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Saw a post saying it should only take 3 days and it kinda snapped me back

I’ve already decided I have my desire and honestly I’ve felt pretty good in the Sabbath state for the past couple months, but it’s still been months since I consciously started manifesting it and nothing in the 3D yet.

I’m getting impatient now 😭 Like how long am I supposed to stay in the Sabbath state? At the end of the day, we manifest because we wanna experience it in the 3D too, right? I feel fulfilled internally, but I obviously still want to see it physically.

Need some advice because I genuinely don't know what I'm doing wrong anymore.

Before anyone tells me I'm "checking the time," "not in the wish fulfilled," or that the fact I'm posting this means I'm not living in the end, please hear me out.

I can honestly say that for the past 6 months I've seen zero results for this specific manifestation. And I can also say with certainty that I have been in the wish fulfilled. I've affirmed, visualized, done SATS, and spent so much time imagining a relationship with my SP that it genuinely felt normal to me. If anything, I think I've lived in my imagination more than reality.

The only reason I'm making this post now is because after 6 months of seeing absolutely no movement, I'm trying to figure out what I might be doing wrong. I'm not posting because I'm looking for validation that it'll happen—I'm posting because I feel like I've exhausted everything I know.

To make things harder, I have less than a month left, so while I know we're "not supposed to focus on time," I have a very real deadline that I can't ignore.

What confuses me the most is all the contradictory advice. Some people say feelings don't matter and you just need to persist. Others say if you're anxious or have doubts, that's exactly why it isn't manifesting. Some say ignore the 3D completely, while others say you shouldn't separate the 3D and 4D.

So for the people who had months of absolutely zero movement and still got their manifestation, what changed? What finally made things click? Because I genuinely feel like I'm missing something, and I'd really appreciate hearing from people who've actually been where I am.

Hi all. I've been manifesting my SP for over 6 months and I just feel so hopeless.

I keep going back and forth between feeling so confident that this will work and feeling like I'm completely delusional. Every time I get into a good headspace, something in the 3D happens and sends me spiralling again. I know people always say to ignore the 3D, but I genuinely don't know how when it's the one thing constantly triggering me.

I also feel like I see so much contradictory advice on here. Some people say ignore the 3D, others say don't separate the 3D and 4D. Some say your feelings and emotions don't matter and you'll manifest whatever you persist in, while others say you need unwavering belief and conviction or doubts will block it. I don't even know what to believe anymore.

The frustrating part is I've had both successes and failures with manifestation. I've manifested huge things in my academics, social life, physical appearance, and other areas, so I know it can work. But my SP is one of my biggest desires, and this is the one thing that feels impossible.

I know I'm not supposed to focus on time, but I'm on a very real time crunch now. I have less than a month left, and it's getting harder not to panic. I want to keep persisting because part of me genuinely believes this can still work somehow, but another part of me just feels exhausted and defeated.

Has anyone else been in this position and actually turned it around? I could really use some hope right now.

*Reposting bc I forgot to add some key points sorryy*

Hi all. First off, I do believe in manifestation. I've had some certainly impossible stuff materialize in front of me. But theres times i too lose hope :(

So im manifesting an SP, and I’ve been living in the end and feeling fulfilled in my head, but nothing in real life is changing.

Are we actually supposed to see 3D results, or are we just using imagination as a coping mechanism? What am I missing?

I recently read in another manifestation related subreddit that "in sp manifestations, one can't interfere with the desires of the other person. We all have free will. If that specific person has their mind elsewhere, the manifestation won't manifest". How true does this hold? I've had minor success with my sp manifestation witha 6 year 3p involved, but this read up destroyed my motivation to move ahead. Looking back, the 3d did seem to get worse whenever i *actually* locked in.

Hi all. Lowk stupid qn

Yesterday I manifested Argentina to win the World Cup final. I manifested their previous matches too, and they literally won every single time (even last-minute wins 💀). So this time i didnt have a sigle shred of doubt if they'd win. I was 100% sure with zero resistance.

...and then they had a historic defeat 😭

Now I'm just sitting here like ??? because this is the first time I've felt like a manifestation straight-up didn't happen.

The reason I'm tweaking is because I'm also manifesting my SP. I've already gotten movement and contact, but not the full end result yet.

So why did my wc manifestation fail even tho i had zero resistance? and does that mean my SP can fail too?

Would love to hear your thoughts 🫶🏻

I'm honestly close to giving up. I've manifested plenty of big and small things before, so it's not that I don't believe in the law. But manifesting my SP has completely exhausted me.

I'm so tired of being in this "trying" state. It feels like I'm constantly trying to get my manifestation instead of just having it. Every negative thought comes up and I flip it, I remind myself of the end. It feels like I'm trying 24/7, and I've read so many times that the whole point is to stop trying and just be. But that advice has never really clicked for me. I don't know how to stop feeling like I'm chasing my manifestation instead of already having it.

And if my sp is a mirror, why am i seeing quite the opposite veing reflected? There's also a 3P involved, which makes it even harder not to feel discouraged.

I have ADHD/OCD tendencies, so constantly monitoring and correcting my thoughts almost feels automatic. I don't know how to switch that off.I guess my question is: How did you actually get out of the "trying" state? I'm genuinely asking because I'm exhausted and feel like this is the thing keeping me stuck.

I have ADHD and OCD, and the 3D trips me up so easily. If my SP takes time to text back or seems distant, my brain immediately jumps to "he hates me," "he doesn't want me," "hes choosing the 3p", etc. This also makes me obsessively check and not detach from 3D.

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For anyone who manifested an SP while dealing with ADHD, OCD, or anxiety, what helped you stop reacting to the 3D and detach from it

I have ADHD and OCD, and the 3D trips me up so easily. If my SP takes time to text back or seems distant, my brain immediately jumps to "he hates me," "he doesn't want me," "hes choosing the 3p", etc.

For anyone who manifested an SP while dealing with ADHD, OCD, or anxiety, what helped you stop reacting to the 3D and detach from it

I have OCD/ADHD and it’s genuinely making manifesting so much harder. Every time I finally lock in, feel like I’m in the end state, and fully believe it’s mine, I check the 3D and either there’s no movement or the circumstances get even worse.

And once I spiral, I SPIRAL. The intrusive thoughts get unbearable and the 3D starts feeling way too real and overwhelming. The worst part is that even after spiraling, I always pull myself back into the end state again. I work on my self concept and I’ve manifested other things before, but my SP still isn’t here and the constant bad 3D keeps making me spiral harder.

I still get tiny wins here and there, which is why I’m confused and haven’t given up yet. I’ve been manifesting my SP for 6 months, there’s a 3P involved, and I’m also on a time crunch. Has anyone had success with deep intrusive thoughts while manifesting sp? Im lost and confused, questioning everything i know abt the law

People keep saying you can still manifest while being obsessed, attached, anxious, reacting to the 3D, spiraling, crying, overthinking, etc. Everyone says “you do NOT need to detach.”

Okay then WHY is mine still not here???

Because I am all of those things 🫠 This is something I want and need SO badly, and I’m on a time crunch too, so obviously I’m anxious 24/7.

But I still persist anyway. Even after spiraling over the 3D, I STILL affirm, live in the end, and trust it’s mine. I’ve been doing this consistently for 6 MONTHS.

And the “3D is a mirror” thing confuses me because internally my self-concept is WAY better than before. I’m genuinely not the same person mentally anymore. So why is my 3D still showing the opposite 😭

The worst part is that I have manifested other things before, even big things, so I KNOW manifestation is real. That’s why this specific manifestation is slowly making me lose hope little by little.

If anyone has manifested while being anxious, attached, obsessive, reactive, emotional, etc PLEASE help because I feel so lost rn. And please don’t just say “detach” because how are you supposed to detach from something you desperately want while being on a literal time crunch

Is it actually possible to manifest on a time crunch while actively worrying about the time crunch? Or does that just become a limiting belief?

I’ve been manifesting sp for 6 months and there HAS been movement (texts, attention, better behavior, signs, etc) so I know it’s working to some extent. But the actual end state/full commitment still isn’t here, and honestly I’m not satisfied with the breadcrumbs.I feel like I’ve been “in the state” for so long already. There’s also technically a 3P involved but I literally don’t give energy to that situation at all.

We’ll probably part ways in around 3 months because of life circumstances, and the fear of time running out is making me spiral a little.

Has anyone gone from inconsistency to a full committed relationship in like 2-3 months? What changed for you?

Is it actually possible to manifest on a time crunch while actively worrying about the time crunch? Or does that just become a limiting belief?

I’ve been manifesting sp for 6 months and there HAS been movement (texts, attention, better behavior, signs, etc) so I know it’s working to some extent. But the actual end state/full commitment still isn’t here, and honestly I’m not satisfied with the breadcrumbs.I feel like I’ve been “in the state” for so long already. There’s also technically a 3P involved but I literally don’t give energy to that situation at all.

We’ll probably part ways in around 3 months because of life circumstances, and the fear of time running out is making me spiral a little.

Has anyone gone from inconsistency to a full committed relationship in like 2-3 months? What changed for you? Or if anyone here has ever manifested something successfully on a time crunch, please help.

I genuinely need help because I feel so lost rn.

Me and my SP have been in this hot-and-cold FWB/push-pull situation for a while and there’s been a 3P involved from the start — his girlfriend. Recently he’s gone like 90% no contact and I feel like absolute shit.

The thing is I’ve been consciously manifesting this for 5 MONTHS now. And I genuinely have seen movement. I’ve manifested contact back multiple times whenever he pulled away before. Most of the time I do feel like I’m in the wish fulfilled. But the full relationship/conformity I want is still not here 😭.

What sent me spiraling was a friend telling me that maybe SP actually loves the girlfriend because she has stronger boundaries physically, while I became “just the physical girl” because I let things happen in the FWB dynamic. Basically implying girls like her get chosen seriously and girls like me don’t.

Ever since hearing that I’ve been questioning my entire self concept

I’ve literally been crying over this and I just want honest advice from people who actually understand manifestation/SP stuff. If I’ve been persisting for 5 months, what am I missing?