r/lawofassumption

What was the moment that convinced you free will doesn’t exist?

One of the phrases that gets thrown around a lot in manifestation is “live in the end.”

People hear it and immediately think they have to feel ecstatic 24/7, never have a negative thought again, or somehow convince themselves that their desire is physically here already (acting as if etc).

But that’s not what living in the end means. Here’s the simplest way I’ve ever been able to explain it:

Imagine you’re watching a movie you’ve already seen before. Let’s take Lord of The Rings for example.

Lord of the Rings spoiler ahead…

When Gandalf stands on the bridge and shouts “You shall not pass!” before falling into the abyss, you’re not genuinely panicking that you’ve lost him forever.

Sure, it’s an emotional scene. You might even feel a little sad. But underneath all of that, there’s a deeper knowing.

You already know he’s coming back as Gandalf the White.

Because you know how the story ends, you experience the middle differently.

That’s exactly what living in the end is.

It doesn’t mean pretending nothing difficult is happening. It doesn’t mean denying your current circumstances or forcing yourself to feel happy every second of the day. It means that no matter what chapter you’re currently in, you already know where the story is going.

So when your circumstances show you something you don’t like, you don’t immediately conclude that your desire isn’t happening. You don’t assume you’ve failed. You don’t think the story is over.

You simply recognize that you’re somewhere in the middle.

Living in the end is trusting the unfolding because you’ve already decided how the story ends.

And when you truly know the ending, you naturally move through the middle differently.

I’m F26, in a relationship for the past 5years and planning to marry my BF 31M.

I manifested him, and he’s such a loving and caring person. Everything just like I wished for.
Except one thing, he has addictions. (Weed smoking alcohol)
I even took a break with my partner for a year to manifest this loving, securely attached version of them. Before, we had a lot of compatibility issues and now it’s all perfect. Only issue is his addictions.

Around 20days back, I was so tired and exhausted I just shifted my state that he’s gonna drop it all. I don’t have to beg him and do any requests anymore.
Guess what? Just the couple of days after this shift he was diagnosed with mild pneumonia and he quit it all. Antibiotics made him quit it for a week. He even told he no longer wants to smell cigarettes but the craving for a joint hasn’t gone.
It’s been 15 days of sobriety and pooof... Day 16th he’s back to smoking joint with cigarette mixed.

I don’t know what went wrong? These days I appreciate him. Motivated him for choosing himself. I went on to tell people how happy I was, I was taking a step forward with my career so I was not focused on him but I saw how lively he was during his sobriety. He felt more active. Better sleep.

I legit expected he’d drop it all. Given he even asked his doctor about quitting a 15years habit and he said rehab is the only solution.

Today, I just felt so let down. I was just so unhappy and felt my feelings. Cried to him. I energetically found he smoked before he even confessed it to me. Antibiotics are still being continued as prescribed for the entire month.
He says be present, don’t overthink. That’s all.

I don’t know what should I do anymore.
I’m not ready to move on to another partner because I believe we can have anything we desire.

Looking for help. If anyone has manifested similar things do share.
Why is 3D so inconsistent? It’s knocking me down. I just felt stress free and focused on other things in life… boasted my happiness to everyone.

Hello, I hv been manifesting sp (ex) for almost 6 months now. Been thru all phases, self concept, techniques, detachment. Havnt checked 3d in 6 months. I have done everything right. After months of detachment i am kinda looking at the facts and losing faith in the process now. Considering giving up, however i feel terrible becz i genuinely did believe i could get it. Thoughts?

Hi everyone!
I’ve believed in manifestation for years, and I’ve manifested many things. Sometimes it’s honestly been almost scary how accurately things happened exactly the way I had visualized them.
Lately, though, I’ve been feeling exhausted (maybe because I’m in my luteal phase? 😅). I feel tired of manifesting. I’ve been trying to manifest my ex back, and it keeps turning into a hot-and-cold situation. He comes back, then pulls away again.
I know the change has to happen within me. But because I’m feeling so drained, I’m starting to develop limiting beliefs and doubts about whether change is actually possible and THAT FREE WILL DOESNT EXIST.
Would anyone be willing to share success stories or experiences that inspired you? I’ve already read a lot of posts here, but many of them stop at “they texted me” or something similar. In my case, my SP seems to have changed a lot. He’s adopted a new outlook on life where he thinks things like he believes it’s just his ego wanting me, and that makes it difficult for me to create a new story about him or find something that really clicks in my mind.
I guess I’m just looking for some inspiration and hope from people who have been through something similar.
Thank you. ❤️

I want to start by saying that this isn't a vent post, I want to manifest many things and change my life for the better but I struggle with mental health issues/possible c-ptsd so I end up spiraling, I've been trying to manifest positive change for a long time and I'm not giving up on it because I deserve a better life.

I'm sure many people with mental health issues still managed to manifest and fix their life so I'd really appreciate advice from people with similar experience

How can I keep my thoughts positive?

hey guys! so lately ive been trying to manifest a sp, which is my ex and at first i successfully manifested them wanting me back but one day ended up blocked but i still persisted and he ended up reaching out, but he only reached out on a fake instagram account and refuses to add me and unblock me on his main instagram but still acts really kind to me. we had a rough breakup but now we’re on good terms it seems but idk if he still loves me or feels interested. am i doing something wrong? is this impossible? :(

My desires are being invited to chanel events such as the fashion shows , private chanel parties etc.. and becoming rich, those are basically my only two desires. I live in an island where the chances of these things happening are slim but either way i remain faithful to my end.

I've been imagining myself into the states of being the rich chanel spokesperson me. And affirming, I always thought affirming without believing or robotic affirming was bad but since the law is all about getting into the state i realized that manifesting in paper is just getting into desired state. Anyways i've been affirming and affirming and i feel that reality happening within me. And now i feel that im at that point where i know how to tap into the state

PROBLEM IS I'm getting bored lol, i affirm and ik it's counterproductive to want to see it in the 3d but now i'm bored when i affirm my desires or tap into my imaginal scenes like i know im doing this good both in theory and practice but now that i affirmed my desires a hundred times and i already feel the state, now i just actually want it lol. Ok ok i know that this is not magic but it starts to get boring and sometimes i even forget about my desire.

Any thoughts or suggestions are very much welcomed, thanks in advance xx

So, when it comes to manifestation, I struggle. Hard. And I know what you're gonna say, "If you believe you're struggling, then you are!" But that’s not really the point here.

I feel like the only thing keeping me from manifesting is my anxiety. When I think about my desire - and it could be literally anything - my stomach twists into knots, and I’m suddenly flooded with doubt and fear. Fear that it won’t manifest, or even worse, fear that the opposite will happen. It can be something as simple as trying to manifest clear skies tomorrow when the weather app says it’ll rain, and my body still reacts like it’s a threat.

I think when it’s something outside of my direct control, or something I can’t physically do myself, my mind and body just freak out. I can’t force myself to “just believe” or “just know” it’ll happen, probably because I’ve been disappointed before.

I am working on regulating my nervous system and managing my anxiety, but I wanted to ask: has anyone else dealt with this? And if so, do you have any tips or tricks for going through the highs and lows while manifesting?

So there is this guy I want to manifest back but ig I don’t know how to go about it bc I’m already going through manifestation fatigue. It’s been 3 weeks since I’ve started locking in but I’ve been trying to manifest for YEARS I just think it shouldn’t be taking THIS long. And no I’m not actively assuming it’s going to take time or that it’s happening slow or whatever but I’m just exhausted. Thinking the fact that there is a new thing that I’m adding on to the list of things I’m already trying to manifest is making me procrastinate so bad. I’m not asking for advice because usually I don’t resonate with anything people tell me, but I was wondering if anybody who has overcame something similar to tell me their success story so that I know to keep going 😭 please with a cherry on top and extra sprinkles 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

i wanted to share a perspective shift that completely eliminated my anxiety regarding the 3d and time limits

we often hear in the loa community that "the 3d is the old story" or an echo of past thoughts. but viewing it that way sometimes keeps us waiting for a future change. instead, i realized that the 3d is simply the present moment, and it is completely neutral

think of the 3d as a waiter handing you a menu at a restaurant:

the menu contains every single possibility, but the current layout in front of you is completely neutral. if the waiter brings a dish to your table that you didn't order (or a dish you used to like but don't want anymore, like an old circumstance, a bad text, or lack) you don't get mad at the waiter. you don't cry, and you don't force yourself to eat it while trying to convince your mind that it’s a different dish

you simply look at the dish, recognize it’s there, and say: "no, i don't want this one because this is not what i ordered. take it back and bring me my real order”

reacting to the 3d (giving it importance) is the equivalent of eating the wrong dish while crying about how much you hate it…. you are choosing to consume it spiritually

when you understand that the present 3d is just a neutral menu, you stop fighting it. you see the "bad" circumstance, you acknowledge its existence without judgment, and you calmly repeat your order (your affirmation) because you know the kitchen is already preparing it and they will bring it to you

the 3d has no power to deny your order. it just shows you options. stop consuming what you don't like, place your order, and stay firm in what’s done

hope this helps anyone dealing with deadlines or anxiety today ♡

I'm curious if anyone has consciously used the Law of Assumption to create a reality where a third party (3P) never enters their SP's life at all.

What assumptions, affirmations, self-concept work, or mental practices did you use? Did you assume things like "my SP only has eyes for me," "our relationship is always protected," or something else?

I'm specifically asking about preventing a 3P from ever appearing, rather than manifesting after a 3P situation has already happened. I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences, techniques, beliefs, or success stories.

Hey so has anyone tried this or can drop their opinions?

When you're trying to learn and master a skill, you need to practice it everyday to get better cuz you currently aren't that good...but if I'm manifesting and affirming that I'm really good at this thing, I still have to go back and practice where I'm proved that I'm infact, not good at that thing.

How do you deal with something like this? You affirm, then when you do the thing it's literally like contradicting whatever manifestation you did for it...but you have no choice, you can't not practice forever.

So I've been seeing a lot of mixed things here and there, especially with people like Sammy Ingram talking about "just decide" is absolutely wrong because manifestation doesn't work that way. But there's other people who are saying that "just deciding" is the best because "you either have it or you don't". What do they mean by this? And by "just deciding", how do you saturate your mind? Which one is "right"?

(I know that there's no such this as 'right' or 'wrong' in terms of the law of assumption because well, it all depends on assumption, but I'd like to know which one is the more accurate method in terms of the law)

Erased a fight with a local drug dealer completely.

I wanted to share an incredible Revision success story that happened to me recently.

Just to be clear, I have absolutely nothing to do with shady business myself.

I only know this guy because he lives on my street.

About a month ago, we had a crazy encounter.

Out of nowhere, he just flipped on me.

I didn't do anything wrong. I tried to de escalate it and told him, "Look, I don't want to fight you, we are usually good, but if you attack me I will defend myself."

After the confrontation, I went home and decided to completely revise it.

I firmly told myself: He does not exist in my reality.

We never crossed paths.

This never happened, it was just a dream. I completely stayed true to that assumption and dropped the old story.

Since he lives on my exact same street, it should have been hard to avoid him, but after that day, I never saw him around anymore.

Fast forward to today. He randomly popped into my mind. Shortly after, I went outside to throw away the trash, and he literally passed right by me. He didn't notice me at first, so I decided to test the reality. I walked after him and called his name.

He turned around, came up to me smiling warmly, acting as if absolutely nothing bad had ever happened between us. I even explicitly asked him, "Hey, are we good? Because last time, that whole thing happened..."

He looked at me, couldn't recall the fight at all, and just shrugged and said,

"I'm living fast, brother."

He said he had to run but that we would talk another time.

Revision completely wiped his memory and reshuffled the script.

The bridge of incidents even provided a perfect 3D explanation for his forgetfulness ("living fast").

Do not doubt this law, it works.

A lot of us fall into the trap of treating the Law of Assumption like a daily chore. We do a perfect 10-minute visualization before bed, or we write down our affirmations every morning, feeling incredibly aligned. But then we spend the remaining 23 hours and 50 minutes of the day letting our minds run wild with anxious, lack-driven inner conversations. We wonder why our assumptions aren't hardening into fact, completely ignoring that our baseline mental diet is contradicting everything we just affirmed.

I was recently reading some theories by Benjamin Sonders about how reality actually compiles, and his perspective on this completely changed my approach. He doesn't frame negative inner conversations as just "bad vibes" or a lack of spiritual focus. He treats them mechanically, essentially as the literal background code that runs and compiles your physical life.

Sonders points out that the universe does not care about the 10 minutes you spent forcing yourself to feel wealthy, loved, or successful if your passive, default state is one of desperation. You cannot run a high-level reality on a corrupted operating system. He explores a concept called "Energetic Transmutation," which essentially means you have to actively weaponize your background anxiety. The exact second you notice your passive inner dialogue slipping into fear or lack, you cannot just passively let it run on autopilot. You have to aggressively overwrite the code and reassert your internal frame.

It makes you realize that the real work of assumption isn't what you do when you close your eyes to visualize. It is the silent, ongoing conversation you have with yourself while you are driving, washing the dishes, or sitting at your desk. Your active techniques only plant the seed, but your passive inner dialogue is the environment it grows in. Your 3D reality isn't built by the technique you do for 10 minutes; it is built by the baseline conversation you have with yourself all day long.

Hi, I had a question! Is it possible for me to like write everything I want on a notebook and just affirm "I have everything I wrote down" even if I don’t specifically remember what I wrote down on the moment I affirm it? Or do I need to be more precise?

I heard the law of assumption and i really wanna try. we broke up 1,5 months ago and i broke no contact every week but now 8 days of no contact. i really want her back, i wanna get old and have a lovely family with her. i dont want another man to see her gorgeous eyes or talk to her :/ i've tried everything. could someone help me how can i successfully do this law of assumption. i don't know anything. tried subliminals and started affirmations about that "in the end of the movie we are together, we are just having our time for ourselves now, we are already soul bonded" etc. what are fundamentals and correct way to achieve and not butcher my manifest?

Can anyone give me an idiots guide to meditation? I have watched so many YouTube videos but I don’t think I’m doing it right.

I sit for 15 minutes and try focus on my senses and thoughts but I’m just consciously aware of the fact I am TRYING to meditate and don’t feel any better afterwards

One thing I'd be wary of when consuming manifestation content online, whether that's on Reddit, TikTok, YouTube, Instagram, or anywhere else, is anyone convincing you that a particular technique is what's going to manifest your desire.

The 369 method. SATS. Affirmations. Visualization. Scripting. Subliminals.

None of them are actually doing the manifesting.

The reason this matters is because manifestation isn't a spell that you cast and then sit around waiting to work. You are already manifesting. You have been your entire life. You cannot stop this process.

The only thing you are ever manifesting is who you are.
That's it.

Your assumptions about yourself. Your beliefs about what's possible. Your expectations of what naturally happens in your life. The identity you occupy. The state you repeatedly return to. That's what is creating your experience.

So where do techniques fit into all of this? They have one job, and one job only: to help you become a different version of yourself.

A visualization isn't manifesting your relationship. It's helping you become someone for whom that relationship feels normal. An affirmation isn't manifesting money. It's helping you challenge and replace the assumptions that made financial abundance feel foreign in the first place. SATS isn't manifesting your desire. It's helping you embody the version of yourself who already experiences that desire as part of their life.

If a technique isn't changing who you are, it isn't doing its job.

If you're affirming a hundred times a day but still fundamentally believe you're the person who gets rejected, abandoned, overlooked, or unlucky, then the affirmations aren't creating anything because they haven't changed the state you're living from.

The technique was never the creator. You are.

The techniques simply exist to help you shift your state, because when your state changes, your assumptions change. Your expectations change. Your interpretation of life changes. What feels natural changes.

And when who you are changes, your reality has no choice but to reflect that.

That's why I always say: techniques don't manifest. You do.