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Believing your affirmations isn't necessary

I hear a lot of people say things like "You need to believe in your affirmations."

No, you don't. I mean, you can obviously believe in them, but it's not necessary.

Your subconscious doesn't know whether you think what you're saying is true or not in the 3D.

Personally, I've manifested things by robotically affirming even when I didn't believe them at all. Actually, I was like, "Nah, how can this possibly be true? You're just crazy" lol. But I continued and then it manifested in my reality.

I also think this, forcing the belief, the emotion, "otherwise it doesn't work", can be harmful because someone might start affirming, realize they don't believe it, get frustrated, and eventually give up on manifestation, thinking, "It's all bullshit."

At the end of the day, you are the operant power, so you decide what is true. If you believe you don't have to believe your affirmations, then you don't have to.

Let me know if you've ever manifested something without believing your affirmations.

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The only thing I can't figure out about manifestation

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I've been dwelling in it for a few months now, and I think I got most of it understood pretty well. of course I don't claim to know every single thing, but I know the basics and logic behind it.

The only thing that is between me and my desires is just this: I don't understand how I am supposed to live a life and be satisfied with it without having it in the 3D.

I understand that the 3D is a reflection in delay, I understand it is not as real as the 4D. But we are still humans. and I just can't bring myself to be satisfied without having the physical desire.

For example I'm manifesting an S/P. it's my best friend who I fell in love with hard and she didn't love me back, but the situation got even worse when we got into a huge fight (first big real fight in my life) and everything got 10x as hurtful. now we don't talk at all and I'm even blocked.

The reason I enjoyed this relationship IS because I got these stimulations from it. of getting a text here and a gift there. Because it was nice from the outside world. cause and effect.

Even when I try to visualise these events, they don't feel as good. because I know to expect them, I know that story. it just doesn't feel as real or as satisfying.

So now I have this huge hole in my heart that I need fill, after getting it broken so hard a few months ago. and the pain is still there even after affirming and visualising. and I still find myself wanting to get her to just forgive me.

How am I supposed to find just my mind and my own visualisations satisfying? when the real thing hits my brain and emotions so much harder? it just doesn't make sense for me.

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u/Wide-Counter-2651 — 1 day ago

Manifesting our desires from the fullness of our being.

When I see anyone talk about manifestation, I see they claim to get something or achieve their desires by doing some techniques. There are thousands of posts in this community as to how to manifest doing the perfect technique or about success stories. If you're looking for another technique, then this post is not for you.

This is not a manifestation success story. This is a manifestation failure story for those who are struggling and want peace from this exhaustion.

You are probably asked to persist without thinking negatively, without paying attention to your doubts, fears, or negative circumstances. So, you are persisting, keeping your hopes high. Trying to understand what you are doing wrong.

You have seen that manifestation does work and you are the living example, but when it comes to your deepest desires, it just doesn't manifest.

Meanwhile, this entire process becomes a journey of exhaustion. You began this journey because you wanted to make your life better, feel happier and more fulfilled. But doing technique after technique, you are mentally exhausted, physically tired, and emotionally drained, but you are scared of accepting that as well because you fear that if you think negatively, you will manifest the negative.

So, you are high vibing, but feeling empty inside. Waiting tiredly, but trying hard to live in the end.

Now, what if I tell you that you don't need to do all that to get what you want? What if I tell you your desires are manifesting all the time even if you don't do any techniques?

What if I tell you, you don't need to be working on your resistances, healing, mindset, self-concept, or anything to get your desires fulfilled?

Now why don't you need to do all these things? Because you are not essentially who you think yourself to be.

You might have heard that you are not the mind and body; you are the consciousness. But what is that exactly? And how would knowing that you are consciousness help you get your desires?

Let's first answer the first question. If you search in Google, the AI response says, "Consciousness is the state of being awake and aware of your own thoughts, feelings, and surroundings. It is your inner life and your personal experience of the world."

I find this definition quite appropriate. Consciousness is the awareness with which you are aware, with which you KNOW or ARE AWARE of anything and everything.

Now, if you find the pun here, "with which you are aware," that means it must be something that "you" are not?

Now, if I ask you, who you are? What would you say? Don't answer me from any theory, just answer me from your experience.

There is a famous quote, "I may forget who I am, where I am, what I am, but I cannot forget that I Am." I AM is your experience, right? You might be confused about who you truly are, but you are sure that YOU ARE, right?

Stay with me. I'll guide you deeper into a practical tool.

Now to answer the second question, knowing that you are consciousness will NOT help you unless you actually experience it. Only theoretical knowledge is not helpful at all. You can say "oh, now I know that I am consciousness/awareness and that means I am all that is, one with the source, one with my desires, so I can have it all and now I decide that I have it all." But nothing will practically shift, not even your mental state (except a temporary high, then eventual frustration), unless you see, feel and experience yourself as ALL THAT IS.

So, how to experience it, PRACTICALLY?

Here's some practical guidance:

Try this at a quiet moment by sitting in meditation:

Close your eyes and let your attention relax. Let yourself go deeper, deeper, and deeper into yourself. Let the thoughts come, images come, sounds come - don't fight them... Let them be. Just simply take your attention away from them... Go deeper and allow your attention to expand within. Relax within. As if you're falling asleep.

Now in this relaxed state, try to find yourself. Whoever you know yourself to be - try to find that person. The person is a combination of thoughts, feelings, and emotions.

If you're deep within yourself, you must find that person you call by your name. Where is s/he?

Can you find the solid person? The entity?

There are thoughts - but the thoughts are running in you, there are images - but images are appearing in you, there are feelings - but the feelings are coming and going.

But where is the combination of all of it?

Don't let your mind answer it. Let your experience speak.

Are you really a person who is a combination of these things, or are you the one who is AWARE of it all, OBSERVING it all, KNOWING it all? The one in which everything is appearing and disappearing?

One who is constant, always present, and always unaffected by it all?

When you look for the separate person directly, can you actually find it in your experience?

Experience it yourself, and even during the day, go back to this presence of awareness during all experience.

You and AWARENESS/CONSCIOUSNESS are not separate. You can also call it the Universe because it is ALL THAT IS. You are ALL THAT IS. You are ONE WITH IT ALL. We are all that ONE.

How does this experience help?

This experience helps you to recognize that the self that you are trying to improve, change, or shift doesn't exist. The ego doesn't exist. It is an illusion. And an illusion need not be changed or shifted; it is to be recognized as such.

You are not a person who needs to change their self-concept, improve their thoughts, heal to clear resistances, or do techniques to make yourself feel worthy. The person is an illusion. When you see a mirage in a desert, you don't need to do anything to change it; when you look closer, you see it in its originality as the desert itself. You are also not supposed to do anything to recognize your oneness with everything, including your desires. You just need to look closely, again and again.

This self-recognition is the first step to free yourself from the exhaustion of self-improvement techniques and allow your desires effortlessly. But this is not the only thing needed, and things don't always magically appear by doing this; you also need to take actions. I know it sounds too "unmanifestation-like," and all the manifestation experts will now jump on me to say how they manifested big things without taking any actions. But I'll talk about actions in detail in my next post.

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u/theeternalfreedom12 — 1 day ago

How to manifest a real apology?

me and my boyfriend had a big argument and I have him blocked for a few days so far (he has other accounts where he can message me), we haven't spoken for days, he was really rude during this argument in ways he has never been before, I feel horrible and very shit, I want him to fear losing me, regret how he spoke to me and come to me asap with a deep apology and for both of us to talk things through but especially for him to come back and apologize deeply. Things aren't looking good. Please help me out.

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u/No_Resident9453 — 1 day ago
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Need help with this specific thing!

This thing is bothering me so much would you please help me?

I tell myself that SP is my husband, my fiancé, my life partner. Not yet maybe but he will be. For sure. Yet I do avoid instagram altogether to not see him with new girl/his new movement in 3D.

Well we know that in manifestation we should act as though we have it and If I have it then why am I avoiding instagram?

Am I interfering with my own state by doing so?

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u/Sea_Salary_2027 — 1 day ago

All Of These Limiting Beliefs

I'm sick of seeing you all project your limiting beliefs onto each other.

YOU ARE OPERANT POWER

IMAGINATION IS REALITY

The only reason you're "seeing a delay" is because that's where your mind is currently at. Stop being a victim. The 3D is not "delayed" you are.

You are delaying your own manifestation.

You don't fix that by figuring out more rules to limit yourself with. You do it by realising your power, realising you are reality, and stopping the loop.

The external is just a projection of your collective consciousness. There's no subconscious to convince. It is one.

There is no separation. You are the 3D.

"So what causes the time delay?"

YOU

Stop acknowledging it, the only hard part is letting go of the logical prison you've trapped yourself in to protect your ego.

IT IS ALL YOU

YOU ARE EVERYTHING

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u/[deleted] — 2 days ago

Techniques are Eeeeasy. The real Sh*t is what happens in between.

Every other post on here is about techniques. Affirmations. Visualization. Meditation. SATS. Robotic affirming. This method, that method.

And yeah, that's the easy part. If you can't visualize, just affirm. If you don't know what to say, there's a million example affirmations out there. If you can't sit still, do it while walking. There's always a way.

The techniques? Easy. The materialization in the 3D? That's just the byproduct.

That's what everyone's chasing.

But the real shit? The part nobody talks about?

It's what happens in between.

The gap between doing the technique and seeing it show up.

That's where most people lose their minds.

And here's the thing nobody wants to hear.

The hardest part is doing "NOTHING" (boring and not sexy I know).

Not in a lazy way. But in a "trusting that it's already done" way. And that's exactly what fucks most people over.

Think of it like a long flight. My last one was from London to Bangkok, took like 12 hours. (Loved it there by the way, such a vibe. Met some cool people, ate way too much street food, definitely going back.)

You can spend the whole time staring at the little screen, checking how many hours are left. Looking out the window. Checking again. Asking the flight attendant if there's a faster way. Getting more impatient every second. You could even ask the Stewardess if the pilot can fly faster. But there's no faster way. You're on the plane. It takes what it takes.

Or you can make yourself comfortable. Watch a movie. Have a snack. Take a nap. And before you know it, the pilot says you're landing.

Same flight. Same time. Completely different experience.

Manifesting is exactly like that.

You can do your technique. You can assume it's done. And then you can spend every waking moment checking the 3D, asking where it is, wondering if it's still coming, panicking because you don't see movement.

Or you can just chill.

I know it's easier said than done (I know, I know, I know .... I hated people you said it is done, just chill!)

It was hard for me too at first. I used to check my phone 50 times a day. Looking for signs. Looking for proof. Looking for anything that told me it was working.

And all that checking did was make me feel like shit.

Because the 3D is old news. It's delayed feedback. It's not gonna show you what you just decided. It's gonna show you what you used to decide.

The only way to bridge that gap is to let go of the time. Not the desire. The time.

You already did the work. You already made the decision. Now just live your life. Not because you're giving up. But because you know it's already done.

And that knowing? That's what makes it show up faster (imo).

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u/David_king999 — 2 days ago

Can you manifest a change in behaviour in someone else?

I asked this question on a different sub, specifically wanting to know if I can manifest multiple changes rather than just one at the time.

I got a comment from someone saying that while they have had successfully manifested before, they do not believe you can change someone’s behaviour/personality/thoughts. And after that they suggested I get therapy.

I want to know your thoughts on this, as I am still new to manifesting and it kinda threw me off and made me sad. And if you have any succes stories please share :)!

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u/AspectAdept4171 — 1 day ago

State Akin To Sleep works, people!!

Hi, I am a believer. Let's get straight to the success story. I'm sorry for the long post. Also, this is not scripting. It's real.

I wanted to resolve this one thing which was bothering me and this is something that triggers me a lot. I affirmed a few times, "it's okay, don't worry, it's already handled". I felt good after repeating this but as I mentioned that this situation triggers me so there was a lot of resistance. Next day when that situation happened, I was alone at home. I went to my room and started screaming on myself, I wanted to slap myself. This was the level of resistance I had, this was how much triggering the situation was.

I yelled, "god, show me a sign, what should I do". I cried. Then, being a genz, I picked up my phone after this depressing event. I opened pinterest and the first post was about "State Akin To Sleep". I have read about this earlier as well but never tried it. Then I thought that maybe this is a sign from God.

At night, while doing the STATS, i slept because I was so tired. Lol. But then I woke up at 3am in the morning. I was in a drowsy state so then I thought of doing STATS.

I created a short scene in my head and looped it (where I was telling my brother that the situation is resolved). I felt 3 senses. Hearing, touch and sight. I was hearing what my brother was saying, felt was touching and holding my phone and I was looking at my nails. I looped this scene for like 20 times and then slept.

Next morning, the same situation happened, I was about to spiral but then I just didn't. I felt like, yea whatever, I don't care, it's already handled. And this was the first time in my life that I reacted this calmly to anything triggering this (I am a second child, I shout and cry when something like this happens). I wanted to do the STATS again as my logical mind was fighting and saying that only doing this little cannot be enough, c'mon do some more.

But when I started doing the STATS again, I was not able to do it. My inner voice was saying that, "girl, c'mon, why are thinking about this again, it's already done". I was not able to make the scenario or focus on it again no matter how hard I tried. Because I felt like I don't have to do it even though my logical mind was telling me to do it. So I slept.

Next evening, this situation resolved. I repeat, it's resolved. I'm so happy right now, I'm gonna cry. Thank you God. I know I'm god but my god is greater than I.

My this bitch logical mind is still telling me that this could be coincident. I think we guys should focus on accepting that manifesting is easy.

Happy Manifesting!!

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u/GrassCompetitive4237 — 3 days ago
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just a bit confused .

hey guys, i’ve got a question. here is some context first; i’ll try not to go on a tangent. long story short, i’ve known about the law of attraction since i was relatively young, and lo and behold, it did jackshit for me. then, about a year ago, i learned about the law of assumption, which incited my interest in non-dualism as well as the law of i am. fast forward to now: i’ve manifested “small things” (which could potentially be deemed as not small, but that’s not the point, and i understand that nothing is inherently small or big, it’s merely how you perceive it). from the information i have collated, you simply decide on your desire and stick to that until it shows up in front of you. i’ve heard mixed reviews on this because you are not doing this "until" you get your desire in the 3d. it was some confusing stuff that i’m not going to elaborate on because, one, i actually don't understand what was meant by it well enough to explain to anyone else but i’ll pop it in just in case anyone has seen what i’m referencing and can potentially explain in a clearer way, and two, i don't think my fragmented memory of the information is particularly beneficial anyway. using those principles, i decided i would get a certain set of grades, and in turn, receiving those grades would imply i had gotten into a certain school. when different options of potential outcomes appeared within my awareness (unfavourable circumstances), i continued to stick to who i had decided i was. however, when i received these grades, they were not at all what i had decided on. i genuinely don’t know what i did wrong because i decided and persisted. it could be argued that i didn’t, because when i was given the grades, i accepted the grades as my truth bc it felt futile to persist. could you guys let me know what you think? i have tried to do some self-reflection to see what the root cause was. all i can think is that i knew the exams didn't go particularly how i would have wanted them to go. but then again, i knew there are infinite realities, so it shouldn't matter and that wasn't my story anymore. i have no ideaaa. i don’t use techniques. i don’t know if this is worth mentioning, but i do see the point in them, and if you use them, i’m in full support. i just don’t think they are a necessity or the driving force of what “gets” (it’s already urs) you your manifestation, it's the identity that you occupy is .

the creators on tt that i feel do a great job at explaining are ellieinthe4d, seannn, allis1one, the rosey life, 4dfarah, and lovecoachkaylah. (i think i’ve spelt a few names wrong.)

I might post to the non dualism thread too 🤷‍♀️

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u/NoUnderstanding8541 — 2 days ago
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genuinely what am i doing wrong??

Hi guys im going to start this off by saying, i know how manifestation works, i understand that i am the source, everything happens NOW the moment i decide it in my head and that the 3d is just a lag/not real etc. Im not even desperate for my desire, i dont put my SP on a pedestal and im living my life without the need for validation from the 3d. Everytime i try to manifest on a time crunch, eg i want a text from my sp in an hour, it never ends up working out.
i just decide that ive gotten a text from sp and in my head i visualize the time i want the text at (eg 4 pm) on my phone and visualize looking at the chat at that moment, then i just forget it cus i know its done and move on with my day, today i did exactly that and took a nap. But i woke up to no text. What am i doing wrong?? and pls dont say that its not working cus i said im doing something wrong cus ive tried like 5 times already and each time i genuinely think im going to get a text.

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u/Ill-Stuff-1643 — 2 days ago

It was always this easy

So first of all don't judge me based on my karma because it's a new account

So I've been manifesting for quite some time and I've come across this one issue which is very common that is:

when you already know what to do but you just can't apply that knowledge to work. And specially while manifesting an sp we are emotionally wrecked

So for anyone struggling like that, just remember a few things:

  1. No matter you cry, spiral, bang your head on the wall YOU HAVE TO AFFIRM no breaks no rest days no let me take a moment

  2. You don't need to feel it at all, because your nervous system is manifested as well (the nervous system is a part of 3d) . You are affirming because you have to remind you brain YOU ARE NOT affirming to make you feel better

  3. Just persist man, take 7 days affirm robotically (my fav) for 1k times a day throughout, not in one sitting (only if you're very desperate for your sp otherwise 500 works for a consistent rewiring of the brain)

  4. When you're not affirming just live your life

IT ONLY EVER COMES TO YOU WHEN YOU DONT THINK ABOUT IT. If you're affirming and waiting for a moment for a text or anything at all, I'm sorry it's not working like that

Be sure that if you have affirmed it has to come

"Affirm. Forget. Repeat "

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u/kadvi_soanpapdi — 3 days ago

What are some things I should consider when manifesting a new relationship? Help me brainstorm & share your experiences!

I have had successes with manifesting an SP prior to this. I wrote down a list of things I thought I wanted and assumed many things implied. But I just ended up getting exactly what I wished for… and things I didn’t specify were just making me wish I was more specific with my desire.

I’m going to start afresh. I’m going to make a new list with much more details about the new relationship I want.
This time I really want to settle down, have a family with enjoy the marital aspect of life peacefully.

What are some unusual things you wrote and manifested?

For example: I manifested a person with a specific name and height and ethnicity I desired. I wrote Tall and I ended up getting a guy 6’6ft tall. No regret.

Do share from your experiences if I need to be aware about something? Tips, advice all welcomed!

For example: I didn’t know I had to write specifically how I feel in the relationship.
I ended up feeling everything in the course of the relationship. 😂🫢

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u/TimeSignature5069 — 2 days ago

If manifesting is exhausting you, you are doing it completely wrong.

I see so many people completely burnt out, struggling, frustrated and then posting in here every day saying, "I give up". If your practice is causing you mental exhaustion, it is because your focus is entirely in the wrong place.

Most likely, you are trying to CHANGE the 3D or CHANGE your SP. 

You are treating the physical world like something you have to wrestle into submission, or force your will over. But attempting to change the world before you change your concept of yourself is literally struggling against the very nature of things.

The 3D world is just a giant mirror reflecting your inner state. Trying to change the world by force is as absolutely fruitless as breaking a mirror in the hope of changing your face (~Neville).

The reason you are SO TIRED is because, you are wasting your life force energy on everything "out there."    Which is completely useless. 

Imagine that there is a mirror right in front of you, right this very second.   Now try and force that mirror to show you something you are not already wearing. 

YOU CAN"T!!!!   It's just not the way it works.

I have taken this paragraph from my "Manifesting a SP post" from last year. (It's Pinned in the sidebar)

"This is the problem I see happening in the community constantly.  People trying and trying and trying to change the outside/mirror but not themselves. Each day I am getting more and more concerned about the unhealthy methods that are being pushed to the masses that CAN cause mental and emotional instability. When you are putting ALL your focus on the outside… and not yourself.  You are feeding the outside your life force energy.   This may cause - Emotional ups and downs, mental spirals, emotional spirals, attachment issues, obsession issues and many other mental health issues.   I can safely speak on this.. as my background before I learnt about the law was in mental health."

Every single day we are trying to tell you - there's no one to change but self.

Let me say it again.

There is no one to change but self

There is no one to change but self

Your conception of yourself - How you SEE yourself.  How you SEE yourself in relation to whatever it is you want.

Stop wasting your life-giving energy trying to manipulate people or force circumstances in the 3D. You must leave the mirror and change your face; leave the world alone and change your conceptions of yourself ~  Neville.

Leave the outside alone.  

Who would you be… if you had the thing you wanted.   Put ALLLLLLLLLLL of your focus ON YOURSELF. 

I am in a loving relationship
I am with the love of my life
I have the perfect man/woman as my partner.

Stop trying to change anything outside of you and claim WHO YOU ARE!!

But then..   Decide you are that person NOW... without proof or evidence.  
Don't wait for the 3D to change before accepting it
You have to choose to be that version of yourself without needing proof because it's just who you are choosing to be.     You are not choosing it in order to see proof.  (There's a difference)

Even Bashar always says - NO INSISTENCE on the outcome. 

I am choosing xxxx this because it's WHO I WANT TO BE ..  not because I need evidence or the 3d to show it to me. 

So, if you are one of those people..   The it's too hard..  I am tired, i am exhausted.. I have been doing this for months and seeing nothing..   I give up… 

Where has your focus been?     WAYYY too much on the mirror(the 3d) and not yourself. 

Can you imagine how different you would be, if you refocused all your life force energy on yourself instead of it leaking out and wasting it every day?

Even down to just something so simple like affirming:

I am Happy & Healthy ….  Would make a world of difference to a lot of the people that frequent the manifestation subreddits.  

I think I have put my point across.. Once again. 

Please please please..   Focus on yourself.  YOU are the most important person in your reality.    When you change, the outside will change as a byproduct.

Have an awesome week.

K

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u/gravitybee1 — 4 days ago

My new perspective on manifestation, that has brought my desires into fruition effortlessly

For starters. My affirmations used to look like: • I am the only one SP desires • I am in a relationship with my SP Now my affirmations are: • You are so beautiful my name • Everything always works out for me • Everyone is me pushed out

While yes, these are similar, my second affirmations focus on ME, loving myself. “Everyone is you pushed out” means - how you feel about yourself creates your 3D. Shift your perspective from - how you feel about yourself is how others feel about you, to everyone is you, there is no separation between you and anyone else. No one is separate from you, but you are everyone and everything.

Reality is a mirror of your inner state, your thoughts and feelings. It is always there, that is why manifestation is instant. You can’t cover the mirror while you get to a state where you align with your desire, you decide and it reflects, that is it.

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u/asab0vesobeluwu — 3 days ago

Changed my eyesight using law of assumption!

So I used to have alright eyesight but after COVID, it got really bad (myopia btw), i needed glasses ofc and it continued to get worse (-3 in left eye, -2.5)...in 2024 one day in September, I felt like my eyesight got even worse (i didnt get the checked though) so i locked in with my manifestation game, btw I'm on screen 24/7....I used lots of subliminal, vision board and scripting (i wrote letters to my close frnd who likes to manifest as well talking abt the results as if i already have it) I could feel my eyesight getting better by October, like I knew I could see way better without my glasses, then in february 2025, I got them checked and.....i got -1.25 in my left and 0.75 on my right! they are still the same now lol (i kinda got lazy and focused on manifesting other stuffs but i smtimes listen to eyesight subliminals to make sure it doesnt get worse again)

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u/Wooden_Outcome2050 — 3 days ago

You are a consiouness experiencing itself

Close your eyes. What is there besides you? Nothing.

It's a difficult belief to accept, lonely to some, horrowing to others, but what if you were to expand it fully? What if you were truly one and only consiouness, experiencing itself again and again. What if you were the beginning and the end of the life itself.

There is no hidden hand that guides you throughout the life, no one that pushes the pawns across the board. It's all you in many different forms.

Once you refuse to accept that anyone or anything has autonomy outside of your will, the limits dissolve naturally. In the end - as it was in the beginning - there is you and the expressions of your thoughts, that you can alter momentarily as you wish.

Ponder on this, when you are once more fretting over 3D and unfavorable circumstances. You are the snake, eating its own tail, free yourself.

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u/celtigarheirapparent — 3 days ago

You don’t need to force, perform, or get—You are the Source from which it all flows

Many people come to the Law of Assumption stuck in what feels like an endless loop of doing: endless affirmation loops, checking the 3D, micro-managing self-concept, or treating manifesting like a mechanical chore to "get" something outside of themselves.

If you find yourself exhausted by "trying to manifest," it helps to step back and look at the fundamental foundation of Neville’s core teaching: I AM / Pure Consciousness. ​Here is a breakdown of shifting from seeking to being:

​1. Shift from Seeking/Doing to Pure Being ​When you are coming from a state of trying to get, your underlying assumption is: "I do not have it yet."

The Trap: Focusing heavily on doing techniques solely to fix or change the 3D mirror. This treats the 3D as a separate reality you have to battle or manipulate.

The Assumption: You are not a human trying to manipulate external conditions; you are Consciousness experiencing itself through a physical lens. The moment a desire arises, it exists within your awareness (the 4D). You don't need to struggle to create what is already inherently yours in consciousness.

  1. Stop Wiping the Mirror (EIYPO) ​Neville often spoke about how the outer world is merely a reflection of your inner state of consciousness ("Everyone Is You Pushed Out").

Trying to force or fix external circumstances, people, or reactions without changing your internal state is like trying to wipe a smudge off your face by rubbing the mirror.

The Mirror Principle: You smile at the mirror first, and the mirror reflects the smile back. ​In Practice: Stop giving all your awareness and emotional authority to the 3D reflection. Turn inward, identify with the state of fulfillment, and let the outer reflection catch up naturally.

​3. The Present Moment is a Blank Slate ​A major block for many is clinging to past stories, trauma identifiers, or old 3D patterns:

​"I've always struggled with this..." ​"This person always reacts this way..."

​In pure consciousness, the present moment is always a blank slate. The past only carries momentum into your current experience if you continuously breathe life into it right now through your attention and identification. You have total permission in this exact moment to step out of old identity loops and claim a new assumption.

​4. You Are Not "Getting"—You Are Expressing ​When you realize that your true nature is whole, complete, and unconditioned Consciousness, the entire dynamic of "wanting" dissolves.

​Acknowledge I AM: Recognize your core identity before any labels or conditions. ​Occupy the State: Assume the feeling/knowing of already being the person who has what they desire.

​Rest in Fulfillment: Let go of the urgency to predict "how" or "when" it will show up. Real power isn't loud or anxious—it is quiet, calm, and grounded in knowing.

​Key Takeaway: You don't need to work yourself to exhaustion to prove you deserve what you desire. Claim the state internally, embody the "I AM," and allow the external reflection to conform.

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u/DITDIDAMINDAODINDAO — 4 days ago

If it’s done, why is it taking months?

Saw a post saying it should only take 3 days and it kinda snapped me back

I’ve already decided I have my desire and honestly I’ve felt pretty good in the Sabbath state for the past couple months, but it’s still been months since I consciously started manifesting it and nothing in the 3D yet.

I’m getting impatient now 😭 Like how long am I supposed to stay in the Sabbath state? At the end of the day, we manifest because we wanna experience it in the 3D too, right? I feel fulfilled internally, but I obviously still want to see it physically.

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u/icant_thinkbetter — 4 days ago