u/cuntology001

I recently went through a breakup. He said the reason was he couldn’t get past something I did before our relationship when we were supposed to be in an exclusive situationship. I feel really sad about it, and honestly I’m manifesting hard for him to come back — I believe he’s mine. But at the same time I feel this weird lightness, and some resentment too, because it was so easy for him to walk away. He didn’t even celebrate my birthday, which I know is a red flag. Still, I want him to chase me, ask for forgiveness, and be the man I want — because I really do love him, and I think he loves me too. But I keep spiraling into ‘what if there’s someone else.’ I’m trying to do a mental diet, but I keep flip-flopping between letting go and wanting him back. so please help me out 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 like what should i do please.

My boyfriend and I broke up on August 16, 2026, after seven to eight months together because he couldn't get over the things I did before our relationship, despite all my efforts to help him move past it. I initially accepted the breakup calmly, but I've since been trying to manifest him back through subliminals, journaling, and affirmations. While I felt emotionally fine yesterday because I was busy at college with my friends, being at home today triggered everything. In the morning, I tried calling him and realized he blocked my number and WhatsApp, so in a moment of impulse, I texted him on iMessage—an action I now deeply regret as I try to figure out what to do next.

i need help regarding the past like i don’t think negatively but i keep thinking about the past and whatever happened. and i don’t want to it makes me sad so pls give me some advice on how to deal with this.

okay so my bf wants to meet me tomorrow and its my bff’s bday i have tried everything in me to make him cancel to not come but he’s being persistent what do i do pls help

Yesterday my boyfriend and I had a fight because he went to the gym without telling me, like he always does, and I missed him, so I was upset. He came back, and told me lovingly 2-3 times, but then he got upset too and just ghosted my last message. Now I don’t know why this happened because I wasn’t even thinking negatively. Anyway, I spiraled and texted him, and we had this huge argument. He says if I have ego, he has even more of it, and this is because I didn’t text first during the break, which he asked for. I explained to him that if I always used to text first and now you’ve done it once, it’s not a big deal, etc. But now he says, ‘okay I understand, now everything will be equal between us,’ emphasizing the ‘equal’ part, and I’m scared — what if he cheats, because I used to talk to my ex before the relationship, which he considers cheating. I just want advice or help on how to change this because I can’t even understand why this happened in the first place.

hi okay so few days ago i asked the universe to remove all my fake friends (if any) and idk since then this bff of mine from college has abruptly stopped talking to me. so i have this question that whether it is the universe protecting me or just something unrelated to whatever i asked?

okay so i was THRIVING like i had my anxiety under control, no negative thoughts, no fear of anything bad happening but the past few days i have been feeling a little anxious and yk feeling like something is bad going to happen and i try to regulate my nervous system and address these negative thoughts but idk it is still happening. i affirm every night and morning tho. and that’s it. the bad something going to happen fear is mostly related to my relationship. pls help if anyone has any insight on this <3

i keep switching between detachment and missing him wanting to text him ughhhhhhh whyyyyyyy

i was in a situationship before November with my bf, made some (not all) mistakes during the situationship under a female friend's influence. however, even in the relationship he used to leave me bcs of the past stuff and i would apologise and try to convince him to stay. my boyfriend gave me an ultimatum in March to cut off that friend. She is my only college friend, so i reduced contact but couldn't avoid her completely.

Today, while i was traveling from college back to the station, i was with that friend. my boyfriend called me at that moment and found out i was with her. He became extremely angry because he felt i violated the boundary/ultimatum he had set.

In his anger, he told me that he wants a breakup. Feeling overwhelmed, i told him that i didn't want to talk about it at that exact moment. He responded with a dismissive "Fine, whatever and bye”. Since that, he has not texted or called me at all.

also the thing is im tired of proving him that im not repeating stuff or doing the same things, i just want him to trust me and love me. now im in a state of confusion, wondering what my next step should be. so please help me out.

okay so this is going to be a long one…..me and my current bf before getting into a relationship we were in a situationship (exclusive kinda) and during that situationship i had done some mistakes like reaching out to my ex and talking to his friend (the friend one wasn’t anything) anyway so we were very toxic bcs of that and whenever these things happened he would leave me and i would yk apologise and get him back etc etc now these stuff , i won’t say everything but somewhat were due to my friend influence.

we have been in a relationship since november and had so manyyyy ups and downs like he would just randomly leave me bcs of the past and i would yk apologise to him for days and he would come back but since march , when he told me i had to choose between me and my this friend (i chose him) , we were doing okay.

now the case is that she is my only friend in college and i have reduced contacts with her but it is not possible to yk avoid her since as i said my only friend so now i have resorted our friendship to be limited to just college. like she would meet me in college and that’s it.

i had my exam today and i was going back to the station from my college with her. he called me and when he got to know that i was with her he got very upset and told me basically to just breakup. before me would go into a spiral but now im just tired of all this and although it is making me sad but this just keeps on repeating and i want a healthy relationship, a healthy start. i made mistakes which im forever sorry for but now im not that person anymore. so yea what should i do? should i convince him to stay like i used to (but i don’t even have that capacity in me) or what please help me out. thankyou.

okay so today my bf did something that i was upset about and after 2-3hrs he texts me that he is an uncle now im very glad very happy about that but obviously i was a little sad so i try to bring that topic up subtly didn’t even make an issue out of it but he became so agitated and so angry that he broke up and said stuff like “i swear i wont text you” im not spiralling though bcs the other day i randomly asked the universe to show me a green car if he’s the one and i saw a green car but idk what should i do???? can anyone pls help me out

for a long time i used to be the most attached person. it used to be physically impossible for me to let go someone no matter the amount of disrespect they would throw at me.

however, the past couple of months have changed me a lot im actually not clear if it’s self concept or listening to subliminals i don’t know but it has helped to not spiral over situations or people.

i have a boyfriend who i love very much but the things between us used to be tense. from us falling apart so frequently to being so much closer to each other it has all been possible because of detachment.

one recent example of manifestation that i would like to add is that i was manifesting him (my bf) to come visit me in my hometown (he lives 2hrs away and we usually meet e/o in the middle). i manifested this like it happens very often (eg - he keeps on visiting my hometown) and i did this for idk 2-3 days only and then stopped BUT today he told me that he will be coming to visit me in my hometown the next coming week. 😋😋😋😋. im sooo happy also he’s much more obsessed, much more in love with me.

so yes manifestation does work and detachment is THE key for it to come true (saying this bcs when i also manifested while spiralling and i didn’t get shit).

guys i don’t why but whenever i go to meet my bf i get this feeling of fear (even from days before the meet) that something will go wrong and we will have a fight where i will be wrong about something (like i did something wrong) ughh plsss help me out im going to meet him soon and the fear has already started creeping in my heart. 😢😢😢😢😢

so i have been preparing for this exam and i have been manifesting a certain job and clearance of the exam but i also have been avoiding going out and stuff so that i can study but like i said i have been manifesting so in my mind the exam is already cleared i know i will get my dream rank and job but does not going outside hinders my manifestation?

okay so im in a relationship (a very rough one) we had many ups and downs before the relationship and even while at the beginning of the relationship and honestly the major issue with me has been my habit of lying and i live in this constant fear of my partner leaving me im trying to yk think positive and stuff but sometimes it’s very hard so please please someone help me out :/

okay so i just want to manifest this specific date with my bf where he visits my hometown. earlier i have asked him multiple times to just visit once but he always says that the distance is too much. idk how should i manifest this but pls help