We are very serious about each other and we have been dating for 3 years but his family is causing a lot of resistance. They have separated us. I want to know if there is hope for us and what are the chances of marriage.
For context, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. I've known about LoA/manifestation for 11 years. I've never really had to use it because things usually went my way, and when they didn't, it turned out for the best eventually.
Now, I finally feel like I've found my perfect partner. We are happy together. However, there has been a lot of resistance from his family. Mainly from his parents. I have not spoken to him in over a month now since his mother took away his phone and sent him away to his uncle's house (and yes, this is something that people don't even bat an eye at in our culture. Fucked up, I know.) I have called her personally, twice. She did not allow me to speak with him. I feel like she is trying to break us apart. She ignores my calls and messages too. I want to manifest her out of our relationship. I don't want to cause any harm, but I do not want her influence in our relationship. I do not want anyone from his family influencing our relationship. How do I go about this? Is there a specific method or visualization I can use? Any spells? Anything?
So, today I asked the universe to show me a yellow car, which is pretty uncommon, as a sign that my manifestations are coming through. I saw 2 cars on the same road, funny thing is, I expected to see a yellow car, if any, on that particular road for some reason. The thing is, the cars weren't the bright sunshine yellow that you'd expect. One was a golden yellow and the other had an orange undertone.
So, my question is, does this count as a success?
My (24F) boyfriend (23M) and I haven't spoken in the last 6 days because his mother has confiscated his phone. She doesn't like me and I can tell that she's specifically trying to keep him away from me at the moment.
I've also been really anxious. This is the first time I've gone so long without having him around even on call. I need advice on how to resolve this issue using manifestation.
I also need tips on how to truly let go after setting an intention because I haven't been able to do that. I keep thinking about the situation I am in irrespective of what I'm doing or who I am with. Please help.
In my (24F) previous post, I mentioned how my boyfriend's (23M) family doesn't want my boyfriend to be with me or marry me because I don't come from a rich family. Today, I've an update.
For the last 3 days, I haven't heard from my boyfriend and I've called him over 100 times and left multiple messages. I've been worried sick because he usually calls me atleast 2x a day and now he wasn't answering calls or reading text messages. I cannot mention how I found out about this because it would reveal my identity, but I found out that his mother has confiscated his phone which is why I haven't heard from him.
I'm from India and it's the culture here for children to live with their parents until they complete their education, and if you're a male then you live with them even after marriage. We're both just starting out and don't have a penny to our name. I'm going to start looking for jobs, but to put things into perspective, architecture pays about 200 USD per month, here in India. Which is around 20k INR. And that's not a lot. It will take me years to achieve stability and earn enough to get us both out. What do I do? I really need help here.
I [24F] am too poor to marry my boyfriend [23M]
I (24F) have been dating my boyfriend (23M) for almost 3 years. We're serious about a future together. For some context, we're both Indians so the culture here makes things really hard when it comes to dating. We've been discussing our future together and our biggest issue is that ever since his parents have been aware of our relationship, they've been against it. Thing is, they don't even know me as a person, but his parents, especially his father, wants him to marry rich. Which is something I'm not. I don't have familial wealth. My father never graduated and hasn't been working for the last 8 years. The house runs on money pitched in by relatives and some money that my mother makes from taking tuition for kids. His father has a small scale architecture/construction firm and wants my boyfriend to take over after him. My boyfriend and I are both architects. We're graduating architecture school this August. But his father wants him to marry into a wealthy family so that it helps him with networking and getting contacts to further the business. His parents will never agree to our relationship simply because I don't come from money. My boyfriend's only choice is to choose between his family and me. And it's not just his parents, but the whole extended family gets involved because for some crazy reason, that's just how his family functions. Anyway, the only way that this ends is if he chooses between the two of us, and I'm not even entirely sure if he'll choose me, although he says he will, but even if he does, I'm afraid he'll come to despise me sometime in the future for being the reason why he lost his family. I really don't want to end this relationship with him, but each day is getting harder and I just don't know what to do. I don't know if I'm seeking advice or comfort. I just don't have anybody to talk to about this and.. hopefully someone can help me through this? I don't know. I'm sorry, I'm just really hurt, confused and feel like I'm worthless. This isn't something I can change. This isn't something I control. I'm not trying to put my boyfriend down or brag about myself, but I've studied in better schools than him, we went to the same college and it's the best in the city. My CGPA is more than a whole point greater than his, I have better communication and conversational skills, and yet, it all just comes down to the money I have or the money my family has. It's just very frustrating. I feel lost.
TLDR; Boyfriend's family thinks I'm not wealthy enough to marry him irrespective of my character and qualifications
I [24F] am too poor to marry my boyfriend [23M]
I (24F) have been dating my boyfriend (23M) for almost 3 years. We're serious about a future together. For some context, we're both Indians so the culture here makes things really hard when it comes to dating. We've been discussing our future together and our biggest issue is that ever since his parents have been aware of our relationship, they've been against it. Thing is, they don't even know me as a person, but his parents, especially his father, wants him to marry rich. Which is something I'm not. I don't have familial wealth. My father never graduated and hasn't been working for the last 8 years. The house runs on money pitched in by relatives and some money that my mother makes from taking tuition for kids. His father has a small scale architecture/construction firm and wants my boyfriend to take over after him. My boyfriend and I are both architects. We're graduating architecture school this August. But his father wants him to marry into a wealthy family so that it helps him with networking and getting contacts to further the business. His parents will never agree to our relationship simply because I don't come from money. My boyfriend's only choice is to choose between his family and me. And it's not just his parents, but the whole extended family gets involved because for some crazy reason, that's just how his family functions. Anyway, the only way that this ends is if he chooses between the two of us, and I'm not even entirely sure if he'll choose me, although he says he will, but even if he does, I'm afraid he'll come to despise me sometime in the future for being the reason why he lost his family. I really don't want to end this relationship with him, but each day is getting harder and I just don't know what to do. I don't know if I'm seeking advice or comfort. I just don't have anybody to talk to about this and.. hopefully someone can help me through this? I don't know. I'm sorry, I'm just really hurt, confused and feel like I'm worthless. This isn't something I can change. This isn't something I control. I'm not trying to put my boyfriend down or brag about myself, but I've studied in better schools than him, we went to the same college and it's the best in the city. My CGPA is more than a whole point greater than his, I have better communication and conversational skills, and yet, it all just comes down to the money I have or the money my family has. It's just very frustrating. I feel lost.
TLDR; Boyfriend's family thinks I'm not wealthy enough to marry him irrespective of my character and qualifications
I (24F) have been dating my boyfriend (23M) for almost 3 years. We're serious about a future together. For some context, we're both Indians so the culture here makes things really hard when it comes to dating. We've been discussing our future together and our biggest issue is that ever since his parents have been aware of our relationship, they've been against it. Thing is, they don't even know me as a person, but his parents, especially his father, wants him to marry rich. Which is something I'm not. I don't have familial wealth. My father never graduated and hasn't been working for the last 8 years. The house runs on money pitched in by relatives and some money that my mother makes from taking tuition for kids. His father has a small scale architecture/construction firm and wants my boyfriend to take over after him. My boyfriend and I are both architects. We're graduating architecture school this August. But his father wants him to marry into a wealthy family so that it helps him with networking and getting contacts to further the business. His parents will never agree to our relationship simply because I don't come from money. My boyfriend's only choice is to choose between his family and me. And it's not just his parents, but the whole extended family gets involved because for some crazy reason, that's just how his family functions. Anyway, the only way that this ends is if he chooses between the two of us, and I'm not even entirely sure if he'll choose me, although he says he will, but even if he does, I'm afraid he'll come to despise me sometime in the future for being the reason why he lost his family. I really don't want to end this relationship with him, but each day is getting harder and I just don't know what to do. I don't know if I'm seeking advice or comfort. I just don't have anybody to talk to about this and.. hopefully someone can help me through this? I don't know. I'm sorry, I'm just really hurt, confused and feel like I'm worthless. This isn't something I can change. This isn't something I control. I'm not trying to put my boyfriend down or brag about myself, but I've studied in better schools than him, we went to the same college and it's the best in the city. My CGPA is more than a whole point greater than his, I have better communication and conversational skills, and yet, it all just comes down to the money I have or the money my family has. It's just very frustrating. I feel lost.