r/Manifestation

I’m considering taking a manifestation/life-coaching course from people who are already established in the space. I’ve been following their work for around two years, have already taken one of their cheaper courses, and genuinely found it valuable. I’ve also spent a lot of time researching them, their work, and the community around them, so I feel like I’ve done my due diligence and understand what I’m paying for. I’m interested in this because I’m considering building something of my own in the life-coaching, and I see this course as a way to learn and develop the skills I’d need. The issue is that my parents are very uncomfortable with the idea. They seem to associate manifestation/life coaching with shady or potentially exploitative spaces, and because I’m a woman, they’re also worried that getting involved in this industry could somehow put me in unsafe situations. I understand that they’re trying to protect me, but their reaction has made me question whether there’s an actual risk I’m overlooking. For people who have experience with life coaching, manifestation, wellness businesses, or similar industries in India: are there any genuine professional or safety risks I should be aware of, particularly as a woman, or is this mostly a case of my parents being unfamiliar with the industry and therefore afraid of it?

I just completely cussed the universe out. Like don’t give me these fucking signs if you aren’t bringing my sp back today. I literally screamed. I know he’s mine. I know we get married but I’m tired of the games. I’m tired of his name popping up. I’m tired of my friends asking about him. Like fuck stop playing. I even said when I walk up things are different. I woke up still pissed off

I believe in manifestation because I’ve seen it work in other areas of my life, but relationships are confusing for me.

About 2 months ago, I joined a dating app for the first time(I do believe in real connection )and met a guy. We talked almost every day and spent around two months getting to know each other. He treated me amazingly, made me feel cared for, and was very responsible and intentional with me. It was honestly the first time I experienced that kind of treatment from someone, and I really started seeing a future with him.

Recently, we had a serious conversation about our future. The main issue is that we come from different religions (I don't know his language and his family doesn't know english) . He feels that it could become very difficult in the future and is worried that his family might not accept the relationship. We had a long conversation about it, and I understand why he feels that way, but I still have feelings for him.

This is where I'm confused about manifestation.

I’ve heard people say “don’t manifest a specific person; manifest the love and relationship you want.” But what if I genuinely want this particular person? Is it wrong to manifest that we find our way back to each other? Or should I completely let go of the person and focus only on manifesting the qualities and kind of relationship I want?

I don't want to force or control anyone's choices. I just want a healthy, mutual, loving relationship with someone who chooses me fully.

For those who believe in manifestation, how do you manifest your life partner without becoming attached to a specific outcome? What did you actually do—affirmations, scripting, visualization, letting go, etc.?

I’d really appreciate hearing about your experiences. ❤️

Okay i felt like the need to make this post because people make “manifestation” so much harder than it actually is. Yes it is a new account since i lost access to my other one…

But listen, manifestation is really simple, youve been doing it your whole life without knowing. What actually manifests is your IDENTITY, feelings and thoughts DO NOT manifest at all, unless you decide they do.

Techniques are only tools that might help you but you dont need to do them at all, like “affirming bro” “visualization bro” its just literally thinking and imagining, and guess what? youve been doing it your whole life.

The 3d is ONLY a projection of WHO YOU ARE, of your previous STATE OF BEING (your identity) and if you are being the person “manifesting them” wanting them, needing them, looking for proof or evidence… guess what? youre IDENTIFYING yourself as the person who doesnt have them…. and YES, techniques can manifest if you decide they do and lets say your sp finally comes back… it wont be sustainable if youre still identifying with the person whos not loved, not chosen, always got cheated on… and they will just leave again… If your IDENTITY is NOT sustainable, your reality wont be either…

The only moment that exist is now, so everytime you have a mental image of a past that doesnt exist and a future that doesnt exist, you are SELECTING that as YOUR REALITY NOW.

DO NOT DO NOT identify with your feelings and emotions… dumb example, do you think if a lion gets hungry and 1 day it couldnt hunt anything to eat he will think “oh im not a lion anymore i guess…” ofc not, because that doesnt CHANGE its IDENTITY… so why the hell would you let anyone outside of you DETERMINE who you are… and even yourself… if youre feeling “bad” emotions, having “negative” thoughts… why would you identify with them, why would you let those things change who you are…

So “how do i manifest bro” simple… Did you need to use techniques to realise how much your sp hated you and wanted to leave you and didnt love you anymore? OF COURSE NOT…. you just started thinking that WITHOUT PROOF OR EVIDENCE and started perceiving them that way… so therefore if reality is only reflecting who you are, it will give you that, makes much more sense right? And then everytime they behavied a certain way you just were like “i knew it bro, they will cheat on me and leave and have a 3p” and you just fed those thoughts to the point it became part of your IDENTITY… and once all the bs happened you said “OMG I KNEW IT, I WAS RIGHT THE WHOLE TIME” YES, you are ALWAYS right… so why not just do it to “get them back” the same way? why not? this is literally it:

1. Know you are source and everything comes from you
2. Know the 3d is always gonna prove you right and it will always reflect WHO YOU ARE, not what you think, not what you feel… WHO YOU ARE.
3. Make the decision that person is yours
4. Stick to that decision no matter what.
5. 3d will never validate you until you no longer need the validation.
6. Recognise the version of you that doesnt have your decision so you wont let that version’s thoughts and feelings and circumstances affect you in anyway.
7. Change your identity by simply deciding who you are NOW and stick to it no matter what so when your sp materializes it will be sustainable and wont leave again.
8. Live in the present moment.

Thats pretty much it and yes this applies to anythinf not just “sps”. And no you dont need techniques or do 1000 cartwheels while repeating theyre obssesed with you.

I promise you if you follow this simple instructions everythinf is guaranteed. Literally… yes it is that simple, stop making it harder than it actually is, theres nothing else to do.

Hi everyone, my dears! I’ve run into a problem: I manifested an ideal partner and a relationship with him, and I thought through every detail — his image, appearance, and personality. And one guy really did meet me, but he doesn’t meet all the criteria I want! Overall, I understand that this most likely happened because I thought it would be difficult to manifest an ideal partner in full — after all, absolutely everything would have to align, and at the time I thought I might as well settle for something less. I don’t know what to do now because I still feel confident that I’m capable of meeting my ideal partner, but there’s already someone almost perfect in my field — maybe I should just settle for less and not wait? Maybe someone has had a similar experience. Good luck with your manifestations, everyone!

I can barely write this because my hands are literally SHAKING.

About two years ago, I had the most intense dream in which I won the first prize of a popular lottery game in my country. I could feel all the excitement, anxiety, happiness, and pure ecstasy of winning so deeply in that dream that I'm literally getting chills right now just thinking about it.

As soon as I woke up, I turned to my GF and told her that what I'd just experienced felt more like a premonition than a dream.

I had NEVER played any lottery games before, or even really thought about them, but I felt so deeply within me that I had to play. So I installed the app, picked some numbers and then, to no one's surprise (except mine), I didn't win.

I was devastated. I genuinely felt like I was GUARANTEED to win, so losing hit me like a truck. That's when I started looking online for people who had experienced something similar.

I was never a huge manifestation believer ... well, at least not exactly. I've always had this mentality of "I get everything I want," and I guess I had accidentally manifested pretty much everything in my life up until that point: my GF, my friends, college opportunities, and so many other amazing things I've been lucky enough to have.

But winning that prize? That's a completely different ball game.

I started thinking about it nonstop, 24/7 and BEGGING the universe to give it to me and every time I played and lost, I felt just a little bit of that hope dying inside me. Eventually, I reached a point where I kind of gave up.

I'd always told myself that I would win it before I finished college. When that didn't happen, I lost pretty much all hope.

But what I didn't really think about at the time was that my degree has an extra year, the 6th year is basically an internship year in veterinary school. And I guess my manifestation worked when I least expected it to.

IT HAPPENED.

About two weeks ago.

And I still can't actually believe it.

It's a monthly prize, and I haven't even received my first payment yet, but I've already talked to my mom and dad about everything, got a lawyer through them, and I've decided to distribute around 40% of my winnings as a monthly "salary" to my mom, dad, sister, and grandma.

And right now, I'm looking for my dream rental in the building I've always dreamed of living in.

I feel so incredibly fulfilled. And I just wanted to share this because I want people to BELIEVE.

Don't give up just because it doesn't happen instantly.

Sometimes you might lose hope. Sometimes you might even convince yourself that it's never going to happen.

And then, when you least expect it...

it does.

Keep believing. You're gonna get there eventually.

I applied for a job that I honestly never wanted to apply for, but I felt pressured to submit the application anyway. I recently got called for an interview, and the second I found out, my entire mood dropped. I ended up crying because I suddenly felt so overwhelmed and upset about having to interview for this job. YES - I have to go to the interview bc it's literally tomorrow morning and I can't say no now.

I don't want the Universe to think I am not grateful because I have finally got one interview since May. It's just I know what role I want.

It’s weird because I was having a genuinely good day before I got the call. Nothing bad had happened. But as soon as I knew I had to deal with this job, I felt this huge emotional reaction.

I do need money, especially with the holidays coming up, so it's not like I don't understand why I should consider it. I know with this job market I shouldn't be picky but I really don't want this particular job.

Has anyone else experienced something like this? Can your body/emotions react this strongly when you're doing something you genuinely don't want to do, or am I overthinking it?

I'M STILL KINDA CONFUSED ABOUT USING THE LIST METHOD

so i already have a list but how do y'all use? like do i repeatedly write the list daily or just affirm that my list has come true? I'm really unfamiliar with this method ngl and I'm trying not to obsess over it tbh so HELP A GAL OUT HEREHE

hey yall! i apologize for the long one

idk what tf do i do in this situation. i got scammed at work yesterday and i feel so stupid for falling for this scam when i’m already down when it comes to money. (i’ll make another post about this)

at the same time, i’m like lowkey not worried? like the feeling of have zero dollars in my bank isn’t stressing me out. the embarrassment feels bigger than the stress, like i feel like God / the Universe has my back, if that makes sense.

a customer came in telling me a sob story (this is gonna be a fake story for privacy reasons) about his house being broken into and all his cards and id were stolen. he tried going to the bank but since him and his wife (who has dementia and lives in malaysia) have a joint bank account, and she needs to be there in person to get a new one.

he proceeded to tell me that it was her 50th birthday and he needed someone to buy him a dress for her birthday and he would transfer to whoever did it with a little extra.

i did in fact pay for it (i can’t get a chargeback cos i was the one that paid 😃) he showed a picture of the transfer with my details in it. the number i sent my bank details to was fake. i know this because he spam called me from a different number (4 times in the span of two minutes) telling me that he “forgot to ask for a receipt and for me to send it to his email (idk why i did it)

it didn’t register to me because i have been saying money affirmations and i thought they were working in real time 😭😭😭😭 like God forbid i help someone out yk ? i’m like is this how trust issues start???

i found out that not even an hour after it passed, the guy went to another store and told another sob story to one of the girls 😭 because they canceled the transaction and gave him cash. the policy for refunds is that the money has to go to the card that was used for the original receipt (the usual policy everywhere)

i wanna blast his ass everywhere but i’m waiting from the all clear from the police lol

i’m trying to figure out what i’m supposed to learn in this situation. obviously i need to not be trusting of others but aside from that i’m confused??? cos i was trying to hear what my intuition was saying but i legit heard crickets 😭