r/manifestingSP

I’ve noticed a lot of sp stories are about people who had an established connection with already whether it’s breaking no contact, exes, mutual liking.

Does anyone have a story where they *just* started liking someone and then successfully manifested a relationship with them? Like from scratch. The other person doesn’t even necessarily like you “yet” in the beginning.

Hey everyone, I wanted to make this post to inspire others. It’s hard to put everything in a little post. I was dating a guy for around 1.5 months but it moved super fast. He randomly dumped me and I was very sad. I do want to preface that I didn’t actually want a relationship with this guy as he had many bad qualities I.e wasn’t tall enough for me, didn’t drive, was tight with money, never made me laugh etc. but it was the first guy I had slept with in a long time so I kind of got addicted to having that validation and liked someone liking me I guess! Anyways when he ended things I was crying and pretty upset but I accepted what he said on the phone call and immediately went no contact. I stopped crying the next day because I have the belief “they always come back” and I also was glad that it was over in a way because I was like now I can meet my husband. But of course my ego wanted an apology text from him and I thought it would be fun to manifest. I’m so grateful he hurt me too because whenever I get my heart stomped on I LEVEL UPP fast. To the point where I don’t know the girl I was a month ago. I’ve had multiple sps since he broke it off with me (which was 1.5 months ago fyi) and was just having fun and didn’t care about him or really think about him anymore. I worked on my self concept with affirmation tapes, talking to myself, and going gym. I started attracting soo many guys that were way hotter and more my type than SP. On the first of July I felt energy shifting an insane amount. I know mercury is in retrograde or something so maybe that’s why but I actually cried when I saw the full moon a few nights ago because I was so happy. Curious to know if anyone else felt this? But I knew this would be a weird and abundant and magnetic month. So much so that I made a video stating how I know this months gonna be wild on the 1st of July. Anyways a few things happened over the last few days where I was manifesting instantly. Like I would think of something and it would happen in a matter of minutes or that day. My manifesting powers were highhh. This morning I’m eating breakfast and I said out loud to myself “I know X is texting me soon”. 5 minutes later I open my phone and there’s a paragraph from him apologising and asking if we can try again etc. it was sent “5 minutes ago” which is exactly the time I was thinking I know he’s gonna text me.

People are going to ask about techniques and yes I listened to subs, affirmation tapes, etc but that’s not what really creates the text guys. It’s a state. Over the last month I got into a state of telling myself constantly I’m so hot, I’m so attractive, all guys love me etc and that’s been reflected in my 3D. It’s really hard to explain over a Reddit post and I don’t want to bore anyone. But you just need to have an undeniable belief that they miss you terribly and are going to reach out. The way you get that belief is by affirming and knowing you are THAT girl!! Ignoring the 3D is key. I unfollowed him so I wouldn’t check his followers and if he was liking girls pictures. When I saw he followed new people I just affirmed “he’s trying to get over me with other girls but he’ll never find one like me” or “these girls won’t be interested in him” etc.

I didn’t even respond because I don’t want him back. It’s funny I wanted this text all month and now I just feel like oh it’s here now. What do I want to manifest next?

One of the biggest mistakes I see people make with SATS has nothing to do with the SATS session itself.

Most people know what SATS is. You close your eyes, relax into a state akin to sleep, and experience yourself as the version of you who already has what you desire. Some people visualize. Some hear a conversation. Some focus on a feeling. It really doesn’t matter how you do it. The point of SATS is to experience the end and decide: yup, that’s what I’m going to experience.

But what if I told you that you can do a perfect SATS session at night, only to spend the entire next day undoing it?

That’s what so many people are doing without realizing it. You finish your SATS feeling peaceful and certain, and then life happens.

You see a happy couple walking down the street and suddenly you’re reminded of how alone you are. You watch a romantic film and instead of thinking “I can’t wait for mine” you find yourself wondering why it hasn’t happened yet. You start questioning whether you need another affirmation, another visualization, another technique because maybe you haven’t done enough.

None of those thoughts are necessarily saying: my desire isn’t coming, but they are coming from the version of you who believes it isn’t full yours yet. That’s the important distinction.

SATS isn’t just about feeling good for ten minutes before bed. It’s about deciding who you are. The rest of your day is simply an opportunity to continue being that person.

If you’ve truly assumed your desire, then when life presents you with reminders of it, your internal response naturally changes. A happy couple becomes: I’m excited because that’s unfolding for me too. Someone else’s success becomes evidence of what’s possible, not evidence of what’s missing. You stop feeling like you need to force your manifestation because you already trust it’s unfolding.

That doesn’t mean you’ll never have moments of doubt. You’re human. But when you notice yourself slipping back into the old perspective, don’t keep telling that story all day. Pause. Remind yourself what you’ve decided is yours. If you need to, spend a minute reconnecting with your SATS scene. Feel it again. Return to the assumption.

Your SATS session isn’t meant to be a temporary escape from your reality. It’s meant to introduce you to the version of yourself you’re choosing to live as. So stop undoing your SATS every time you open your eyes.

So I’ve manifested my sp back we’re in contact but he’s very closed off to the idea of us and I’ve been persisting but there’s almost no movement idk how to get him to conform

Soooo

These past few days I've been growing, letting go, and honestly vibrating at a very high frequency, and the signs have tripled!!! It's insane.

Angels numbers are everywhere I look at and I've been seeing random videos on different social media platforms that are so specific it's SCARY.

As I am writing from the airplane on my way back to Germany I have seen that my SP (pretty sure it’s her) created a fake profile on instagram (it’s been a while) and followed me. I accepted the request, and for a couple of days I’ve been thinking about her and then I decided to slid into her DMs asking if we know each other?

She read it and deleted her profile. I know it’s her. She missed me like crazy. I would too if I was her haha!

Okay, I saw a story from my SP’s best friend showing that he and his best friend are traveling to Croatia. Honestly, I did feel something in my chest at first, but I calmed myself down. To be honest, I feel like I don’t really care anymore. Still, manifesting my SP feels exhausting when you see things in the 3D, like they’re out there enjoying life while you’re here putting your energy into it. What advice would you give me?

Kings and queens let me tell you something, I finally dropped that loser of a sp I had.

So let me start where it began, I was in a situationship with someone extremely emotional abusive, who could not care less if I lived or died. (This guy was said sp btw.)

I begged and begged and begged and the last text he sent me was „What the fuck is wrong with you I don’t want to do anything with you.“

I was naive and in love so day and fucking night I manifested and manifested and manifested.
I did in fact see movement, such as him lingering on my account, unfollowing me, and then lingering on my account AGAIN.
Meanwhile I also manifested for my self concept, affirming things like „I am worthy of love.“, „I am the relationship people feel lucky to have.“, „my beauty is unmatched and unique.“, etc. and in the time I did that, for some reason, a lot of people from the past came back, showing me truly what I am worth, such as older friends, my ex (don’t worry we are NOT together again) and even new people I met.
And they are all showing me how lovable and beautiful I am. I was still stuck on my sp though.

Yesterday I saw a post of his friend. SP was posted up with another girl, drinking alcohol, both clearly very drunk. This isn’t the first time I saw a post like this on said friends account. Everytime it was a different girl even.
So I got extremely disgusted and decided to change my assumptions from „He needs me and loves me“ to „He’s a fucking loser who drinks his feelings away.“,
„He’s an abusive piece of shit who treats every girl extremely badly.“ because that’s just how it fucking is.
Last assumption I made up was „He still constantly thinks of me, because he knows what he lost.“

And that was it. Just like that I let go of him. Even if he changed and came back like I manifested first, I wouldn’t want someone with a past like that to ever be in a relationship with me. Someone who treats women like this doesn’t even deserve to be able to look my way.

What I am trying to tell you here: If the person you’re trying to manifest is or has been abusive to you, doesn’t matter if it was emotionally or physically, you should definitely work on your self concept before trying to manifest this person back.
The self concept work showed me who I truly am and it showed me my true worth.
Just like that you will see how much you really need this person, and just like that you will see how much this person really needs you. (And he does need me, but he is a loser I don’t want anymore.)
This is also why I am saying analysing your 3d is NEVER bad, because it genuinely helps you work on yourself.

I hope I could inspire some people who read this right now because it helped me a lot :)

I started learning about manifesting about two and a half months ago, and I’ve been practicing it ever since.

At first, I had no problem writing future journal entries and visualizing my desired reality. But after a while, I couldn’t think of anything to write anymore, and visualization became difficult too.

So I started listening to subliminals while doing robotic affirmations. For a few days, I felt calmer and more at peace, but that feeling didn’t last.

Now I can’t stop checking the 3D. I keep looking at her Instagram, checking if she’s online on Steam, and even looking at her game stats. I know I shouldn’t, but I can’t seem to stop.

The hardest part is that I can’t get rid of the feeling that it’s really over between us.

I really need some advice. Has anyone else been through this? If so, what helped you get out of it?

I was happy and at peace, but today I feel like giving up and not because I'm at peace. I'm feel like crying today.

I've been manifesting for the past two months. I did everything I could to get into the state of already having what I want. I just loved him, and I don't feel like I deserve everything I'm going through right now. I also worked on my sc

I deserve to be loved and chosen. I deserve to be free from this loop.

I still want him, but at the same time, I feel like giving up.

I've been seeing a lot of angel numbers(111,222,122), and I've been taking them as signs that I'm on the right path. But I even asked the universe not to give me signs or breadcrumbs anymore. I deserve the whole loaf of bread, not just crumbs.

Idk what's happening. Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced something like this?

is it possible to manifest sp back after we are the one who ruined the relationship ? im carrying so much guilt and shame because i kept hurting him due to my anxious attachment and get angry at him over small things. we’re doing long distance and there’s so mucn misunderstandings between us when i didn’t intend to hurt him..

How to manifest a call and message from sp during no contact situation?? I have tried almost every manifestation method and ignored the 3D as well but still not getting a small movement..is the law of assumption really working or is it a myth? Kindly advice..I am thinking of giving up but before that one last try..

hi all- i am manifesting my sp for couple of weeks now, trying to stick to the new assumptions but the 3D shows very different stuff, she has blocked me from everywhere and recently she was talking to someone abt me that i got to know where she said i have no self respect and that she feels nothing at all for me and that i should go away, ik the circumstances doesnt matter but she doesnt seem to be the person who would come back after all this

pls help a fellow manifestor out on this

Have I ruined my manifestations by breaking no contact?

okkkk so i lost my previous acc details but i got my sp through wavering, doubts, crash outs. awareness plays a very important part in this (my assumption and i also didnt know what it fully is until now) and also whatever meaning you assign to shit, the world is literally your canvas. i told myself that wavering means he regrets losing me, doubts mean he is thinking about me overtime, like i am the source of his needs and he is losing it without me and all the crash outs meant he is crying over me, he cant survive without me.

he came back exactly with the pink flowers (lillies and tulips), the same black jacket, cap, top, shoes, weather, everything i wanted.

if i could do it, lol YOU CAN DO IT. JUST BE CONSISTENT. <3

LOVE

Obviously I’m never going to talk to him again but people say everything comes from us because we are source but I refuse to believe I created that. Some people are just abusive and that’s that.

this is my first post ever on reddit so, i am going to keep this brief, but also share any important info!

i have been consciously manifesting my sp for months now. i would also say consciously very loosely as i now realize the ways i was still holding space for the “old story.”

sp and i have been in a relationship, but have broken up due to my poor self concept and my negative assumptions about relationships in general. which resulted in no contact for a year now. none of that matters because circumstances do not matter.

i’ve robotically affirmed, visualized, and declared sp as mine. which is fine, however, i was not persistent in living in the end. after a few days of being consistent, living in the end, i would get bored because i craved proof that it was working. that boredom soon turned into forgetting about being consistent so, i would check the 3d.

whether it was checking his social medias, looking for signs, and overall just notice the lack of movement. i didn’t realize i was checking the 3d because i would say “oh well, as long as im saying my affirmations, it wouldn’t hurt just to check.”

and well, YES it did hurt my progress. although i was saying my affirmations and watching my thoughts, i would seek out proof of the old story and my old assumptions.

lo and behold, that resulted in unfavourable circumstances manifesting. the opposite of what i wanted materializing in my 3d reality.

sp has a 3p…oh no the horror.

i didn’t accidentally manifest that, i manifested that because i wasn’t holding myself and thoughts accountable. “i wonder if sp moved on?” so i would check. “i wonder if he still follows my social medias?” nope, he would unfollow a few days later. “i am going to check his insta for fun…no other reasons ofc.” he has 3p as his profile picture.

even if those weren’t my dominant thoughts, i still gave in and checked the 3d because i still held some of those prior assumptions about myself and the relationship.

so that brings me to my question.

i am in this weird limbo of wanting to push past this as i want sp to worship the ground i walked on once before to wanting to give up manifesting my sp entirely.

it’s weird, this almost completely shattered the vision and dream i built of our relationship. i often ask myself “do i even want sp?” i know i do, but not at the cost of burning myself out.

how would you push past the “wanting to give up” phase after the opposite shows up in the 3d?

any advice would be greatly appreciated.

- everytime I think about them it's because they were thinking about me first.

- my excitement only makes me manifest faster. The more excited I am about their message, the more excited they are to send it.

- they love me ten times more than I love them.

- manifesting is as easy as breathing for me.

- I don't need to do anything in order to get my desired, it is already mine.

- he is so obsessed with me.

- he wants to reach out so bad he's going insane.

- I am worthy of their love and devotion.

- in their mind, only I exist. there is no point of comparison.

- they want me so desperately they're going insane without me.