u/AspectAdept4171

I asked this question on a different sub, specifically wanting to know if I can manifest multiple changes rather than just one at the time.

I got a comment from someone saying that while they have had successfully manifested before, they do not believe you can change someone’s behaviour/personality/thoughts. And after that they suggested I get therapy.

I want to know your thoughts on this, as I am still new to manifesting and it kinda threw me off and made me sad. And if you have any succes stories please share :)!

I am trying to manifest my bf to be more loving/clingy/romantic. At the same time, I’m working on my self concept but I do want to manifest specific things when it comes to me and him. For example: I’d like for him to want to take pictures with me and post me, or make me his background etc. I’d also like to manifest him being more empathetic. Or for his and his parents relationship to be better and for me to meet them.
I don’t know how to manifest multiple things at the same time. I sometimes try to stick to one or max 5 affirmations but I go on a rampage to myself about all the things I want to be different, and then I get anxious because of all the people saying “stick to one”.
So how do I go about it? Is it possible?

I am trying to manifest a change in a behaviour of SP. My problem is that I find it hard to stick to only one affirmation that could encompass all that I’d like to see different. I want him to be more loving, more affectionate, and a lot more, and on top of that for him to stop having contact with someone that he knows annoys me.
So while I do robotic affirming, I just talk about whatever I want changed, for example: he always treats me with respect, he adores me so much to the point where I’m the only woman he can talk to, he thinks i’m the most awesome person he ever met etc etc.

I don’t know if focusing on a singular affirmation is best, but I find it easier to just rant in my head about multiple things.

Please let me know what you believe is the best course of action.

Trying to manifest behaviour changes in SP, while using robotic affirming.
While doing this, I usually use A LOT of different affirmations about all the things I want to change, including him stopping contact with a girl he knows I do not like him speaking to. I must mention the sp in question is my current boyfriend that I live with.
Anyway, so while I robotic affirm, I act as if I’m talking to a friend and saying “He loves me so much and is so affectionate, he talks to no other girls, he is so loving and caring…” so on and so on.
I find it quite hard to focus on a single affirmation because I don’t feel like it can encompass all the changes I’d like to see.

Do you believe it would be more beneficial to stick to only one affirmation, or is what I’m doing correct as well?

Thank you :)

Trying to manifest behaviour changes in SP, while using robotic affirming.
While doing this, I usually use A LOT of different affirmations about all the things I want to change, including him stopping contact with a girl he knows I do not like him speaking to. I must mention the sp in question is my current boyfriend that I live with.
Anyway, so while I robotic affirm, I act as if I’m talking to a friend and saying “He loves me so much and is so affectionate, he talks to no other girls, he is so loving and caring…” so on and so on.
I find it quite hard to focus on a single affirmation because I don’t feel like it can encompass all the changes I’d like to see.

Do you believe it would be more beneficial to stick to only one affirmation, or is what I’m doing correct as well?

Thank you :)

I am trying to manifest a change in a behaviour of SP. My problem is that I find it hard to stick to only one affirmation that could encompass all that I’d like to see different. I want him to be more loving, more affectionate, and a lot more, and on top of that for him to stop having contact with someone that he knows annoys me.
So while I do robotic affirming, I just talk about whatever I want changed, for example: he always treats me with respect, he adores me so much to the point where I’m the only woman he can talk to, he thinks i’m the most awesome person he ever met etc etc.

I don’t know if focusing on a singular affirmation is best, but I find it easier to just rant in my head about multiple things.

Please let me know what you believe is the best course of action.

I am having a hard day and I need to vent and cry. Sometimes it’s so hard to believe. Not that I don’t believe in the law itself, but I got so used to how things are. It just feels surreal thinking that it could change back to how I want it to be and to how it was.
My boyfriend used to be the perfect man for me. Now he is distant, cold, and while we still are together and doing good, I miss how he used to be. How loving, attentive, caring, sweet and thoughtful he used to be.
It’s hard for me to imagine that version of him coming back to me, after 10 months of how he is now.
I tried looking back at his older messages to reinforce in myself that if he has been that way, he can be that way again. But I just ended up crying for an hour while washing clothes, and having a conversation with myself/him out loud (he is at work at the moment) while breaking down, like a lunatic.
I also feel like because of this breakdown I destroyed my manifestation. And I am just having such a hard time, just waiting and being hopeful. I am scared that my hopefulness will just end up making me more miserable than just settling with what it is now.

Me and my bf have been together for almost a year. For the first 7 months he was so sweet. So loving, so caring, so adoring. He would’ve done anything for me. He was obsessed with me. He used to call me pet names constantly. He used to be so affectionate and wanted to spend all of his time with me.
He still is all of these things, but not as often. He tells me I am way too affectionate. Yesterday he told me something along the lines “I’ve never had anyone in my life be as loving and as obsessed with me as you are. But that’s ok” and it made me kind of sad. I became this way because this is how he used to treat me too.
I miss the way he was. The way he used to talk to me and ask me all of these questions to get to know me. I miss how he used to be so attentive and so affected by everything I said or did.

I feel like crying all the time. I want to manifest him being that way again but I don’t know what to do or say. How can I believe myself and ignore the 3D without crying when he doesn’t start acting that way again? What affirmations should I use?

Am 23 de ani. Acum 4 ani mama mea a murit de cancer. Am ramas sa am grija de sora mea care urmeaza sa faca 16 ani curand.
Noi stam cu bunica de pe mama, care de cativa ani este alcoolica si poate deveni agresiva verbal/ uneori si fizic. Au existat remarci de a lungul anilor din partea ei asupra sora mii precum “daca te imbraci in roz n-ai iubit o pe maica ta si nu ti pasa de ea”.
Tatal nostru lucreaza in romania dar nu in orasul in care locuim. Nu prea e pe acasa. Asa ca rolul de parinte a trebuit sa mi l asum de la 19 ani. Chiar inainte de asta fiindca si mama era plecata cu tata, dar cand erau pr acasa nu ma implicam la fel de mult.
Sora mea are niste probleme mari cu nervii, intra in probleme, are crize, etc. Este destul de rau. Pierderea mamei a afectat-o foarte mult.
Asadar, nu am reusit sa merg asa mult la seminarii semestrul asta. Mai sunt 3/4 sapt de facultate si nu am indeajuns de multe prezente. Spre deloc. Am maxim 2.
Sunt speriata gandindu ma ca trebuie sa repet anul. Nu stiu ce sa fac.. Am numarul de credite si am promovat primul semestru, dar semestrul asta sunt sanse sa am refaceri la minim 3 materii din cauza prezentelor.
Tatal meu nu stie. S-ar supara si m-ar blama tot pe mine, desi este respobsabilitatea lui sa aiba grija de sora mea. Familia mea e foarte disfunctionala si cu greu primesc intelegere desi incerc.
Am incercat sa vorbesc cu profesorii, dar ori mi-au facut avant ori mi-au zis ca nu trebuia sa imi asum responsabilitatea unui master.
Cateva ganduri bune va rog? Orice sfat e binevenit.