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LAS - Bad Split

Hi everyone! I’ve recently come across this subreddit and I’m curious to hear about people’s experiences with Neville Goddard’s Law of Assumption, particularly when it comes to relationships/dating.

Has anyone practised the Law of Assumption in a situation where you were dating or getting to know someone, had a genuinely good connection, but things ultimately ended quite badly and you were blocked?
In my situation, he initially ended things because he felt it would be better for both of us and would prevent us from potentially hurting each other further down the line. I didn’t handle the ending particularly well and, admittedly, I reached out across multiple platforms rather than respecting the boundary he had put in place.

Understandably, that upset him and contributed to things ending on much worse terms.

From something a friend has told me, I have reason to wonder whether he may have been considering coming back before everything escalated, although I want to be clear that this was never actually confirmed.

Despite how badly everything ended, I have this persistent gut feeling that our story isn’t necessarily over. I know that doesn’t mean he will come back, and I’m continuing with my own life rather than treating it as a certainty. It’s just a feeling I haven’t been able to shake, and it’s particularly strange to me because I’ve never experienced this with anyone I’ve dated previously.

I’d therefore love to hear specifically from people who have been in a similar situation. Did you practise the Law of Assumption after a difficult ending/no-contact situation? What did your practice actually look like? Did anything eventually change between you and that person, and regardless of the outcome, how did the experience affect you?

TIA !

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things i’ve manifested since working on self concept

for the first time in YEARS i finally locked in my self concept about a week ago. i de-centered all my desires and put the focus 100% on me. i had a lot of self concept affirmations but the one that i default to and works best for me each time is: “i always get everything i want”. here’s what i got with it in only days:

• SP cut off a 3p
• professor curved my grade from a C to a B without me asking
• two vintage clothing items in my exact size that i couldn’t find anywhere

lock in that self concept guys!!! it’s the key to all your desires

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u/Routine-Doctor9718 — 24 hours ago

One step forward and 10 steps back trying to manifest my SP?!

The other day I kindof just daydreamed or something of SP and to my surprise I got the first small movement in months.

For two days I could kind of felt him missing me or something. So it was easy to assume he still felt something for me.

HOWEVER, then I spiralled I guess into varying states of trying to imagine us together, it not working, then maybe obsessively thinking about him (because I confuse that with effective manifesting), giving up and just focusing on myself by doing fitness or work.

But to be honest, right now I feel kind of miserable and abandoned. I feel like lack. I.e; I can't feel him at all (if that makes sense). I am affirming, imagining, assuming....and literally NOTHING is working!

I am saying he loves me forever, adores me etc....but yet where is he?! He is not here adoring me.

I try DECLARING we are together. Just expecting he will message me because why would he not when we are in a relationship together? Yes he isn't:(

And I feel like even if he did come back I don't know if I could even sustain a relationship? Because I have kind of become depressed and boring and not vibrant. Maybe I could not even be the personality that he expects? Is that putting him on a pedestal? And does that keep him away or not?

I feel like even the advice I receive I am too stupid to even understand how to APPLY it.

Like if someone says "just change yourself" I don't know *how*.

How can I fix my problem please. It feels hopeless. I have even lost my appetite 🥺

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u/Affectionate_Top959 — 1 day ago

Manifesting our desires from the fullness of our being

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When I see anyone talk about manifestation, I see they claim to get something or achieve their desires by doing some techniques. There are thousands of posts in this community as to how to manifest doing the perfect technique or about success stories. If you're looking for another technique, then this post is not for you.

This is not a manifestation success story. This is a manifestation failure story for those who are struggling and want peace from this exhaustion.

You are probably asked to persist without thinking negatively, without paying attention to your doubts, fears, or negative circumstances. So, you are persisting, keeping your hopes high. Trying to understand what you are doing wrong.

You have seen that manifestation does work and you are the living example, but when it comes to your deepest desires, it just doesn't manifest.

Meanwhile, this entire process becomes a journey of exhaustion. You began this journey because you wanted to make your life better, feel happier and more fulfilled. But doing technique after technique, you are mentally exhausted, physically tired, and emotionally drained, but you are scared of accepting that as well because you fear that if you think negatively, you will manifest the negative.

So, you are high vibing, but feeling empty inside. Waiting tiredly, but trying hard to live in the end.

Now, what if I tell you that you don't need to do all that to get what you want? What if I tell you your desires are manifesting all the time even if you don't do any techniques?

What if I tell you, you don't need to be working on your resistances, healing, mindset, self-concept, or anything to get your desires fulfilled?

Now why don't you need to do all these things? Because you are not essentially who you think yourself to be.

You might have heard that you are not the mind and body; you are the consciousness. But what is that exactly? And how would knowing that you are consciousness help you get your desires?

Let's first answer the first question. If you search in Google, the AI response says, "Consciousness is the state of being awake and aware of your own thoughts, feelings, and surroundings. It is your inner life and your personal experience of the world."

I find this definition quite appropriate. Consciousness is the awareness with which you are aware, with which you KNOW or ARE AWARE of anything and everything.

Now, if you find the pun here, "with which you are aware," that means it must be something that "you" are not?

Now, if I ask you, who you are? What would you say? Don't answer me from any theory, just answer me from your experience.

There is a famous quote, "I may forget who I am, where I am, what I am, but I cannot forget that I Am." I AM is your experience, right? You might be confused about who you truly are, but you are sure that YOU ARE, right?

Stay with me. I'll guide you deeper into a practical tool.

Now to answer the second question, knowing that you are consciousness will NOT help you unless you actually experience it. Only theoretical knowledge is not helpful at all. You can say "oh, now I know that I am consciousness/awareness and that means I am all that is, one with the source, one with my desires, so I can have it all and now I decide that I have it all." But nothing will practically shift, not even your mental state (except a temporary high, then eventual frustration), unless you see, feel and experience yourself as ALL THAT IS.

So, how to experience it, PRACTICALLY?

Here's some practical guidance:

Try this at a quiet moment by sitting in meditation:

Close your eyes and let your attention relax. Let yourself go deeper, deeper, and deeper into yourself. Let the thoughts come, images come, sounds come - don't fight them... Let them be. Just simply take your attention away from them... Go deeper and allow your attention to expand within. Relax within. As if you're falling asleep.

Now in this relaxed state, try to find yourself. Whoever you know yourself to be - try to find that person. The person is a combination of thoughts, feelings, and emotions.

If you're deep within yourself, you must find that person you call by your name. Where is s/he?

Can you find the solid person? The entity?

There are thoughts - but the thoughts are running in you, there are images - but images are appearing in you, there are feelings - but the feelings are coming and going.

But where is the combination of all of it?

Don't let your mind answer it. Let your experience speak.

Are you really a person who is a combination of these things, or are you the one who is AWARE of it all, OBSERVING it all, KNOWING it all? The one in which everything is appearing and disappearing?

One who is constant, always present, and always unaffected by it all?

When you look for the separate person directly, can you actually find it in your experience?

Experience it yourself, and even during the day, go back to this presence of awareness during all experience.

You and AWARENESS/CONSCIOUSNESS are not separate. You can also call it the Universe because it is ALL THAT IS. You are ALL THAT IS. You are ONE WITH IT ALL. We are all that ONE.

How does this experience help?

This experience helps you to recognize that the self that you are trying to improve, change, or shift doesn't exist. The ego doesn't exist. It is an illusion. And an illusion need not be changed or shifted; it is to be recognized as such.

You are not a person who needs to change their self-concept, improve their thoughts, heal to clear resistances, or do techniques to make yourself feel worthy. The person is an illusion. When you see a mirage in a desert, you don't need to do anything to change it; when you look closer, you see it in its originality as the desert itself. You are also not supposed to do anything to recognize your oneness with everything, including your desires. You just need to look closely, again and again.

This self-recognition is the first step to free yourself from the exhaustion of self-improvement techniques and allow your desires effortlessly. But this is not the only thing needed, and things don't always magically appear by doing this; you also need to take actions. I know it sounds too "unmanifestation-like," and all the manifestation experts will now jump on me to say how they manifested big things without taking any actions. But I'll talk about actions in detail in my next post.

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u/theeternalfreedom12 — 1 day ago

If you're holding back 'negative' emotions... Quit it.

I see it like this :

Emotions are like waves that crash and recede on the beach.

Some feel bad, some feel good, but they're all waves.

Your self concept/ energy set point is the beach.

And to continue the analogy, your manifestation comes to you like a little boat on the water.

If you try and hold back all the emotions from the beach, it will hold back the manifestation. (This isn't always true, but it is for most situations )

If you feel your feelings and fully process them, you'll be able to calm the waters, and the manifestation will come to you easier.

If there's anything I need to clear up or you have any questions just let me know 🤗

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u/Witch_of_Whimsy — 2 days ago
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Reconciliation subliminals

I am VERY new to manifestation.

I have been listening to & meditating to reconciliation subliminals for about a month now. So far no (visible) movement. My ex & I have been broken up for about 3 months & currently I’m blocked…

I feel like I’m starting to lose hope… no matter how much I try to affirm we will reconnect.

Do you have any suggestions for me? While you listen to these, do you have to stay focused & picture the person or is it beneficial to just have it playing in the background while doing other things & not necessarily listening?

Thanks!

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u/gbd_horsies — 2 days ago
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Recomendación de sub

Hola, uso muchos subs y estoy manifestando a mi PE, tengo progreso pero yo creo más en los subs que tienen magia, por lo que uso los de Athena 111, pero me gustaría saber si hay otros subs que sean así o que utilicen seres para hacer los videos, me podrían dar recomendaciones ? Muchas gracias

u/just_an_anxious_one — 1 day ago

Law of assumption Is REAL!

Hi everyone!

I’m relatively new to this amazing world, but one thing I can tell you is that manifestation is 100% real!

I won’t make this too long. At first, I really struggled with manifesting and it seemed impossible. Then I came across this post:

www.reddit.com/r/Manifestation/s/2XClausWeA

It really helped me understand the Law of Assumption and realize that I have the power to create whatever I want. OP explains very well how we are the ones who create our own rules, deciding what works and what doesn’t, and that you don’t even have to believe in manifestation for it to work if you decide that belief isn’t necessary.

To keep it short, thanks to that post I set my own rules:

- I can manifest in any way I want, but I prefer doing it by writing in a journal.

- It doesn’t matter if my thoughts contradict my desire.

- It doesn’t matter if I feel anxious.

- It doesn’t matter if I lose hope.

- It doesn’t matter if I constantly look for proof in the 3D.

Whatever I write on that piece of paper MUST happen.

It hasn’t been all sunshine and rainbows, though. I’ll be honest: during the first few days I was absolutely convinced, but over time I started losing hope because I wasn’t seeing any movement...

But today I changed my mind. I manifested good luck, and today I experienced so many small lucky events. I manifested new connections, and today a friend invited me to hang out with some mutual friends next week, starting the bridge of events that will lead me to those new connections. I manifested compassion and acceptance from the people around me (after recently going through a very traumatic event), and so many other things are slowly starting to gain momentum.

Now you might be wondering: how did I manifest all of this if I didn’t believe 100%, didn’t detach from my desires, had doubts and anxiety, and was constantly looking for signs in the 3D?

Because I DECIDED that none of those things matter.

My manifestations have to happen regardless of all of that, and that’s exactly what happened.

I really encourage you to read the post I linked if you haven’t already, because it completely opened up a new world for me.

And always remember: YOU are the creator of your reality, and YOU get to decide YOUR rules.

I genuinely hope this story can help someone. ❤️

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u/strqfeh — 3 days ago
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genuinely what am i doing wrong??

Hi guys im going to start this off by saying, i know how manifestation works, i understand that i am the source, everything happens NOW the moment i decide it in my head and that the 3d is just a lag/not real etc. Im not even desperate for my desire, i dont put my SP on a pedestal and im living my life without the need for validation from the 3d. Everytime i try to manifest on a time crunch, eg i want a text from my sp in an hour, it never ends up working out.
i just decide that ive gotten a text from sp and in my head i visualize the time i want the text at (eg 4 pm) on my phone and visualize looking at the chat at that moment, then i just forget it cus i know its done and move on with my day, today i did exactly that and took a nap. But i woke up to no text. What am i doing wrong?? and pls dont say that its not working cus i said im doing something wrong cus ive tried like 5 times already and each time i genuinely think im going to get a text.

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u/Ill-Stuff-1643 — 2 days ago
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Besoin d’aide

Voilà ça fait quelque jours que mon sp est partie
Je ne suis pas dévasté parce que je sais que le plus important c’est de continuer à vivre sa vie dans les manifestations.
Tout me hurle que malgré tout ça il reviendra vers moi.
J’ai fais une fiche de manifestation avec ce que je désire mais je sors je pense à autre chose ect et en ce moment je fais la méthode AYA.
J’écoute un subliminal ou je me répète des affirmations avec la profonde envie que ça fonctionne je sais qu’il faut se dire que ça nous ai déjà arrivé et c’est ce que je fais.
Le truc c’est que lorsque je suis sur le point de m’endormir ou non en écoutant l’audio et en continuant à répéter mes affirmations j’ai des vagues d’angoisse dans mon estomac énorme et c’est incompréhensible.
J’ai vue une personne dire que il lui était arrivé la même chose et que elle pensait mal faire mais que ça fonctionnait enfaite.
Faut savoir que avec mon sp c’était une relation de deux ans et demi très très forte énergétique ment parlant à se parler tout le temps et tout faire ensemble.
Il est parti pour certain raison et a dit que c’était absolument terminé et ça fait plus de deux jours que on est en non contact.
Je ne sais pas à quoi sont dus les grosses crises d’angoisses lors de mes affirmations est ce que quelqu’un peut m’aider ?
Merci d’avance

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u/Natural_Novel7281 — 2 days ago

extreme movement with sp only to get friendzoned a second time. please help me for the love of god

my sp and i met on a dating app. despite the fact that we are long distance we fostered an extremely special connection. in the beginning, he was the epitome of everything i wanted in a partner down to his intricacies and treatment towards me. he once abruptly said mid conversation that he really liked me and i made him really happy whenever i talked to him. we didn’t have a proper conversation about actually becoming something since it was so early, but things he would say indicated that he wanted and saw potential for it.

however, the more i fell for him, the more i feared the lack of direction / exclusivity between us, and if it would be temporary after all. soon after, he started reflecting my fears, grew distant, entertained 3ps, and friendzoned me, saying i didn’t evoke the feelings of overwhelming happiness he was looking for. he said i had a lot of qualities he wanted, but he wasn’t reacting the way he should. i was devastated.

after a bit of no contact we started talking again. our interactions were sporadic and very low effort. he was still entertaining 3ps from the dating app and would talk to me about them whenever we would, or how he missed his ex.

after a month of sats and affirmation tapes he abruptly started texting me every day. our conversations had the depth and flow of ones from before if not even more. he would even spam me while i was sleeping to rant about any epiphanies he had. he would ask to call, watch movies, and play games together. he said he was done with all of his romantic pursuits and that i happened to be the person he was most comfortable talking to. that he was really content with me and didn’t need to invite anymore trouble into his life. we started sexting again, which we hadn’t done since before he friendzoned me. he would even repeat some of my affirmations, telling me he trusted me a lot. it has been like this for a while. the energy between us is like we’re already in a relationship.

even though we have both been on vacation this past week, we would still text every single day, all day. it went without saying that we were the main person in each other’s lives. whenever he would do something unfavorable, i Would react, before letting go and persisting: he only has eyes for me, we are in a committed relationship, etc. whenever he texted me it would naturally read in my subconscious that my boyfriend was texting me.

yesterday morning, however, he sent me screenshots of his texts with one of the 3ps that wouldn’t reciprocate his efforts and was giving him breadcrumbs. he was confronting her about this before she friendzoned him. his wording in his texts to her was almost verbatim what i said in my confrontation with him, when he was distant and friendzoned me, down to my vocabulary and everything. i thought he wasn’t in contact with her anymore, but here he was so willing to pursue her, unlike with me. i was very upset and exhibited it. he said he thought him and i were just friends enjoying each other’s company for the time being and that we’d eventually diverge when we got into serious relationships with other people. i put my foot down and said i could not accept nor did i deserve being reduced to a friend with benefits anymore, because i had feelings for him. he said he understood and it was my call to stay in contact or not. i said “your loss” and that was that.

we obviously haven’t been in contact since this conversation but still have each other on all of our socials. he has liked one of my tiktoks (a fancam i took of my idol) last night even after all of this happened.

i’m not going to give up but i feel like i was about to reach the top of the stairs only to get pushed all the way down. i really thought things were shifting towards us becoming committed and was more than confident that he had feelings for me. i feel stuck because i can’t just ignore this, and if i affirm in my favor like “oh he just doesn’t wanna commit because he loves me too much and risking losing me would be the biggest loss of his life” i feel like it’s just going to give me more of that circumstance. i don’t know what to do or what i have to change. i know there’s nothing TO do if you’re actually living in the end but it’s so fucking irritating because i’ve really been embodying the state more than i ever have, and things have really been clicking only for him to appear this way. i am clearly doing something wrong if this is happening and idk what 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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u/girltheftauto — 2 days ago

Body dysmorphia back with a vengence after starting affrimations

Hi all,

So I used to have severe body dysmorphia, like i hated myself and my appearance. Knew all about the law but wasn't really applying it. I would have these BDD episodes where I would see myself in a mirror or photo and spiral completely, even to the point of feeling suicidal.

After a bad breakup with my ex (and several successes and failures on manifesting them back), I finally turned my focus to self-love, but I knew I couldn't continue on that way. Did Ayahausca which opened up a lot and dissolved a lot of the self hate etc. etc.

I started to feel better about myself. Eventually I ended up getting some cosmetic work done (something I'd actually been trying to manifest for years) - and I felt 1000x better about the way I looked. That combined with the self concept work and, even though I'd still feel insecure or appearence focused sometimes, I completely stopped having BDD episodes. Mostly I felt good, mostly I felt very beautiful. I would feel good about the fact I was 'cured' of BDD.

Recently, I moved back home. I'd had a rough couple of months for things unrelated to my appearence and I decided to really focus in on affirmations. I would do breathwork 2-3x a day, followed by a meditation, followed by 10 minutes of positive affirmations. The affirmations covered everything but there were ones related to being so beautiful like 'I am beautiful/I love the way I look/I am always getting more beautiful' etc.! And I was seeing really great results in several areas in my life, including people saying I looked great. I wanted to feel so confident and secure in myself.

But a few weeks into this and I suddenly started noticing things about myself I didn't like. Things about my appearence. It would become an obsession, but then I would affirm away and forget about it for a while.

Then one time I caught eye of something on my face I hadn't noticed before and I basically fell completely into a full fledged BDD episode - keeping in mind i haven't had one in over a year. Since then it's been one thing after another, a new obsession, a new thing about myself to panic over, seeing myself as ugly or deeply flawed in the mirror. I'm very, very tired.

I try to affirm to oppose the thing I'm freaking out about and I end up feeling worse - I can only go back to affirming once the episode calms down. I remind myself that it's all an illusion, I look however I want to look. I even know on a logical level, the BDD is showing me something that is not there. Sometimes I can see it in front of my eyes where the obsession changes to something else, and the last flaw becomes less noticable to me.

I just... I don't understand why this only happened when I got into a proper routine for affirming and manifesting and I was feeling SO good, it was working so well, then this old monster just crept up outta nowhere. I also notice anxiety rising in my life in general. If I manage to release the beauty obsessions for awhile, the anxiety moves to something to do with my social life.

Is it an old self clinging on for dear life? Is it because I shouldn't be affirming for beauty?

You can tell me to ignore the 3D, but trust me, I know what should be done. It's more a curiosity about why this has even come back now, of all times, just as I am starting to affirm regularly. Has anyone else experienced this?

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u/Ordinary_Team2849 — 2 days ago

I am going to do this

Hey! This is the last where I asked you guys for some help, for my sp manifestation. Please guys help me for the last time, that how do I manifest my sp? Enough is enough, I'm tired to doing all these. My only problem is I can't stick to my new reality. It feels sometimes so fake, like I am lying to myself that I have already my sp. Where the 3d is something else. Now I just change the entire thing. Can you guys tell me how to get over this and also ignore all the doubts?

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u/AssignmentWarm7016 — 2 days ago
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I manifested €1600 euros :)

Hi Guys,

I don’t know exactly where to start. Firstly, thanks to all of you here who post their success stories and keep us motivated.
Ok Here we go:

Lately, I was feeling really detached from everything in my life. I was always keen to manifest my boyfriend as my husband, but somehow I gave up on it, because I thought it was too difficult to manifest him and always spiraling and had stress and negative thoughts and emotions regarding to him. So I decided to let it go and surrender but decided to manifest money abundance instead.

2 weeks ago, I bought a lottery ticket for 50 million euros and I started affirming money affirmations badly and listening to many subliminals on YouTube regards to it and started positive inner conversations to impress my subconscious, but I guess deep down I still had limited beliefs so I did not win any lottery amount even though I was doing all the techniques, I guess I was not in that state because I got attached to money as well and kept on checking my 3D.

From past 2-3 years, I’ve been trying everything to manifest my boyfriend as my husband but no concrete results; yes techniques made some temporary changes in him but nothing much and had same hot and cold relationship. Because I realized that I was blindly following different techniques without any belief and was super attached to them. I watched so many youtube coaches and did everything possible. I did manage to manifest tiny things here and there but nothing special apart from that.

Fast Forward, I started reading so many success stories here on reddit and then I finally realized that It’s not that difficult to manifest as we think it is. After reading tons of success stories, it clicked me that I don’t need any technique, just need to change my inner-self/inner-belief. I need to just trust myself - and that’s it, the rest will all be taken care of eventually even though we don’t see it yet in 3d but it’s unfolding slowly.

So I decided to work on myself - my self concept. With the help of ChatGPT, I wrote all the affirmations to boost my self confidence, self belief, abundance, body and mind regulation, self love and destroy fear and worries. I recorded them on voice meme and looped them overnight using VLC. I only listened to them once and also found High Frequency Gurus self concept upgrade rampages and subliminal and I listen to them daily. Ever since, I started doing that I got detached from my desire- be it money or boyfriend. However, boyfriend part is where I am still lingering on to in my energies but I am working on it. So, yesterday, when I was not even thinking about money at all, totally detached and completely forgotten about it, while sorting my wardrobe I found €1600 lying under my clothes somewhere, which I was completely unaware of that I had this much amount of money. I was completely shocked and of course happy about it :) :D . So I consider that I manifested it when got detached.

Honestly, what I learnt is that you don’t need any technique and don’t be hard on yourself. Method: Living in the knowing state

Decide (what you want)-> Trust ( bathe in Certainty that you have it) -> Detach, Relax and live your life (completely forget about it or let it go/surrender) . Deciding is just like you decide going to shopping, but you don’t keep getting nervous and keep on checking on your shopping list.

As Neville Goddard says, “Feeling is a secret” i.e true. With feeling, he meant to stay in a crazy certainty that it will happen to you and be detached and relaxed and live your normal life without doubting/ruminating or checking on 3D.

Also, when I have negative thoughts, I tell myself now: “ whatever I decide certainly happens, so I let it go because it’s done.” Or “ I am the deciding power and there is no power outside of me and 3D conforms it instantly” Or “3D is just a simulation, my reality is only what I decide it to be.” Or “ Once decided, it’s here”. Mind you, I don’t affirm anymore about my desires, it just decide or write in down in my notepad now once and might have a look at it here and there. I only affirm for my self-change and belief.

I know, it was some small win but better something than nothing :D soon I will update you about my lottery win and my boyfriend turning into my Husband.

If I can, so can you. Mind you, I was also a beginner and desperate - who used to spiral and have negative thoughts and feelings.

Keep believing in yourself and Happy Manifesting folks :))))

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u/Klutzy-Education-518 — 3 days ago

How do i actually decide?

Hi guys ive been trying out different techniques on how to get my sp to call me or text me in an hour and i thought i finally cracked the code but im not sure…
the way i do it is to decide that ive shifted identities and im now in an identity in the 4d where my sp is texting me within an hour, i dont think about the 3d as i just take it as a time lag kind of and hence only assume about the 4d, but my manifestation didnt work. Am i also supposed to think about the 3d when manifesting?? cus whenever i do i have this underlying assumption that it wont happen cus its the 3d ykyk

any tips would be appreciated 🙏🙏

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u/Outrageous-Trifle883 — 3 days ago
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I need help manifesting my relationship after I cheated

For back story, I’m 20F and my partner is 20M.
I did not physically cheat on him ever but I did emotionally cheat on him with my ex as in that period of my life I was going through something hard and SP was not there for me. I acknowledge that there is no excuse for what I did and I have learned from it (:

Sp is the type of person who does not really let himself get emotionally attached to the person he dates, however he got very attached to me as he literally cried in my arms about how much he loves me.

After that incident I saw my ex one last time because his mother was going through cancer and I wanted to be there for his family as me and my ex were together for 4 years before my relationship with SP, I do not have any feelings towards my ex .

My sp caught me and obviously he took it the wrong way and ever since then our relationship has been a big rocky, even though we still went on dates and all, his energy just feels distant , it’s been 3 months since the incident. I’m not sure what to do, I would never make that same mistake again but my mind keeps telling me that he will
Leave me for someone else because of the hurt I caused him , or that he will lose feelings

He spends more time with his friends now and we just aren’t like before and I miss it

I want to manifest getting engaged to him and having our relationship go back to how it was before

Any advice or input would be amazing

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u/LividWalrus2746 — 3 days ago
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Vent about manifesting

Today is my birthday and I don’t have any of my friends come. I feel the longest I’ve been despite being the friend of wish to have to others. I feel my heart is broken in so many ways. I feel so hurt about my SP and it not manifesting when milestones hit like this, I wish he was here. My sp was my ex who I never loved anyone else in the world of. I sound crazy but almost four years have passed since we dated and I still think I if him. The spiral settled down and now I feel I can laugh or think of moments I’d want to manifest without feeling hurt. But it does hurt. It hurts that he isn’t here. It hurt when I’m upset on these days and I still yearn for a text. Admittedly he cheated on me and I feel I can never say these words out loud that I still feel he’s my soulmate despite what he chose to do. I’m scared that if I manifest him back if he’ll cheat on me again. I’m scared to be in the same place I was when we broke up i feel my soul tear apart. Even then years now I can’t shake the feeling of hes my soulmate despite. It hurts seeing his bother date the same gf I knew about marry her, and now announce their pregnancy through social media. It hurts not part of their family to know first. It hurts to see her name change to the one I dream of having my last name to that. I worry all this fear is resisting my future. Has anyone else have the same fear or manifest an SP who did then wrong? I don’t know how to let go of my past mistakes and fear but I don’t ever want to let him go i genuinely don’t i genuinely feel in my spirt that we were meant to be. Any advice ?

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u/evilcookiemuncher — 3 days ago

is being specific in your manifestations a limiting belief?

i’m so sick and tired of these fear-mongering manifestation coaches telling you the same thing about being hyper specific in your manifestations for it to come true. “oh don’t say you want money this way, or you’ll get into a car crash and get the insurance money from that” oh this and that. i’m so sick of hearing it. it makes me feel anxious and stressed for no reason. or they keep saying how you can manifest money and it can come from an illegal source ?? like wtf?? if i’m affirming being rich and if the emotions i feel are calm, safe, and happy, why would i have money coming from an illegal source ?? 😭😭 manifestation is also an emotional mirror. if my money was coming from an illegal source, id be in a state of panic and stress. im so sick of these fake loa manifestation coaches giving BS advice on the internet. i’m sorry for this rant !

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u/Appropriate-Dot-366 — 4 days ago