r/ManifestationSP

Okay, I’m new here, so please don’t judge me too hard 😭
I want to manifest my SP, but there’s one problem: I think he might already be in a relationship. I’m not even 100% sure if they’re actually together, though.
And here’s where I probably sound like a terrible person but I want him so badly. But at the same time, I genuinely don’t want to be the reason they break up if they are actually together.
If they’re not meant to be together, then I want them to go their separate ways because the relationship simply isn’t right for them, not because of me. I don’t want to interfere or intentionally ruin anything. I’d rather things naturally unfold in a way that’s best for everyone involved.
The funniest part? I have literally never talked to this guy. Not once. 💀 So technically, I’m out here wanting someone who probably doesn’t even know my name
I know how this sounds. 😭
So… am I being delusional, selfish, morally questionable, or am I overthinking this?

Would love to hear what you guys think.

I recently went through a breakup. He said the reason was he couldn’t get past something I did before our relationship when we were supposed to be in an exclusive situationship. I feel really sad about it, and honestly I’m manifesting hard for him to come back — I believe he’s mine. But at the same time I feel this weird lightness, and some resentment too, because it was so easy for him to walk away. He didn’t even celebrate my birthday, which I know is a red flag. Still, I want him to chase me, ask for forgiveness, and be the man I want — because I really do love him, and I think he loves me too. But I keep spiraling into ‘what if there’s someone else.’ I’m trying to do a mental diet, but I keep flip-flopping between letting go and wanting him back. so please help me out 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 like what should i do please.

So me and my sp broke up back in June. I'm not going into the circumstances cause it doesn't matter anyways, just know for a context it didn't end up in a good note, we blocked each other from everywhere.

Anyways I've been consciously manifesting (or atleast trying to manifest) him for a while now, there has been 2-3 period of time it became really easy for me, living in the wish fulfilled, maintaining the state, having positive thoughts and scenarios about us without trying....all became easy for me. Saw some movement too, but not the full picture yet and also in between I went back and reacted to 3d, got back in my old state too so there's that.

Lately I contacted him once for a complete different reason (context: that time I was being able to stay in wish fulfilled state completely to the point of not needing any sign, the 3d had 0 movement but I was fully confident), anyways even tho I didn't bring up anything about the relationship, SP kinda lashed out on me and said I'm a horrible person and to never ever contact him again. This incident threw me off to the point my belief in manifestation was shaken, cause how come there will be this much difference in my inner and outer reality.

Anyways I thought after that I'll lock in with my manifestation, but it's just too much for me sometimes to have this rollercoaster of feeling really good then feeling really bad, I have rest of my life left too and this sorta hampers that. It's hurting my mental health too. Like right now I'm writing all this I still have dull ache in my chest.

Anyways based on everything, I've decided to forgive, forget and move on. What I mean by that is I'm not gonna dwell in the past hurt, not gonna analyse where it went wrong what it could've should've been, I'll accept whatever happened, happened. I'm not gonna do any technique either in order to visualise us or anything cause that's hurting me. I do still have the desire, I'm still trying to hold a baseline assumption that he's coming back asking for a commited relationship as his best self , it's inevitable but not stacking up anymore thoughts about it. I'm completely gonna forget about him and stay in my present life, literally I'm gonna put no awareness to the sp situation, neither Good nor bad. And I'll just focus on my own life, I'll still continue with self concept affirmation since they're good for anyone regardless.

Idk if that means I'm giving up on my desire (which means sp never comes back, the chapter with him ends here) or it means I'm finally letting go of the old story, detaching and surrendering ( which means this finally gonna make the sp movement I've been trying so hard for, cause sometimes less effort is more). All ik is either way it'll help me be happy with myself and actually heal myself.

If manifesting sp while staying in this way can still possible or there's a way, if you guys have any insight or similar experience please share with me. Not just that, any opinion or tips regarding this from you people I'd love to take.

Ik it's a long read, a bit messy too. Hope I was able to convey my message. Thanks for reading.

Hey! This is the last where I asked you guys for some help, for my sp manifestation. Please guys help me for the last time, that how do I manifest my sp? Enough is enough, I'm tired to doing all these. My only problem is I can't stick to my new reality. It feels sometimes so fake, like I am lying to myself that I have already my sp. Where the 3d is something else. Now I just change the entire thing. Can you guys tell me how to get over this and also ignore all the doubts?

Hi everyone,

Me and my SP broke up 2 weeks ago. I have been manifesting him since then. Currently we are in no contact and I am kind of spiraling since the last two days. During our last convo, I didn't fight or anything - I just begged a little and asked if he is okay with not talking to me ever again, he replied with 'yeah yeah' and said that he will not breadcrumb me like he did last time and I bid him goodbye.

I am trying robotic affirmations and I am noticing some signs that he is maybe moving towards me. He wasn't posting much stories but after I started robotic affirmations, he started posting stories more often. I am deliberately not watching his stories but I broke and saw his story today. It was some meme.

He is also reposting more content, the kind that I would like or interact with more.

Today I was feeling more restless and upset so I went for a walk and did robotic affirmations, and saw his profile picture change to his picture that I like. I never told him that I like that picture of his.

I keep seeing or hearing his name or variations of his name everywhere.

Are these signs that he is moving towards me? We had previously stopped talking and I manifested him back but messed it up again by being too obsessed.

• So me and my sp was not in a relationship. but I loved her so much and I can do anything for her. then i am a believer of manifesting and creating my own reality . But from the starting she doesn't liked me and she has a good relationship with 3p over 2 years but I believe I can care and love her more than the 3p so im using law of assumption over 1 year and everytime when I face a 3d and 3p just 1 or 2 mins I worry than again I believe that she is mine but now im worried so please guys can u tell me THE LAW IS REAL OR NOT PLEASE so please guys can in my love and who r all succeeded manifesting there sp with 3p and disinterest please tell me how and I believing strongly soon I will post a success story of my sp

I’ve been involved with someone for a while in a connection that has always been a little undefined. There’s attraction and genuine emotional closeness, but it never really became a relationship. Over time, I developed much deeper feelings than I expected to, and because I don’t tend to fall for people easily, I ended up imagining quite a lot of my future with this person.

Recently, I decided I couldn’t keep sitting in uncertainty, so I finally told him that I liked him as more than something casual and wanted to know whether he saw any genuine possibility of us becoming something more.

His response was essentially that he isn’t in a place for a meaningful relationship right now. He said he isn’t currently pursuing anyone romantically, that his life is quite unsettled, and that he doesn’t know how he might feel in the future. He suggested friendship, but I know myself well enough to know that staying friends while secretly hoping for more would not be healthy for me.

I told him I couldn’t continue with a friendship/casual dynamic because I would always be holding onto the possibility of something more. I then said goodbye because I felt I needed to actually step away rather than keep myself emotionally attached to an uncertain future.

The strange part is that I didn’t receive a direct rejection of me. I received a rejection of the possibility right now. And I genuinely don’t know how to interpret that from a manifestation perspective.

I have spent a lot of time visualising and believing in a relationship with this person. I’ve had readings that repeatedly suggested emotional potential, but the current reality obviously isn’t reflecting the outcome I wanted. I know readings aren’t guarantees, but it has still left me questioning how I should approach manifestation from here.
Can I genuinely detach from someone while still believing they are my person?

Do I continue to hold the assumption that the relationship is possible while genuinely detaching from the current circumstances?

Or does accepting his current position mean I should let go of this specific person entirely and focus on the feeling/life I actually want?

I also don’t want to use manifestation as a reason to disregard someone’s stated boundaries or sit around waiting for them to change. At the same time, I don’t want one difficult conversation to make me abandon something I genuinely wanted.
For those who have been in a similar situation: how did you handle the period where the 3D seemed to say “not this person, not now” while you still desired the relationship?

What did detachment actually look like for you?
And how did you distinguish between faith in the outcome and simply holding yourself emotionally hostage to one person?

I’d really value honest experiences rather than “he’ll definitely come back” reassurance.

Met a girl the other day, we're friends now and she told me all about her new boyfriend and what he does and what he looks like and she kept joking about how she thinks shes psychic because her man is almost exactly like what she wanted. She proceeded to shoe me this picture she took of the inside of a notebook she had years ago, of a drawing of what her "ideal man" looked like, she also showed me pinterest boards of what his aesthetic would be...and what his job would be and all that. And i found it amusingly shocking because...

Wow. Her boyfriend literally IS that drawing. He IS that Pinterest board.

Yeah of course a few tiny things are different but she GOT what she ordered, 100%.

Now..i dont really believe in manifestation and all that...not exactly. I used to! But that was before i was a christian, anywho, i cant lie. Kind of jealous with how god delivered her guy so quickly — like wheres mine god?? 😭

- but shes saying that its cause shes wished on it so many times and gods finally answered her prayers. Lucky .

My question is though, has anyone ever met the guy they WANTED. Like in your head, say you decided precisely, what type of person your future husband would be ; the way he looked and acts..

Have you actually been successful in finding him ?.

Does that make sense?

Like she met the guy of her dreams...of her dang drawings people! 😅. Has anybody else somehow gotten the partner they always wanted, so alike that it seemed coincidental?

That goes out to everyone. Girls and guys ;) or whatever you are, idc.

I am in a relationship with my sp since last year April, he was everything I wanted in a guy, he was considerate of my feelings, loving, loyal, treats me like I’m his everything, never wanted me sad or mad, tried to fix everything whenever he felt I was hurt, he was the guy who willingly changed many things about him just for me to love him and stay happy with him. But I had a doubt that how did I find such a great guy and also consumed a lot of negative reels about relationships and how men change after some months of the relationship. I always thought to myself oh he’s gonna change too, but then when I look at my reality I think to myself that no he’s not gonna change. So it took a lot of time for things to actually get bad between us. This year, since April things have been bad. Before he used to ask me why I was sad and try to make me happy but suddenly everything changed. We even broke up quite a few times but he would always come back because he loves me no matter what the circumstances are.
On July we had a fallout and we went no contact, so I started manifesting, i wavered, but I locked in August, it took me one week to get him to call me. We are in contact again, and he has been acting pretty good, and he even said he loves me and yeah we are in a relationship

But somehow the old clashes comes in between us, things goes so smoothly but suddenly he acts different
I asked him why do you talk in this way he just says I can’t help the way I am, but before he would have showered me with sweet words and sorries if I ever get mad or sad and he would take care and take accountability. But now he doesn’t even think he’s doing something wrong, he actually believes he’s right. He said we have been together for a long time it’s normal now. But no it’s not normal for me, I want him to be caring, sweet and affectionate again.

Not rarely but consistently. He does love me but now he doesn’t express it much, he gets angry and doesn’t talk much and ego is coming between us, he never had an ego when it came to me. He was a guy who would do anything and everything just to keep me happy, I want that version of him back. Now he’s just a tired guy who says he loves me but whenever we fight he doesn’t try to make things right, he has a big ego now and he genuinely thinks his way is the only way. I want to change his pov regarding some things and I want him to act like just the way he did.

How do I do that someone pleased give me tips. Ik about eiypo but idk how to apply this anymore

I want him to be sweet, caring, affectionate, making me his priority, caring about my feelings and all those good stuffs

I need help with a problem and il try my best to explain the situation with clarity and brevity . Only request plz don’t come at me with why do you want to manifest such an SP🙏

So I’m trying to manifest my Sp. Let’s call him P. We reconnected after 3 years . The spark and intensity was still there . But we are in different cities and I have had a major setback at work . I share my problems . He is sympathetic . Even promises to help . But has done nothing concrete. I once confronted him and said he isn’t doing enough . He said his hands are genuinely tied and he can’t help me with a position in his organisation . I want to believe him but I also don’t believe him if you know what I mean . In my head I’m like here is this guy I want to spend my life with and if he isn’t moving heaven and hell for me then what’s the point . But I want him and I want him to change , how do I manifest this ? What inner thoughts and mental diet ? What should be the exact words of my inner dialogue . Coz I want him but I’m also just so upset and angry with him for not being the version I want him to be . This has sent me down a spiral . Iv cried . I feel nothing ever works out for me . It’s just been very hard. Can anyone help me plz.

Okay so I am in love with a girl older than me and I manifested her with me and we were on good terms, first I became friends with her then I told her that I love her it worked and I wasnt her bf but it worked and she lives as a tenant in my building and we were so good but suddenly a lot of wrong things started happening and I also became very clingy and bad in the end plus obsessed

So how the situation got worse, she wasnt ready for a relationship but she told me on snapchat that I want to hold your hands and I told I will hold it forever and in the start everything was good to be honest even if its a situationship and she also used to send me couple reels where the guy is younger

But then a lot of fights happend and I told a friend of mine shes a girlfriend and I wanted to keep her hidden to be honest and that friend was working out in his gym and his gym owner knows that girl my SP and and told my SP that this guy is spreading rumours about you and that guy was her 5 year old friend

She got very angry and now we are in a no contact situation from past 4 months and her birthday is coming up in 10 days I am thinking to apologise and let it go then and just do normal manifesting and get her back again

I am very interested in listening what you guys say and please talk with me and help me out

Okay, so like a month back, I had posted about this and I did kind of manifest my SP back, but it did not really work out and like we broke up today literally and it just feels like it’s official like there’s absolutely no hope of us getting back.

I still feel a bit of hope hence im writing this. He specifically said he doesnt want me, doesmt see a future with me, and started to build resentment due to past stuff and didnt want it to turn into hate and so he broke up.
He also said he doesnt see me as the one and he knows someone else out there is the one and that broke me.

I dont know what to do all ik is i need him back. He made me promisw that i will move on but thats the only thing i cant stick to.
Whatever i manifest i want it to be so that he never breaks up, doesnt have this resentment, fully forgives me, and he loves me more than i love him and is the perfect ever.

Please suggest subliminals or anything

Its been months I have been trying to manifest a partner. I have done scripting, affirmation and what not but cannot get a gf. Please help me.

For context, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. I've known about LoA/manifestation for 11 years. I've never really had to use it because things usually went my way, and when they didn't, it turned out for the best eventually.

Now, I finally feel like I've found my perfect partner. We are happy together. However, there has been a lot of resistance from his family. Mainly from his parents. I have not spoken to him in over a month now since his mother took away his phone and sent him away to his uncle's house (and yes, this is something that people don't even bat an eye at in our culture. Fucked up, I know.) I have called her personally, twice. She did not allow me to speak with him. I feel like she is trying to break us apart. She ignores my calls and messages too. I want to manifest her out of our relationship. I don't want to cause any harm, but I do not want her influence in our relationship. I do not want anyone from his family influencing our relationship. How do I go about this? Is there a specific method or visualization I can use? Any spells? Anything?

always read success stories involving an SP, an ex, friends, or acquaintances. But has anyone had experiences with strangers seen on social media? People with a certain amount of visibility (not fame). I'm curious. My SP is one of the programmers at a well-known company. And even though I sent him a message a while ago, he obviously doesn't reply due to his corporate account policy. I know the 3D isn't important.. I know self-concept is. And I didn't doubt anything until recently. I was affirming calmly, centered on my own life. With occasional thoughts of a peaceful life with him. I was so convinced of it that it seemed strange for it not to be reality.Except for the fact that after three months, my brain told me: 'excuse me.. but... there isn't a single sign. What have you been hallucinating these past three months

I’ve done anything and everything to detach, I’ve deleted apps, I’ve meditated, I’ve been working on myself, no matter what, she pops in my head. Is this me trying to still manifest throughout the day or am I suffering from Limerance? Is it both? I feel like I’ve thrown in the towel trying to let the universe just do its thing, and in my gut I feel that, but my brain can’t help it

we've been no contact for nearly two months, and im blocked everywhere. it ended because of my mental health. at the time of the breakup he said he still loves me, and that it was for the better, but that he doesnt want to get back together. i am trying to let go of the old story, but i feel myself getting so discouraged. any advice or success stories for motivation??

Ok so, I've been manifesting this guy since April and I genuinely lost all hopes, I tried all the possible methods, such as scripting, listening to subliminals, positive affirming, detaching, 369 and working on myself concept.
I am not asking for new methods, (even though I would appreciate it) I'm just asking for somebody that is good at manifesting if it is possible to make him come back in love with me as I was with him.
What brought me down the most is people saying that manifesting is instant and they got their results the day after, but I've been here stuck four months and I'm starting to fall out of hope because I feel this is all in my head and I'm just being delusional and I will never move on from this situation🙏🏻💞🍀