r/ManifestationSP

So, I've successfully manifested my SP many times, getting results.
Normally, I'm advised to stay away from tarot (to avoid being swayed, as I'm a bit weak; I still do it occasionally, but I usually remind myself not to believe in the results of the readings).
But recently, when I tried to manifest again, something kept making me think about tarot and doing readings repeatedly.
And the results were very bad, not cards about hesitant SPs or anything like that, but cards about "letting go" (Death, Six of Cups reversed, etc.). I want to emphasize the continuous frequency of these "letting go" cards (previously, I occasionally had bad readings, but mostly about hesitant SPs, SPs not thinking clearly, etc., which were neutral).
Is this because Mercury is retrograde? Or is it because I really should let go?

Hi everyone,

I hope this is okay to post here. I’m asking if even one or two people could please pray with me, as Jesus says that where two agree in prayer, our Father hears us.

I’ve been going through a really painful breakup with someone I deeply loved and thought I might build a future with. There had been talk of marriage, children, meeting family, and making real plans together, but then he pulled away and ended things. I’ve stayed no contact and tried to keep my dignity, but my heart is honestly broken.

This has brought up a lot of older wounds for me too — abandonment, betrayal, feeling used, and feeling like I’m never fully chosen by the men I love. I’ve had relationships in the past where I was cheated on, left suddenly, or made to feel like I wasn’t enough, and this situation has reopened a lot of that pain.

I’m praying for God’s will above all. If this man is meant to come back with love, repentance, clarity, and real commitment, I pray God makes a way. If he is not for me, I pray God gives me the strength to release him, heal properly, and be led toward a safe, stable, faithful love.

Please pray for my heart, my nervous system, my peace, and my faith. Please pray that I do not lose hope, but also that I don’t cling to anything God is asking me to let go of.

Thank you so much to anyone who prays for me. It means more than I can explain.

ho avuto un trigger nella 3D e, sinceramente, mi sento a pezzi. in questo momento sono davvero scoraggiata e ho paura che tutto il tempo, l'impegno e la fiducia che ho messo nella manifestazione non siano serviti a nulla. vi prego, aiutatemi, perché non voglio arrendermi. io desidero davvero il mio SP e non riesco a immaginare di mollare proprio adesso.

come fate a non lasciarvi travolgere da quello che vedete nella 3D? come si continua a persistere anche quando sembra che tutto vada nella direzione opposta? e per quanto tempo bisogna continuare a farlo? in questo momento ho davvero bisogno di un po' di incoraggiamento.

21F ....I love a boy from past 4 years but he didn't accept me and he has crush on some other girl and then she rejected him then he find his new gf...but i m not able to forget him... please share me some ideas to forget him and u can also give idea to manifest him as my lover i want him to obsessed with me chase me ...so how should i manifest him

I know this might sound a little different from the usual SP manifestation advice, but hear me out:

Your SP is not the prize.

You are.

When people are manifesting a specific person, it is so easy to put them on a pedestal. You start wondering what they’re thinking, if they miss you, if they’re going to text, if they’re choosing you, if they’re finally realizing your worth.

But if I were talking to a friend or client, I’d gently ask:

Why are we making them the one who decides your value?

The biggest shift in SP manifestation happens when you stop seeing yourself as someone waiting to be picked and start seeing yourself as someone who is already chosen.

Not because they said it yet.

Not because the 3D confirmed it yet.

But because you decided that is who you are.

You are the person who is loved.
You are the person who is wanted.
You are the person who is pursued, respected, and cherished.
You are the person who gets the relationship you desire without begging for it.

That does not mean you stop loving your SP. It means you stop abandoning yourself while manifesting them.

Because the version of you who has the relationship is not obsessing over whether they are enough.

They know they are.

So today, instead of asking, “Do they want me?” try asking, “Am I remembering who I am?”

What helped you finally take your SP off the pedestal?

Me and my ex broke up the 3rd time and ig from her words the “final” time 1.5 months ago, I have been constantly manifesting. First it came out of lack, obsession and desperation. But lately I’ve been calm and feeling flat, and 3d has been getting better or worse idk she unblocked me but still refuses to talk. Anyways i tried listening to sad music and it was pushing me to cry but in the end I couldnt, I just dont feel the grief of losing a loved one.

now im thinking did i not love her? or her avoidant tendencies and constant push pull dynamic has made me numb, or is this cause of manifesting that I am in this flat dead state and internally subconsciously I just dont feel like she’s gone, so I just cant bring myself to cry and grieve and accept what happened..

i have the absolute worst circumstances. i manifested my worst nightmare, blocked everywhere, no contact order, and he has a new 3p that he seems completely happy with. it seems he completely hates me. After the legal stuff is over and done with is it still possible to manifest him back? i know circumstances “don’t matter” but this feels so overwhelming and impossible. i know it’s probably best to just move on but i love him so much.

what steps should i take? is there still a chance to manifest him back?

I am a man, trying to manifest my ex girlfriend back. We had some issues, and she broke up with me.

Currently, she is with a third person.

I know circumstances don't matter, but sometimes a doubt creeps into my mind that girls don't come back once they leave. I'm trying to let go of this limiting belief.

If you could share your stories of successful manifestation with 3P involved, I would greatly appreciate it.

I would especially request men to share stories of them manifesting their women back, but all the stories are welcome.

Okay guys, so there is movement between me and my SP, I’ve got a great mental diet and I do affirm, so tbh in my manifesting journey everything is great however there is one problem I’m facing.

I know SP and I are on a path where he commits to me, I also know he’s going to ask me to be his girlfriend soon and going to apologise for his douchebag behaviour too.

But while we are on this journey, i want him to take efforts, i want him to call me, text me more, obsess over me and give me the chase.

But for some reason that hasn’t happened in the 3D yet. And i think where my fault comes into play is, I get a bit logical.

SP has faced some problems recently which include:

1. His mum had a heartattack recently and now she’s recovering at home, so he does all the household tasks etc which take up a lot of his time.

2. And also his favourite game dropped recently. Well this one is not a problem but he also has a lot of other problems.

I always assume and think that “poor guy must have worked hard a lot and so he spends time playing his game”

I’m a very logical person and ig this could be the one thing dragging me, other wise all seems good on my end.

So I need help with this, cuz I know I deserve the chase and I want him to put effort and communication towards me.

I am a man, trying to manifest my ex girlfriend back. We had some issues, and she broke up with me.

Currently, she is with a third person.

I know circumstances don't matter, but sometimes a doubt creeps into my mind that girls don't come back once they leave. I'm trying to let go of this limiting belief.

If you could share your stories of successful manifestation with 3P involved, I would greatly appreciate it.

I would especially request men to share stories of them manifesting their women back, but all the stories are welcome.

I tried to recite affirmative statements,for three months Visualization Sats also Repeat affirmations attempted. Also tried to ignore 3D doesn't pay any attention to her social media. But today my friend told me she has a new boyfriend. I feel a little frustrated, It feels like the three months of manifestation haven't materialized.

I dreamed about her several times during the process.
Thinking it would succeed, But now I really don't know what to do.

English is not my native language, please forgive me if I cannot understand it.

So me and my sp met on a dating app, he was actually my junior from college. I used to look at him and think he’s cute but never really approached him( this was before we match on a dating app) after we match we were having a good convo and turns out we share the same birthdays as well! We shared and followed each other’s snap and Instagram and we started talking and sending snaps in Snapchat and things were going good and he seemed really into me and he admitted that as well. Suddenly one morning i wake to see him delaying his texts telling me that he’s busy and basically our communication went down a bit. I did started spiraling a bit but just assumed he’s busy cuz he did make the effort to text me occasionally during the day but way less than how he did before. He then told me he’s coming back to town a bit earlier than expected and asked me when will i be coming back i told him and I asked him if we will be meeting when we both are in town he agreed that we will meet once we are back and the next day i told him that I’ll be coming a day later and he seemed exited to meet me as well, our convos were still not like how it used to be before it was less only in comparison. One morning i texted him and he texted back and i sent him a snap he even complimented and saved it and asked me when will i be coming back to town and i said that I’ll be leaving tomorrow. He saw that message and seen zoned me and our later I open Snapchat to see that I’ve been blocked and I’ve been removed and unfollowed on Instagram i was in shock cuz we were literally about to meet that weekend and he simply cut me off with no explanation or reason. Mind you that when the convo slowed down i was manifesting him by listening to subliminals and robotically affirming about him. And he was also still active on the dating app he didn’t delete his account by then yet. Then a couple hours later after blocking me in snap and removing me in Instagram he unmatched me on bumble. So I was like this is it and why would he even do that so randomly when we were literally about to meet a few days later. I was still listening to subliminals and I noticed that two days after he cut contact with me he ended up blocking me in Instagram as well. What do i do now? I’m still listening to the subliminal but what happened instead was few of my past talking stages guys came back instead of the guy i want.

What should I do to get him back and why do you think things went the other way when i was manifesting him?

I know this sounds messy, but I’m trying to be honest about my feelings and how I’m trying to apply LOA. ( this is about my long term toxic ex , we moved into the same apartment / job after being broken up for a year )

My deepest desire is still that he apologizes for what he did. I want to feel like I have power again when I’m around him—I don’t want to feel fear or heaviness anymore. I want to be able to move around him freely, tease him, and feel like I’m in control of myself.

I also want him to still want me, be attracted to me and SHOW ME.  But I feel like my grip on this is too tight. I want to be able to live my life, meet new people, and actually move on and get into something healthy again. But I still want my toxic ex to want me and regret what he did.   

Could anyone give advice on how I should approach this manifestation since im not sure if my end goal is contradicting itself. 

Current end goal: I want to be the highest happiest genuine version of myself in people in opportunities, I don’t want my past to haunt me I want to be free, I want to meet someone new but I also want him to regret and I can have the choice and option if I still want him.

So for the past like maybe month and a half I’ve been manifesting my SP and I’m neverrrrrrrr gonna give up on her but I’ve also bedn manifesting amall little things like stupid things like I manifesting small things like I remembered twice that ppl I know go to the restaurant I was at and both times I saw people from school and like I manifesting being before another car in a drive thru like silly things and I’ve also js had like coincidences but other times trying to manifest things like my parents coming home with food or something it didn’t work and it all js makes me doubt that manifesting my SP is working at all even though I haven’t given up or ask just makes me doubt I know this is so stupid but any advice or encouragement could really help

I did robotic affirmations for bringing my ex back for like 1 month from may to June but today due to some reason i broke the no contact and I called her and in the middle of convo I asked her is she wants to come back and does she still love me she said to me no and she'll never come back it broke me so please tell me what am I doing wrong and what should I do in order to manifest her back again

I don't know why but recently I've been feeling super angry towards my SP. We're in no contact and I've been having trouble staying in the end state, so the best I can do right now is visualize and affirmm that yes, they're texting me all the time and that state feels natural.

But I've been angry because I feel they broke my trust in the friendship and during our relationship and I feel super rejected by the whole idea that they rejected me and went for someone else not too long after.

Any tips appreciated on how I can get out of this state and stay in the end state.

P.S. - Does venting undo your manifestation or not ?