u/Future-Advantage-377

so there's this person i have a crush on, but we've never actually talked before. we know of each other, but there's never been a conversation or any interaction.

i've been trying to manifest them approaching me or talking to me first instead of me making the first move. has anyone here actually done something like this successfully? if so, what did you do? did you use affirmations, visualization, sats, scripting, or something else?

i'd really love to hear success stories or any advice because i'm not sure what the best approach is in this situation.

so there's this person i have a crush on, but we've never actually talked before. we know of each other, but there's never been a conversation or any interaction.

i've been trying to manifest them approaching me or talking to me first instead of me making the first move. has anyone here actually done something like this successfully? if so, what did you do? did you use affirmations, visualization, sats, scripting, or something else?

i'd really love to hear success stories or any advice because i'm not sure what the best approach is in this situation.

hey, have you guys ever tried manifesting a specific thought into someone's head? Like sending a random message telepathically so they just suddenly think it? does that actually work?

i have this really confusing situation with a guy from my class. we literally never talk, except for one awkward argument we had a month ago over something stupid. but ever since then there’s been this constant eye contact/tension thing between us and it’s driving me insane.

at the beginning of the year i was the one constantly looking at him because i liked him, while he mostly ignored me. then after the argument i got colder or like more avoidant around him and tried to stop looking at him so much.

but now it somehow feels reversed. today at sports he kept staring at me all afternoon. like not in a delusional “omg maybe he glanced once” way. i genuinely felt observed the entire time, that it actually started to feel weird.

the problem is we already have so much awkward silence and tension built up that i genuinely cannot imagine us having a normal conversation anymore. it feels impossible to casually approach him because the whole thing already feels too charged.

and the dynamic feels like:
when i wanted him, he seemed distant.
now that i’m trying to move on a little, he suddenly notices me way more.

I have a crush on a guy I’ve barely talked to. It’s basically one of those mutual eye-contact situations where we keep noticing each other all the time, but we’re not actually friends.

One day we had a stupid awkward moment because I drew on his desk as a joke and he got annoyed thinking teachers would blame him. After that I started acting REALLY weird and now I’m scared he thinks I hate him.

Things I’ve done:

• dramatically moving the desk away from him
• avoiding him hard sometimes
• walking away when he appeared during break
• staring at him one day then looking at him like DEATH stare the next
• pretending disgust when friends mentioned him
• acting irritated whenever he became “too noticeable”
• trying way too hard to seem unaffected
• ignoring eye contact even when I wanted it

The worst part is that none of this is because I dislike him. I think I just got embarrassed after the desk incident and overcorrected so hard that now I probably look like i found him repulsive.

If someone acted like this toward you, would you assume they hated you?

okay am i overthinking this or was this lowkey weird

so there’s this guy in my class where we basically have this whole awkward eye contact situation going on for weeks but we barely talk. today we were at the sports field and i was sitting with my friends while he was nearby kneeling down grabbing something. then suddenly his best friend pushed him towards me while laughing and he immediately started going like “no no ” and acting all awkward about it

like i know boys joke around with each other all the time but WHY would his friend randomly do that specifically towards me

I just promised something. I promised to life, if his friend is ever absent, like whatever day, I'm gonna stand up, I'm gonna approach my crush and say, hi, do you know this girl from the other school? Because I know a little connection or like some talk or some sort, not school-related because he sucks at school, but like somewhere sort of more social, that's what boys like, interaction, connection. But I just need his friend to be absent that day when he's absent, that it's gonna be my day when I'm gonna approach him and ask him. And then, um, if we talk, maybe I can send him the full request, yeah?

(i'm saying this, because his best friend is always with him, and it got difficult to just approach him)