u/Alarmed-Ad9271

Alright, So I asked for separation 7-8 weeks ago, my wife moved out. One of the biggest reasons we are here is because last year she told me she had spent 2.5 years of our marriage sending nudes to multiple other men using snapchat, and I dont feel like I have had space to heal/forgive. When she told me I told her no more snapchat if she wanted our marriage to continue. Well last week I found out she was back on snapchat post separation. Friends are telling me to just reduce contact, but I truly feel like I need to hold up to the initial consequence of breaking the boundary. I don't want a divorce, but I've spent the last week wondering what she was really doing back on snapchat, and feeling like shes having other men to her apartment (Though I dont have proof of the latter). Generally I feel like I cannot trust her at all, and at this point I am lost on whether we actually CAN rebuild trust and reconcile considering it seems like she doesn't care. Am I crazy for still questioning what the right decision is? We do have two young kids involved