u/ThrowRA_angelgurl

I’m becoming SO frustrated with myself 😭

Why am I just not grasping manifestation/Law of Assumption?!
I’ve read the books, watched the videos, read endless threads, and I (kind of) understand the idea of living in the wish fulfilled, but I cannot figure out how to actually stay there without constantly wavering.

My SP and I split last year. After a couple of months no contact, they came back and now we’re consistently in contact again, very minimal, but still some messages back and fourth throughout the day. I believe wholeheartedly we are meant for each other and can give eachother a happy future. It’s been hard for BOTH of us to let go (evidently, we’re still talking).

My biggest struggle is the 3D. If they haven’t messaged yet, leaves me on read, or takes hours to reply, I start checking last active, Snap scores, etc. Then my brain immediately goes: “They’ve been online, they’ve seen my name, they’re choosing not to talk to me.”

I KNOW that’s the exact cycle I need to stop feeding. But HOW?! 😭

I affirm constantly, and I try to replace those thoughts with “It doesn’t matter, they’re probably busy, everything is working out for me”, but I’m such a chronic overthinker, it literally consumes my brain 24/7, that the anxious/negative voice feels 10x louder than the new story I’m trying to create.

It’s like the good on one shoulder, the bad on the other and I try so hard to tune into the good but the bad is just SO LOUD!

How do you actually reprogram yourself enough that the new story becomes your natural assumption, rather than something you’re desperately trying to convince yourself is true?

Please explain it to me like I’m five because I promise I’m trying 🥺

Hello - my ex bf and I broke up 7 months ago, we are still very much in contact.
I lit red & blue tealight candles over a honey jar with his name (I made this ages ago) put a photo up on my phone of him and spoke to the photo and said he loves me, he’s obsessed with me, I wish no ill intent on anyone, his family loves me, my family loves him etc.

I lit the candles on top of the jar that also has a heart shaped rock placed in front of it that he gave me.

Now for some reason I feel anxious about it. I didn’t call in any particular spirits or anything, I didn’t actually burn anything along with it, and because I started stressing after about 10 mins blew out the candles.

A live ‘witch’ on tiktok said this was so wrong and I now need to do protection over myself and my house. Please help I’m feeling super anxious 😔

Hello everyone ❤️ bit of a long one, sorry!
Hoping to get some guidance, tips and success stories from anyone who has manifested an SP back after a breakup due to religious differences.

Long story short, my boyfriend and I were together for almost 3 years. When he finally told his parents he was ready to marry me, they didn’t approve due to religious differences and essentially threatened to disown him. They had never met me and didn’t even know I existed until he sat them down and told them he was ready for a future with me.

We broke up pretty much straight away because of the pressure from his family, even though we were both still very much in love and honestly neither of us really knew how to handle the situation.

After about 3 months of no contact, I spent a lot of time working on myself, listening to subliminals, focusing on my mindset and trying to heal. Then in February, he came back into my life. I believe so strongly this was due to my persistency in manifesting. Since then, we’ve been in contact almost every day. Most of it has been online, often flirty, and the connection is definitely still there. However, he tends to get close, pull back, and then come back in again.

A few weeks ago, we finally saw each other one-on-one for the first time since the breakup, and it was honestly so nice. It felt like no time had passed at all. We’ve continued our daily ‘check ins’ since and he keeps saying ‘next time’. But since then, it’s left me feeling a little confused.

My question is: where would you direct your manifesting in a situation like this?

I don’t feel like the issue is whether he loves me. I genuinely believe he does. The obstacle has always been his family’s disapproval and his ability to stand strong in the face of that pressure.
Would you focus on manifesting the end result (being together, engaged or married), or would you specifically focus on his parents’ approval and both families coming together harmoniously? And HOW do I live in the end when my mind is literally racing every single day about how badly I want it to work between us.

I’d love to hear from anyone who’s had success in a similar situation, especially if religion, culture, or family expectations were involved. What techniques, mindset shifts, or approaches helped you the most?

I love him alot, and I genuinely believe we would make a really beautiful future together.

Thank you ❤️

Hello everyone ❤️ bit of a long one, sorry!
Hoping to get some guidance, tips and success stories from anyone who has manifested an SP back after a breakup due to religious differences.

Long story short, my boyfriend and I were together for almost 3 years. When he finally told his parents he was ready to marry me, they didn’t approve due to religious differences and essentially threatened to disown him. They had never met me and didn’t even know I existed until he sat them down and told them he was ready for a future with me.

We broke up pretty much straight away because of the pressure from his family, even though we were both still very much in love and honestly neither of us really knew how to handle the situation.

After about 3 months of no contact, I spent a lot of time working on myself, listening to subliminals, focusing on my mindset and trying to heal. Then in February, he came back into my life. I believe so strongly this was due to my persistency in manifesting. Since then, we’ve been in contact almost every day. Most of it has been online, often flirty, and the connection is definitely still there. However, he tends to get close, pull back, and then come back in again.

A few days ago, we finally saw each other one-on-one for the first time since the breakup, and it was honestly so nice. It felt like no time had passed at all. But since then, he’s pulled back again, which has left me feeling a little confused.

My question is: where would you direct your manifesting in a situation like this?

I don’t feel like the issue is whether he loves me. I genuinely believe he does. The obstacle has always been his family’s disapproval and his ability to stand strong in the face of that pressure.
Would you focus on manifesting the end result (being together, engaged or married), or would you specifically focus on his parents’ approval and both families coming together harmoniously?

I’d love to hear from anyone who’s had success in a similar situation, especially if religion, culture, or family expectations were involved. What techniques, mindset shifts, or approaches helped you the most?

Thank you ❤️