I'm new to manifestation and I recently used the 369 method. There have been signs around, but since I did this for a banned topic on the sub reddit I need help, feel free to reply to this and I'll dm you
How do you manifest friendships and a loving romantic relationship when you’ve never really experienced either?
My whole life, I was bullied, and my parents were emotionally unavailable. They also cheated on each other repeatedly, so I grew up without a healthy example of love or connection.
I’m almost 30 now, and on the outside I probably seem fine. People are always surprised I’m single and assume I must have a good social life. But internally, I feel deeply isolated from normal relationships.
Nothing ever seems to last, and I don’t know how to stop feeling disconnected from people. It’s like everyone else learned something about love, friendship, and emotional closeness that I never got to experience.
I want meaningful relationships so badly, but sometimes I genuinely can’t imagine what it feels like to be chosen, loved consistently, or emotionally safe with someone.
Has anyone else started from this place later in life? How did you begin healing and building real connections?
I was recently blocked and communication cut off by someone I was talking to for months. I know I did originally have fears of being abandoned etc and was insecure in the connection. But recently had really been working on manifestation of a relationship with them, raising my vibration, etc.
But then after all this I will still blocked and shut out. I still miss this person, but unsure how to reckon with what’s happened and if it’s worth continuing to manifest after they did this. Any insight appreciated.
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I’ve noticed something strange in relationships.
Sometimes people ignore genuine love, consistency and emotional safety while they have it… but the moment it’s gone, suddenly they realize how rare it actually was.
Why do you think that happens?
Do people get too comfortable?
Do emotionally unavailable people only feel attraction through distance and uncertainty?
Or do some people simply not recognize peace until chaos disappears?
Curious to hear real opinions because I think this happens more than people admit.
i was much more confident in manifesting when i went with the philosophy of trusting in the universe that my desires would be fulfilled. then i read you have to actually pretend you have already fulfilled your desires(whilst ignoring all 3d evidence around you) or it wont come. not only does it feel basically impossible for me to do, it also means that if i fully commit to this that would make all of my plans(self improvement, exercising, etc) completely pointless if im already in the end result. continuing to work on said plans would contradict my belief and kill the immersion of "living in the end".
should i go back to my previous manifesting techique or is "living in the end" a strict neccessity?
Hello, my cousin is currently building their profile to apply to UPenn, but they’re skeptical about whether they’ll be accepted. From what I’ve seen, my cousin has tried their hardest but they usually downplay their accomplishments and doubt themselves a lot. If you were me, what would you advise them to do to reach their dream goal using manifestation (since they’re also interested in this field)? The things that help me in manifestation are reading affirmations and putting complete trust in myself, but I figure these can’t be effectively applied in the mentioned case. Thank you so much!
I know I should detach and everything but it’s hard when I want it. I just want to move out of my parents house and have my husband with me at this point. I’m 32. I was chatting on my live stream earlier and I was like well at least this guy is interested in talking to me. I always associate any male attention with signs of my manifestation like it’s so stupid.
Like if a man I don’t find attractive or have a good job and he seems kind of “meh” I feel like this is the best I can do. Then I start thinking well I’m 32 and I’m not all that that’s why I attract men who aren’t all that. And the ones that are aren’t interested in me. Sigh
i do very much believe in the law of attraction and law of assumption and everything to do with the universe and it’s power, which i innately feel a strong connection too.
but i’m feeling defeated and confused right now. i followed the techniques i favour the most. i visualised with so much excitement and gratitude throughout my body, i repeated positive affirmations and listened to subliminals etc. i felt certain, without a doubt and in my bones that i was going to win the lottery. however i didn’t. i had such a feeling of certainty and calmness, like if someone said i wasn’t going to win it, i would genuinely be confused. but i didn’t win anything? i don’t understand what i am doing wrong?
for context, if this helps, i definitely have a lot of fear and uncertainty around money. i would say money is something i’m scared of to be honest and a great source of my anxiety. so when i say win the lotto, and win money what i want is the security and freedom that comes with money. i feel trapped right now, having money would allow me to escape and connect more, would grant me greater opportunities.
I'm interested in hearing stories that genuinely made people question reality.
Not general philosophy, but actual experiences:
- Manifestations
- Synchronicities
- Precognitive dreams
- Intuition that turned out correct
- Impossibly timed coincidences
What happened, and how did it change your beliefs afterward?
Had a huge crush on a woman from my last job, I always felt tension between us and like there was mutual interest. I was to scared to make a move, mostly because I didn’t want to ruin anything.
I left the job 8 months ago but for some reason i still think about her. I know her full name but couldn’t find any social medias. How could I possibly see her again? Returning back to work isn’t an option because security, and i dont know if she even works there still.
Damn idk, hopefully i dont sound like a creep but i cant get her out of my mind.
So, my mom has a ho'oponopono book, and I looked into it a bit and I saw that there were more than the usual: "I'm sorry, forgive me, thank you, I love you". Like "ring light" or others, and something caught my attention which is "I am the I" which is supposed to connect you with the divinity which is you?
I want to use it in a lucid dream to see what will happen. Has someone used "I am the I" frase before?
I’ve been doing this stupid law of attraction thing for 2 days, focusing on money for hours and hours. All it did was make me go gamble and lose 200 dollars of my uber money. Now, I’m too burned out to work the money back that I used up. This law of attraction thing is literally buns anyway, nothing even happened good.
I’m not saying it wasn’t fun for awhile though. I did get a high from thinking I was gonna become a billionaire. Anyway that’s all I got, peace boys.
So i have been manifesting to get a life partner since 2 years but the right one is not coming . Never dated or have bad habits but somehow i am only attracting women not my type and those with whom i dont see my future . Why its happening , i cant figure out what am i doing wrong or what should be course of action now.
Lately I’ve noticed something strange.
A lot of people say they want:
healthy communication
emotional safety
consistency
calm love
But when they actually experience it, they sometimes lose interest because it feels “too easy.”
Meanwhile the confusing, emotionally unavailable person creates anxiety, uncertainty and emotional highs/lows… which somehow gets mistaken for passion.
I honestly think modern dating confused emotional chaos with real connection.
Curious if anyone else feels this way?
I am trying to get into a comitted relationship with my someone. But in my case third party are the dating apps where occassionally they find someone interesting to talk to which is very often. Every one of those failed eventually but how can just make them stop using the apps.
What should i visualize or affirm?
Anyone have tips to manifest sun/good weather? i need for a very expected summer vacation…
I thought about grabovoi but haven’t found any code for that. Open to any tips
I was born with severe mental and health issues that made simple daily activities impossible, by 18 I was clinically depressed, 18-25 I’m 26 now, I’ve experienced hell, deaths of loved ones, looked in jail for years, addicted to heavy drugs, got fired of every single job I’ve had, was homeless, and had absolutely no one by my side, the depression was too strong I tried to exit this life twice, I tried rehab psychotherapy, pills, nothing helped me, now I live everyday with a feeling so negative I cannot help but attract more and more and more of hell!!, I can’t do this anymore, my mother died last year to cancer and that was my biggest lost in life, I’m truly alone, I’m truly hurt, I use heavy drugs every day just to feel numb to the pain but it always comes back, my life is just a cycle of sadness and depression, I tried to use the law, affirmations visualisations, acting as if, but my vibration is always so low I cannot help but attract more hell, I need help I don’t know what to do anymore I’m like this for almost 10 years
Basically i have a friend who has been having a rough life lately and it has affected their mental health a lot. I was wondering if i could manifest things getting better for them or something like that?
Has anyone had successful experiences? How do you manifest for others?
And what i was afraid of and what he kept repeating that when he meets someone he will give her a chance and test the relationship.
There is a part of me who isn't believing this happened, and there is a part of me who's heartbroken. Now what?