. Eventually, she would come back around ("Hey!! Sorry I have been so busy with helping my mom with things, how are you?"). I would stupidly respond, only for conversation to drift, and drift, and then drift right back to days of silence.

Self-respect people. I find this behavior extremely inconsiderate and toxic.

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u/tonyway7293 — 13 days ago

Crowd surfing sucks

I’ve been to hundreds of concerts and can safely say no one wants to be enjoying a show and suddenly have some rando dropped on top of them. Half the problem is people don’t understand that you have to start at the front and work your way back… otherwise how is anyone supposed to see you?? It suuucks having a foot hit you in the head from behind, and 10/10 times they’ll ask you to help them get back up instead of apologizing for hitting you

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u/THChungus — 14 days ago

TV shows should have a proper ending on their first season or basically every season.

I hate how many shows are created lately with the objective of having multiple seasons, I know how good it may sound on paper but the amount of shows that don’t even make it past its first season it’s insane, so… if you have a great idea it should end properly just in case it never comes back, even having more seasons being greenlit doesn’t mean it will happen, there can also be delays, seasons take years to make, etc.

There’s this obsession with leaving open endings on almost every show during almost every season ending and it gets so annoying cause many times we never get to see how the story continues.

I genuinely believe every season should just have a satisfying ending and just get more creative if the story gets to continue.

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u/BeckTheDarkOne — 14 days ago

The drums in “Stairway to Heaven” are better than the guitar

Bonham does an unbelievable job on the drums in this song and the guitar solo wouldn’t hit nearly as hard without the booming backing of the drums

The latter half of the song when the drums come in is where it really elevates into a masterpiece. The intro to the guitar solo is made possible by Bonham’s drumming, the rolling drums along the solo, and the outro of the song are all actually the drums doing a lot of the heavy lifting. Isolating the solo leaves a lot to be desired.

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u/Hour-Ad-9508 — 13 days ago