Delulu IS NOT the Solulu...
I posted a version of this in my community, but I wanted to bring it here too because I keep seeing “delulu is the solulu” everywhere and… respectfully, no 😂
I'm going to be recording a video on this tomorrow... but felt I needed to make a post here for everyone... let’s talk about “delulu is the solulu” for a second because I need the manifestation community to please stand up and come back to Earth 😂
Delusion is NOT the solution. NORMALCY is.
No one is delusional that their name is their name.
No one wakes up every morning affirming: “I am Jessica. I am Jessica. I swear I exist. Please universe, let me be Jessica.” No. You KNOW your name.
No one is delusional that oxygen exists even though they cannot physically see it floating around like a little air ghost. They experience it. They accept it. It is normal.
No one is delusional that the sun is going to rise tomorrow morning. They expect it automatically. They do not need tarot cards, angel numbers, a psychic raccoon, or seventeen signs from the universe confirming sunrise is still scheduled. Why?
Because it is NORMAL to them. This is why “delulu” is not the “solulu.”
If you still feel delusional about your desire, then deep down you are still relating to it as:
- separate from you
- shocking
- unbelievable
- rare
- unstable
- hard to maintain
- “too good to be true”
- not fully yours yet
And that means it is still on a pedestal.
The goal is not: “How can I become more delusional?”
The goal is: “How can this become more NORMAL for me?”
Because manifestation is not about emotionally convincing yourself of something while internally feeling like a liar every five minutes. That is exhausting.
The desired identity does not walk around thinking: “OMG THIS IS SO INSANE I CAN’T BELIEVE THIS IS HAPPENING.”
The desired identity thinks: “Yeah. This makes sense for me.” That is the shift.
And neuroscience actually backs this up... Your brain is constantly filtering reality through what it already accepts as familiar, believable, and important. It looks for patterns that match your existing identity and assumptions. This is why two people can experience the exact same situation and interpret it completely differently. Your brain likes familiar because familiar feels safe and efficient.
So if struggle feels familiar, your brain keeps scanning for struggle. If rejection feels familiar, your brain keeps scanning for rejection. If being overlooked feels familiar, your brain keeps scanning for evidence of that too. Not because the universe hates you... or because you are cursed... or because Mercury is in the microwave again. Because the identity became NORMAL. Which also means your desired identity can become normal too. That is why I teach normalcy over “delusion.”
The more natural your desire feels, the less you obsess. The less you obsess, the less you check. The less you check, the less authority you give the 3D. The less authority you give the 3D, the more stable the selected identity becomes. This is why “delulu” burns people out.
But normal? Normal stabilizes.
So let’s make this practical:
What’s one desire you’re done treating like it’s shocking, rare, or too good to be true? What would it look like for that to become normal for you?