How to recreate sp
I am in a relationship with my sp since last year April, he was everything I wanted in a guy, he was considerate of my feelings, loving, loyal, treats me like I’m his everything, never wanted me sad or mad, tried to fix everything whenever he felt I was hurt, he was the guy who willingly changed many things about him just for me to love him and stay happy with him. But I had a doubt that how did I find such a great guy and also consumed a lot of negative reels about relationships and how men change after some months of the relationship. I always thought to myself oh he’s gonna change too, but then when I look at my reality I think to myself that no he’s not gonna change. So it took a lot of time for things to actually get bad between us. This year, since April things have been bad. Before he used to ask me why I was sad and try to make me happy but suddenly everything changed. We even broke up quite a few times but he would always come back because he loves me no matter what the circumstances are.
On July we had a fallout and we went no contact, so I started manifesting, i wavered, but I locked in August, it took me one week to get him to call me. We are in contact again, and he has been acting pretty good, and he even said he loves me and yeah we are in a relationship
But somehow the old clashes comes in between us, things goes so smoothly but suddenly he acts different
I asked him why do you talk in this way he just says I can’t help the way I am, but before he would have showered me with sweet words and sorries if I ever get mad or sad and he would take care and take accountability. But now he doesn’t even think he’s doing something wrong, he actually believes he’s right. He said we have been together for a long time it’s normal now. But no it’s not normal for me, I want him to be caring, sweet and affectionate again.
Not rarely but consistently. He does love me but now he doesn’t express it much, he gets angry and doesn’t talk much and ego is coming between us, he never had an ego when it came to me. He was a guy who would do anything and everything just to keep me happy, I want that version of him back. Now he’s just a tired guy who says he loves me but whenever we fight he doesn’t try to make things right, he has a big ego now and he genuinely thinks his way is the only way. I want to change his pov regarding some things and I want him to act like just the way he did.
How do I do that someone pleased give me tips. Ik about eiypo but idk how to apply this anymore
I want him to be sweet, caring, affectionate, making me his priority, caring about my feelings and all those good stuffs