I am thinking about getting one, esp. bc I love the phrase, the books, the way Gustav said it when he got shot and the poem ”here, where the world is quiet “
I’m thinking back of my neck maybe? any suggestions?
When the heir wrote: her skeleton will be in the chamber forever.
How did McGonagall know who she was? She did not count any classes and houses(or else she could see Ron and Harry were missing as well)
Do you believe in getting into another relationship shortly after a LTR to forget about the ex and move on? And if you do, does it actually work?
A friend if mine said thats how guys manage break ups and seems stupid to me, honestly!
We know what happened to Sir Nicholas:
Sir Nicholas met lady Grieve while strolling in the park one evening. She was certain he could straighten her crooked teeth, but his attempt to do so backfired, causing her to grow a tusk.
Then the court of king Henry the vii sentenced him to death, execution by an ax. Well, through all of this, from the moment this happened, why didn’t he just erase their memories or just disaparated???
This isn’t much about ballet as it is about my break up. But here goes. I had an amazing 5year relationship. My ex bought me the high-priced leotards I wanted so much. He supported me while I went to another city weekly to learn ballet. Kept motivating me before class. Kept asking me how the class went. I also thought ballet and he kept coming to my class pick me up and got me on date each time after a class. He also got me a very very VERY expensive teacher training course which I dreamed about for years.
He also drive hours and paid for about 5 tickets(for my friends too, since I asked him) to watch my solo in another city.
9 months ago he broke up with me.
And God, I can’t dance.
I can’t teach.
Everything I teach I remember how he was the one buying me the course of my teacher training.
I finally got up to next class of the vaganova course (kept dreaming about this) but it does not make me happy.
I remember how he kept pushing me for every class and I just want to cry.
I want to dance solo again but I remember that this time I have no cheerleader who drives hours to watch me and it just cracks me open.
I lost every desire to pursue something that has been my passion for 11 years.
And I don’t see a way out.
Does it hurt for the person who wanted to leave a loving long term relationship too? does it hurt for them to see the ex with someone new? to move on from them? to see them getting married to someone else?
My ex (25M) and I (26F) started dating five years ago. From the very beginning, I was clear that I wanted to save myself for marriage. He wasn’t entirely on board, but he eventually agreed. Our sexual activity mostly consisted of hj and bj, which worked for him, but I never reached climax with him—a fact I finally shared after two years.
That was very hard for him to hear. He tried many times afterward and also told me that this mismatch in our libidos was really bothering him.I also never initiated the intimacy which was also bothering him. It was important to him that I also enjoyed myself in our ”activities”. Eventually, in our third year, he proposed(due to saving for marriage stuff), but I turned him down.(I felt so young to be married and he was so young too)
Later, he moved 16 hours away for work, and when he returned, he was depressed and told me that he no longer felt any sexual desire for me. It’s been almost a year since we broke up, and he is now dating someone else who is more sexually open.
Despite everything, I still love him so much. Now that I’ve moved out of my parents' house and am living in a new city, I find that I have a much higher libido(oppressed by a strict family due to cultural beliefs) and want to explore many things, but the person I want to explore them with is no longer attracted to me. What I do know is that he definitely loved me deeply, and I loved him just as much; that love never truly ended. It breaks my heart so much to see him with the new girl and yet I deserve that I guess.
I cant get over the fact that my ex is seeing someone else. I have been in therapy for 8 months mostly talking about him. I feel like my therapist had enough of it(he never said nor do anything to show it, but I assume he must be)
Can I talk about the same thing to him again? am I being boring
I (26f) was ok. I swear to god, I was. after the break up I cried but after a month I was fine, and then I was fine for 4 months. then one day I knew(just knew) that he is seeing someone. and it broke me. been 3 months since that and it does not go away. I see her profile, her like under his posts, his selfies from probably his dates and god it is killing me. I keep remembering all those 5 years together, how he was so sweet. How I hurt him, and I can never believe that it ended like that. Im alone now, no love, not ever maybe. And he moved on.