r/Crushes

So i have a crush on a guy he is the headboy of our college i found him very nice humble and cute his personality was so diff from everyone
I never actually got to have a conver with him but we made a eye contact omce and i never had the nerve to make it again and somehow college ended but it has been a year and he is still in ky mind the vidoes on the college page and i found his speeches online and one of his friends account that was public he posts with him like once in two months so its really difficult i sent him a request almost four months ago but he never accepted it was for a whole day i checked it like every hour and recently last month i sent a request again for almost 4 days and i somehow stalked him hard and found his 4 mutuals two public accounts and two private i sent those two girls request and got accepted now we have two mutuals he like one of the girls post and i recently checked and its unliked i even have ss and and while my request was pending he removed 7 people from 144 to 137 idk what to do now i don’t have the nerve to send him a message he will probably ignore or smth but i cant get over him i tried multiple things im so busy in my life but in every moment i just remember him he is a high acheiver good in studies and fo curriculars and aruff he has won several international mun and soeech competitions
Idk if i’m worthy enough idk but i just like him very much and i just don’t know what to do

I (17y/o girl) think I have a crush on one of my friends (also 17y/o girl).
We had lost contact for a while since we were in different friend groups and different classes but we started talking when we met at some parties with mutual friends.

It’s been about a week since the last one. We’ve been texting every night for 5 days, conversations lasting from 2-3 hours or more.
I thought I just saw her as a friend or that we are maybe growing into bestfriends (idk) but I’ve been thinking about her a lot. I wake up and I want to talk with her. I go to sleep thinking about her (cause we were talking lol). And all throughout the day, I wonder if I should text her about different things. I feel nervous. I don’t like it. Not that I don’t like her, she’s genuinely great person. I just don’t want to have a crush on her and ruin this friendship.

I don’t really know if what I have is a crush (although it does seem like it) but I am also generally in denial about crushes. I’m just not entirely sure about my feelings since they are so new.

She is gay. But she had a date with one of my friends not long ago (who she also has a crush on) and got rejected kindly but probably still has feelings for her. So I also feel wrong about that (having a crush on a friends date, a bit messed up).

She’s coming to my house in two days. I am lowkey panicking. What do I do…

When you are talking to a guy you have a massive crush on, do you consciously make an effort to speak in a softer, gentler, or quieter tone?

okay there was a girl in my school that i have been on crush 2 years but for some reason this year i used my mind and told my self that i was not worthy of even having a crush on her after that i stop stare at here and stop making eye contact everything's is going well until for some reason she appears in my dream for no reason she just randomly appear and disappear not speaking just quite people in my dream dont even seem to see her can someone explain is been 2 days i dont really have a crush on her now just a bit i need explanation asap idk why did i even dream of her

We share a LOTTT in common, have frequent coincidences, go for hours talking late night, he trusts me with his secrets and he’s said a lot of cute things.
I don’t wanna be delusional cuz we’re still friends but…

this guy decided to listen to all the songs of all albums from an artist just cuz I gatekept ONE song + it was exam szn and he also keeps sticky notes of each of my other interests on his desk just so he won’t forget em.

so genuinely, could this lowk mean smth? 😭

is it okay?

No idea where to start with this (or if I should even say anything other than the questions) but I will clarify there’s about a 7 year age gap between us.
Although we aren’t super close, we have quite a close friendship(?) between us, just for reference.

• Q1: is this normal? I’m already weird enough, I don’t need this added onto my resume 😭

• Q2: how do I tell if it’s a serious crush or not? what even is a serious crush? do serious crushes even exist?

So a few weeks ago at school something CRAZY HAPPENED. So I was just chilling out on da soccer field. But the my crushes' BOYFRIEND (my arch nemesis) came outta nowhere, and this kids fuckass just started full on TACKLING ME. Now, he may be 1 year older than me but I kinda fucked his face up. (Broken nose, blood everywhere, etc.), and when we were in the principal's office he LIED, but the principal brang in witnesses (mostly my friends, fortunately) and his lying ahh got suspended for 2 weeks for doing the same thing to littler kids. And then more recently, my crush came up to me and said that she "broke up" with her "boyfriend" and she actually liked ME. HOLY COMEBACK.

I[20] F. I have a huge crush on my classmate in college. I never liked someone that much. I don't know if he likes me or not but there is always some eye contact going on between us from one year. I think about him a lot so much that he started appearing in my dreams too. But the problem is that the 1st year result came 2 days ago and I checked his result that dumbass failed in almost every theory subject not only in second sem but in first sem too. Back of my mind I also thought how someone can be that dumb but anyone. Now I am scared if he will ever be given a chance to continue 2nd year. Will he ever come to college. Is this the end of my story🥲

I met a girl at a party a few days ago, I clearly thought she was into me but I never thought too much of it. While casual conversations with friends she did get touchy but in a friendly way. Keep in mind, I wasn't into her at this point.

Now I'm the type of person that never asks out anybody, so I wasn't planning to make a move anyway, but after the party, she revealed to one of my close friends that she found me cute, which was later conveyed to me in secret, by the friend.

I immediately started giving it a thought and started crushing on her.

I talked to her over text at night and played a few games online. It was a great night and we talked a bunch. When I confronted her about her comment earlier, she said that she wasn't looking for anyone.

Now I think the reason she didn't really reciprocate my feelings is because I'm moving away for college in a few days, and maybe her answer would have been different if I stayed in town.

The past day and a half has me thinking about her now. I hate to admit this but I'm crushing hard now 😅.

Please help me move on.

I recognize this now as an adult. I’m a black woman who actually doesn’t really live around many of her background. At 21 I have had 2 boyfriends (3 I suppose if you count one who asked me out and I’d accepted though it fizzled out,) been approached by more men than I can count on my two hands, and am in a stage now wherein I know dating is possible for me. I don’t really look any better than I used to. It’s just that men are attracted to a variety of looks, and as a woman you don’t need to be particularly well kept to get the attention of one or a few. To some I’d be a little below average, I don’t really take care of myself at all due to depression and I’m old enough now that I understand a few men have technically had crushes on me even though I used to feel like it was just impossible. When I was 15 I’d even cried about no one having liked me. I thought then that it’d never happen.

I never used to get celebrity crushes. At least not like this. Not to where it just makes me sad, and to where I fantasize about her being my girlfriend or even best friend.

Sure, I've had times where I think a certain famous person is attractive, but this is like an intense romantic crush. By the way, Shes a tennis player for you curious minds.

I've already started filtering any content of her out, even changing my settings on tiktok to avoid certain words.

So what do I do about this? And for those who have had stuff like this happen in the past, how did you get over it, or move on from it... Or just made it go away!

I've been crushing on this girl and we been smiling back and forth and she even waved at me first today I thought she was interested werid mistook politeness as liking... now works gonna be awkward man we kept smiling at eachother yesterday howd I misread this

​I saw him in church today. He talked to other girls, but not to me. We made eye contact, but because I was nervous, I wasn’t able to smile. I thought he would at least talk to me because I had messaged him two weeks ago. The last time I saw him, three weeks ago, I started a conversation, but he didn't even seem interested in continuing it. Today I saw him for the last time; I won't see him again. I was afraid to talk, but he never cared about me either. All I could do was cry after reaching home.

​Three years... all those years I waited for you in church just to see your face, just to talk to you, just to see you smile... and now it comes to an end. I don't know if I can really move on.

​Bye, Jeffy. I always loved you.

I'm 100% confident asking girls out, yet nowhere a place to meet new people

So therefore

i want a gf i want a gf i want a gf...

i want a gf that speaks Spanish

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I want to tell him how I feel, but I don't want to do it over text but I always get too nervous to tell him in person, and I don't even know if he likes me back. We're also friends, and I don't want to ruin the friendship. I also just don't really know how to go about asking him out since I don't normally ask people out.

Edit: We both dislike calling, and we are in high school and on summer break, and I get too nervous telling people I like them in person. I know I am making this really difficult and am really only leaving it to telling him over text, but I hate doing that, so I've kinda just been stuck in this loop of not sure what to do.

so like im not gonna give many details because i dont want him to know and idk if he uses reddit.

im turning 15 in 2 months. Hes 17. im a trans boy and idek if he likes boys. he doesnt even go to my school (australian schooling so im in highschool and hes in collage). i only know him because he USED to go to my school before he graduated and i see him now because he comes to a musical we're both participating in.

im so sad cause i never have crushes and i know this is a crush because i giggle and blush whenever i think about him. aauugghh what do i dooo. i miss him so much but i have no way of talking to him for the next 2 weeks until the next rehersal.

i know i cant be with him because hes way too old for me atm, but I'd be happy just talking to him. sigh

I’m planning to confess tomorrow afternoon when I’m about to board my flight and then turn off my phone so I won’t see the response for the entirety of the flight idk if this plan is stupid or not or whether I should just give up because I know theres a few other people who like her as well and I’m probably the worst choice out of everyone

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a little sad over it but it is what it is. my crush, another guy, and I were in a room and my crush said how he thought a specific girl who passed by was cute. I didn’t hear him right away so I went “huh” but he didn’t say anything, then he repeated what he said to the other guy. I’m probably reading into this too much, or maybe I’m not. this probably means he doesn’t like me in that way, right? there was one time awhile ago where he told me a certain girl was cute but that was before I really liked him. if this means he doesn’t like me I accept it and I’ll work to get over him

He texted me today wishing me a happy birthday. Never thought he'd ever do that lol also he knows I like him cuz i asked him out months ago but he just started seeing someone so that's why im shocked he texted me at all lol