I confessed, asked if he wanted to hang and he’s seeing someone…. I’m trying to move on and he won’t leave me be!!! Keep coming up talking to me and wants to interact and say hi all the time!!
Every time I feel like I wasn’t wrong and have to redirect to reality of his unavailability. Spiral back into crushing and feeling silly.
Uncool.
I just had to share this with people who would understand the reference.
I met a guy who displayed (to me) the signs of interest and when I asked him out he said he had a girlfriend!
I immediately thought of poor Eliza Jane and said to myself, “Omg, I’ve been Harve’d.”
Does anyone have recommendations for a memory care or even dementia friendly assisted living that accepts Medicaid upon admission? My mother is on Medicaid and I’m not altogether pleased with her current assisted living facility but I think finding proper care may be harder under her circumstances (we have been struggling to find another place working with MyChoice case worker). I suspect the lack of support is not unique to her facility but have any of you had loved ones on Medicaid who found good care?
(Adding 1. I was her caregiver and it was destroying my life, I’m an only child with no family support and I visit her daily now that she is in a facility and 2. there are some very sweet caregivers where my mom is, not trying to drag them, but overall the level of care is incredibly disappointing and I’m stunned by how bad the admin is).
I’m thinking of just popping a post it on my coworkers desk with my number stating I’d like to chat away from work, if they’re interested they can text me.
Is that a bad idea?
I’m a woman and he is a man. I feel he was giving me attention, frequently passing desk, saying hi, good morning, popping up in break room at the same time… but I also feel that since I’ve reciprocated more he’s stopped doing those things, which I would usually read as rejection except he stops to talk to me if I just say hi as we pass and when he doesn’t need to, he continues to look at me in meetings or in the office when he’s walking around, (you can tell when people are looking at you), or he’ll clear his throat or something if I don’t notice him and then say hello and we chat…. I feel somewhat confused, however, because his behavior did change when I feel I started to reciprocate and show my interest which is when I think he’d want to continue to pass me and say good morning and so on vs pull back from that.
I don’t want to make this guy uncomfortable or embarrass myself but I kind of want to end the ambiguity and just know what’s up. Good idea or no?
I have recently started a new job. I am being trained by a coworker. It’s confusing and I am self-conscious about how long I’m taking to understand.
I was speaking with a member of a connected team the other day and said that I would like to shadow one of them to get a better idea of how things work. A random women interrupted our conversation with, “yes!” and proceeded to go into detail with my coworker about how she dislikes the training here. I was not involved in the conversation at all.
The woman, who I had never directly spoken with, approached my desk the next day and said, “You’re not the only person who has complained about training. I didn’t use names but I mentioned…” and went on to talk about what she does here…. ?!???!
The people training me are, obviously, seated right by me!!!! They heard this. I said to the woman, “I wasn’t complaining….” because I wasn’t… but I feel the damage has been done with the coworkers who are quite cold to me.
How should I address this? I want to clarify that I have no idea what that lady is talking about and was not complaining. Should I or should I just carry on?
I’m pretty upset that lady did that.