u/gravitybee1

Did something unlovely happen today? Did you receive disappointing news or get triggered by an argument?

Do not let it harden into fact! The 3D world is merely a delayed reflection, and you have the power to rewrite it. Before you go to sleep tonight, relive the day in your imagination exactly as you wished it had happened. Mentally rewrite the conversation or scene until it carries the exact tone of reality.

As Neville Goddard reminds us, "Revision results in repeal"

When you change how you remember the past in the present moment, you dissolve the emotional charge and rewrite your future trajectory!

The number 1 key to recreating or changing the way your SP is showing up….. is knowing the SP is just mirroring you.

There is NOONE to change but self.  

I know you all get tripped up with circumstances and you think that your circumstances are different & unique.   Some of you, literally write essays worth of circumstances in your posts!!  

Side note - For those people that do this (write essays) it's VERY clear that you are trying to fix your current reality instead of choosing a new one.   It's like you are putting bandaids over the holes in the bucket, instead of getting a new bucket.  

Lets say this again.   SP is just your mirror.   (The entire reality is)

Most of you (unconsciously) are using the SP to fill up with voids within yourself and that is why the SP is mirroring back to you, your voids.   You are seeing the voids (SP not showing up right) and you are spending all your time trying to manifest a change in them and not yourself. You are trying to change the mirror!

There is noone to change but self.  

This is the problem I see happening in the community constantly.  People trying and trying and trying to change the outside/mirror but not themselves. Each day I am getting more and more concerned about the unhealthy methods that are being pushed to the masses that CAN cause mental and emotional instability. When you are putting ALL your focus on the outside… and not yourself.  You are feeding the outside your life force energy.   This may cause - Emotional ups and downs, mental spirals, emotional spirals, attachment issues, obsession issues and many other mental health issues.   I can safely speak on this.. as my background before I learnt about the law was in mental health.

You don't change the outside.  You leave the outside alone.  That's a neville quote.

You are at your core already whole, complete and perfect.  You are literally pure perfection.  Your true self has no voids (holes) it's just the human self (the character or identity that you are showing up as) thinks it does.  It's an illusion.  I mean.. The whole world is an illusion but .. thats another subject for another day.

Moving along..  Lets get to the nitty gritty.

Here are some examples of behaviours that the Mirror(sp) can show up as, and then we will point it back at the person standing in the front of the mirror to what it COULD mean.     Let me say that again COULD.

These are just general ideas.I know these might trigger some people, triggers are good.  Triggers are literally messagers showing you to work on your beliefs.

Non Contact  =  YOU - You belief in separation, You might believe that you could "lose" them if you don't constantly focus on them.    You could believe that you are not good enough for this person and thats why they are not contacting you. 

Breadcrumbing =  YOU don't value yourself enough,  You might believe that you have to earn love (if you are chasing them..),   Love is inconsistent.   Seeking happiness outside of you in them (When they text, you feel a temporary high, and then when they don't - you fall down again) .. 

Ignoring you = means you are not seeing yourself as more important than them. You are placing them on a pedestal.  You are ignoring yourself and your own needs. 

Not choosing you =  YOU are not choosing yourself.

Not treating you like a priority = YOU are not putting you first , you are not prioritising your needs.  

3p = Symbol of insecurities or "I am not enough"  I don't trust - other people are better than me 

Attachment = Seeking validation from the outside that you are worthy of love or this person.

Ghosted = You have abandoned yourself and made this person more important, You have them out of reach in your mind.   You ghosted yourself.   You made this person your happiness. 

Won't commit = You are not committed to yourself.  You are not committed to showing up as the best version of yourself.

Cheating =   Lack of trust - Love abandons me - "i get treated like shit" I get cheated on" I am insecure in relationships.

That will do for now, you get the picture.  

*Note : I may come back to this section and add more to it at a later date as this post will be added to the guide sections in this subreddit. 

When you show up as your true self - dropping all the illusions that you are not already whole and complete and perfect .  You are not "seeking them to fill the voids" - you literally turn magnetic.    
ULTRA MAGNETIC.    You light up like a lighthouse.

EVERYTHING comes towards the lighthouse. Or.. you can describe it like being the sun - because the sun gives energy to its entire world, and thats exactly what you do.

If you want the "perfect" relationship with your SP.   Then BE the person who is in that perfect relationship.  Identity as that version of yourself.  Whatever that means for you.  Describe your relationship as perfect.  Imagine it is.  Tell THAT story.  Embody that state    

Don't do it just to try and change the outside.  NO.

You do it regardless of what the outside is showing. It's WHO YOU ARE.

Can I just claim to be whole, complete and perfect .. and not have to work out my voids?  Yes..  but it's easier to notice when that old identity keeps rearing it's ugly head.  If you are not aware of who you are currently being, then you can't change it or notice when you drop back into it.  Thoughts usually stem from the state.  When you start having the "old" thoughts, it's easy to catch and shift back again.  

So to end this post..  Work out WHO YOU ARE BEING?   Then shift your awareness into a new identity.

How do I do that?    It's a choice.   Get clear on who you want to be.  Claim thats who you are now - ACCEPT that this is who you are now.  Then move throughout your day BEING that version.   

If you need further help, read the first post I wrote.   I gave lots of examples..

Link - Awareness Post

Other SP Posts :

SP Series :

• You can have a High Self Concept and still not have your SP
• My SP is Being Hot and Cold
• My SP is an Aovoidant
• What do you mean that I have to choose myself before my SP will?
• SP Blocked Me

The number 1 key to recreating or changing the way your SP is showing up….. is knowing the SP is just mirroring you.

There is NOONE to change but self.  

I know you all get tripped up with circumstances and you think that your circumstances are different & unique.   Some of you, literally write essays worth of circumstances in your posts!!  

Side note - For those people that do this (write essays) it's VERY clear that you are trying to fix your current reality instead of choosing a new one.   It's like you are putting bandaids over the holes in the bucket, instead of getting a new bucket.  

Lets say this again.   SP is just your mirror.   (The entire reality is)

Most of you (unconsciously) are using the SP to fill up with voids within yourself and that is why the SP is mirroring back to you, your voids.   You are seeing the voids (SP not showing up right) and you are spending all your time trying to manifest a change in them and not yourself. You are trying to change the mirror!

There is noone to change but self.  

This is the problem I see happening in the community constantly.  People trying and trying and trying to change the outside/mirror but not themselves. Each day I am getting more and more concerned about the unhealthy methods that are being pushed to the masses that CAN cause mental and emotional instability. When you are putting ALL your focus on the outside… and not yourself.  You are feeding the outside your life force energy.   This may cause - Emotional ups and downs, mental spirals, emotional spirals, attachment issues, obsession issues and many other mental health issues.   I can safely speak on this.. as my background before I learnt about the law was in mental health.

You don't change the outside.  You leave the outside alone.  That's a neville quote.

You are at your core already whole, complete and perfect.  You are literally pure perfection.  Your true self has no voids (holes) it's just the human self (the character or identity that you are showing up as) thinks it does.  It's an illusion.  I mean.. The whole world is an illusion but .. thats another subject for another day.

Moving along..  Lets get to the nitty gritty.

Here are some examples of behaviours that the Mirror(sp) can show up as, and then we will point it back at the person standing in the front of the mirror to what it COULD mean.     Let me say that again COULD.

These are just general ideas.I know these might trigger some people, triggers are good.  Triggers are literally messagers showing you to work on your beliefs.

Non Contact  =  YOU - You belief in separation, You might believe that you could "lose" them if you don't constantly focus on them.    You could believe that you are not good enough for this person and thats why they are not contacting you. 

Breadcrumbing =  YOU don't value yourself enough,  You might believe that you have to earn love (if you are chasing them..),   Love is inconsistent.   Seeking happiness outside of you in them (When they text, you feel a temporary high, and then when they don't - you fall down again) .. 

Ignoring you = means you are not seeing yourself as more important than them. You are placing them on a pedestal.  You are ignoring yourself and your own needs. 

Not choosing you =  YOU are not choosing yourself.

Not treating you like a priority = YOU are not putting you first , you are not prioritising your needs.  

3p = Symbol of insecurities or "I am not enough"  I don't trust - other people are better than me 

Attachment = Seeking validation from the outside that you are worthy of love or this person.

Ghosted = You have abandoned yourself and made this person more important, You have them out of reach in your mind.   You ghosted yourself.   You made this person your happiness. 

Won't commit = You are not committed to yourself.  You are not committed to showing up as the best version of yourself.

Cheating =   Lack of trust - Love abandons me - "i get treated like shit" I get cheated on" I am insecure in relationships.

That will do for now, you get the picture.  

*Note : I may come back to this section and add more to it at a later date as this post will be added to the guide sections in this subreddit. 

When you show up as your true self - dropping all the illusions that you are not already whole and complete and perfect .  You are not "seeking them to fill the voids" - you literally turn magnetic.    
ULTRA MAGNETIC.    You light up like a lighthouse.

EVERYTHING comes towards the lighthouse. Or.. you can describe it like being the sun - because the sun gives energy to its entire world, and thats exactly what you do.

If you want the "perfect" relationship with your SP.   Then BE the person who is in that perfect relationship.  Identity as that version of yourself.  Whatever that means for you.  Describe your relationship as perfect.  Imagine it is.  Tell THAT story.  Embody that state    

Don't do it just to try and change the outside.  NO.

You do it regardless of what the outside is showing. It's WHO YOU ARE.

Can I just claim to be whole, complete and perfect .. and not have to work out my voids?  Yes..  but it's easier to notice when that old identity keeps rearing it's ugly head.  If you are not aware of who you are currently being, then you can't change it or notice when you drop back into it.  Thoughts usually stem from the state.  When you start having the "old" thoughts, it's easy to catch and shift back again.  

So to end this post..  Work out WHO YOU ARE BEING?   Then shift your awareness into a new identity.

How do I do that?    It's a choice.   Get clear on who you want to be.  Claim thats who you are now - ACCEPT that this is who you are now.  Then move throughout your day BEING that version.   

If you need further help, read the first post I wrote.   I gave lots of examples..

Link - Awareness Post

I see so many people completely burnt out, struggling, frustrated and then posting in here every day saying, "I give up". If your practice is causing you mental exhaustion, it is because your focus is entirely in the wrong place.

Most likely, you are trying to CHANGE the 3D or CHANGE your SP. 

You are treating the physical world like something you have to wrestle into submission, or force your will over. But attempting to change the world before you change your concept of yourself is literally struggling against the very nature of things.

The 3D world is just a giant mirror reflecting your inner state. Trying to change the world by force is as absolutely fruitless as breaking a mirror in the hope of changing your face (~Neville).

The reason you are SO TIRED is because, you are wasting your life force energy on everything "out there."    Which is completely useless. 

Imagine that there is a mirror right in front of you, right this very second.   Now try and force that mirror to show you something you are not already wearing. 

YOU CAN"T!!!!   It's just not the way it works.

I have taken this paragraph from my "Manifesting a SP post" from last year. (It's Pinned in the sidebar)

"This is the problem I see happening in the community constantly.  People trying and trying and trying to change the outside/mirror but not themselves. Each day I am getting more and more concerned about the unhealthy methods that are being pushed to the masses that CAN cause mental and emotional instability. When you are putting ALL your focus on the outside… and not yourself.  You are feeding the outside your life force energy.   This may cause - Emotional ups and downs, mental spirals, emotional spirals, attachment issues, obsession issues and many other mental health issues.   I can safely speak on this.. as my background before I learnt about the law was in mental health."

Every single day we are trying to tell you - there's no one to change but self.

Let me say it again.

There is no one to change but self

There is no one to change but self

Your conception of yourself - How you SEE yourself.  How you SEE yourself in relation to whatever it is you want.

Stop wasting your life-giving energy trying to manipulate people or force circumstances in the 3D. You must leave the mirror and change your face; leave the world alone and change your conceptions of yourself ~  Neville.

Leave the outside alone.  

Who would you be… if you had the thing you wanted.   Put ALLLLLLLLLLL of your focus ON YOURSELF. 

I am in a loving relationship
I am with the love of my life
I have the perfect man/woman as my partner.

Stop trying to change anything outside of you and claim WHO YOU ARE!!

But then..   Decide you are that person NOW... without proof or evidence.  
Don't wait for the 3D to change before accepting it
You have to choose to be that version of yourself without needing proof because it's just who you are choosing to be.     You are not choosing it in order to see proof.  (There's a difference)

Even Bashar always says - NO INSISTENCE on the outcome. 

I am choosing xxxx this because it's WHO I WANT TO BE ..  not because I need evidence or the 3d to show it to me. 

So, if you are one of those people..   The it's too hard..  I am tired, i am exhausted.. I have been doing this for months and seeing nothing..   I give up… 

Where has your focus been?     WAYYY too much on the mirror(the 3d) and not yourself. 

Can you imagine how different you would be, if you refocused all your life force energy on yourself instead of it leaking out and wasting it every day?

Even down to just something so simple like affirming:

I am Happy & Healthy ….  Would make a world of difference to a lot of the people that frequent the manifestation subreddits.  

I think I have put my point across.. Once again. 

Please please please..   Focus on yourself.  YOU are the most important person in your reality.    When you change, the outside will change as a byproduct.

Have an awesome week.

K

I see so many people completely burnt out, struggling, frustrated and then posting in here every day saying, "I give up". If your practice is causing you mental exhaustion, it is because your focus is entirely in the wrong place.

Most likely, you are trying to CHANGE the 3D or CHANGE your SP. 

You are treating the physical world like something you have to wrestle into submission, or force your will over. But attempting to change the world before you change your concept of yourself is literally struggling against the very nature of things.

The 3D world is just a giant mirror reflecting your inner state. Trying to change the world by force is as absolutely fruitless as breaking a mirror in the hope of changing your face (~Neville).

The reason you are SO TIRED is because, you are wasting your life force energy on everything "out there."    Which is completely useless. 

Imagine that there is a mirror right in front of you, right this very second.   Now try and force that mirror to show you something you are not already wearing. 

YOU CAN"T!!!!   It's just not the way it works.

I have taken this paragraph from my "Manifesting a SP post" from last year. (It's Pinned in the sidebar)

"This is the problem I see happening in the community constantly.  People trying and trying and trying to change the outside/mirror but not themselves. Each day I am getting more and more concerned about the unhealthy methods that are being pushed to the masses that CAN cause mental and emotional instability. When you are putting ALL your focus on the outside… and not yourself.  You are feeding the outside your life force energy.   This may cause - Emotional ups and downs, mental spirals, emotional spirals, attachment issues, obsession issues and many other mental health issues.   I can safely speak on this.. as my background before I learnt about the law was in mental health."

Every single day we are trying to tell you - there's no one to change but self.

Let me say it again.

There is no one to change but self

There is no one to change but self

Your conception of yourself - How you SEE yourself.  How you SEE yourself in relation to whatever it is you want.

Stop wasting your life-giving energy trying to manipulate people or force circumstances in the 3D. You must leave the mirror and change your face; leave the world alone and change your conceptions of yourself ~  Neville.

Leave the outside alone.  

Who would you be… if you had the thing you wanted.   Put ALLLLLLLLLLL of your focus ON YOURSELF. 

I am in a loving relationship
I am with the love of my life
I have the perfect man/woman as my partner.

Stop trying to change anything outside of you and claim WHO YOU ARE!!

But then..   Decide you are that person NOW... without proof or evidence.  
Don't wait for the 3D to change before accepting it
You have to choose to be that version of yourself without needing proof because it's just who you are choosing to be.     You are not choosing it in order to see proof.  (There's a difference)

Even Bashar always says - NO INSISTENCE on the outcome. 

I am choosing xxxx this because it's WHO I WANT TO BE ..  not because I need evidence or the 3d to show it to me. 

So, if you are one of those people..   The it's too hard..  I am tired, i am exhausted.. I have been doing this for months and seeing nothing..   I give up… 

Where has your focus been?     WAYYY too much on the mirror(the 3d) and not yourself. 

Can you imagine how different you would be, if you refocused all your life force energy on yourself instead of it leaking out and wasting it every day?

Even down to just something so simple like affirming:

I am Happy & Healthy ….  Would make a world of difference to a lot of the people that frequent the manifestation subreddits.  

I think I have put my point across.. Once again. 

Please please please..   Focus on yourself.  YOU are the most important person in your reality.    When you change, the outside will change as a byproduct.

Have an awesome week.

K

This EFT tapping session is for the exact moment you look around and feel like everyone else is moving forward while you are stuck in the same place. The 3D still looks the same, the manifestations have not shifted, and a quiet voice keeps saying you must be missing some secret key or that you simply do not understand manifestation the way other people do. You have watched video after video, searched for answers, felt the frustration of being behind, and started identifying as the person who “just doesn’t get it.” This session walks you through acknowledging that old story without fighting it, releasing the identity of confusion and lack of progress, and deliberately choosing the version of you who already understands.

The rule this tapping installs is simple: you do not wait to understand manifestation and then become the person who succeeds. You claim the identity of the one who already understands, and the knowledge, the ease, and the progress arrive as natural by-products of that new self-concept. Identity manifests. Every moment is a new moment to choose again.

Perfect if you:
➤ Feel like you have been doing this for months or years with no real movement in the 3D
➤ Keep searching for the missing piece or the “click” that will finally make everything clear
➤ Catch yourself comparing your progress to other people and feeling left behind

Timestamps
0:00 Intro and why this resistance series is back
3:42 The specific feeling of lack of progress and not getting it
4:09 Coaching and shop mention
7:12 Karate chop setup statements
8:43 Round one – acknowledging the old story of no progress and confusion
11:56 Quick breath and transition
12:10 Round two – releasing the identity that doesn’t get it
13:35 Round three – stepping into the version who completely understands
16:10 Short visualization – knowing it in the shower with zero effort
18:00 Closing

It is one of the worst feelings in the world. You were talking constantly, things felt amazing, and then suddenly... absolute silence. You are left staring at an empty screen, overanalysing every single message you sent, and spiralling into a panic about what you possibly did wrong.

Take a deep breath and stop. If you understand the Law of Assumption, you have to swallow a tough truth: your person did not just randomly decide to pull away. The 3D physical world is just a neutral mirror reflecting your internal state.

They ghosted you because you ghosted yourself first.

You Abandoned Yourself

When you make someone else your sole source of happiness and validation, you are completely abandoning yourself. You probably placed them on a massive pedestal, shrinking yourself down and forgetting that you are the operant power of your reality. When you stop prioritising yourself and neglect your own needs to focus entirely on them, the 3D mirror has absolutely no choice but to reflect that neglect right back at you. You ghosted yourself and your own worth, so the mirror had to ghost you.

Your Default Identity was "The Ghostee"

Even if things were going perfectly on the surface, your underlying concept of self was secretly running the show. If you carry a deep-seated belief like "I am not good enough,"or "people always leave me," or "I never get chosen," you are actively wearing the mask of that limited identity. Because reality constantly materialises your identity 24/7, your person was forced to play the role of the "ghoster" to perfectly match and prove your inner assumptions right. It is always a flawless mirror.

Then, when you react to the silence aka 3D - you keep it alive.

The silence on your phone right now is your old identity playing out on the screen of space. Every time you check your phone and see no text, you feel that anxious drop in your stomach, then you are actively keeping the old identity alive.

By reacting emotionally to the silence and waiting for a response, you are actively confessing to the mirror, "I do not have them," which guarantees the mirror will keep reflecting that exact absence back to you.

So how do I fix this?    The same way you fix anything.  You change your identity - aka who you believe yourself to be.  The CONCEPTION of yourself.

Choose Yourself First: Turn all that desperate, chasing energy completely inward. You must become your own priority. When you prioritise yourself, stand in your own worth, and drop the need for them to complete you, reality—and everyone in it—has absolutely no choice but to prioritise you.

Claim Your New "I AM": Drop the identity of the person who gets left behind. Decide right now: "I am unforgettable. I am the prize. I am always chosen, and everyone I want, wants me more"

Then stay UNMOVED by the 3d, UNMOVED by Thoughts, UNMOVED by any temporary emotions or feelings, UNMOVED by circumstances, UNMOVED by anything that isn't what you want until it's done.  Simply because that's just who you are now. 

Tap it out :

Even though I was ghosted because I ghosted myself - I choose to love and accept all of myself - with or without this person

Even though I probably feel like shit - I know these are just temporary emotions and they don't change who I am choosing to be

Even though this happened to me, I know that every moment is a new moment - and things can change in an instant if I assume they can.  

xx
K

SP Series :

• You can have a High Self Concept and still not have your SP
• My SP is Being Hot and Cold
• My SP is an Aovoidant
• What do you mean that I have to choose myself before my SP will?
• SP Blocked Me

It is one of the worst feelings in the world. You were talking constantly, things felt amazing, and then suddenly... absolute silence. You are left staring at an empty screen, overanalysing every single message you sent, and spiralling into a panic about what you possibly did wrong.

Take a deep breath and stop. If you understand the Law of Assumption, you have to swallow a tough truth: your person did not just randomly decide to pull away. The 3D physical world is just a neutral mirror reflecting your internal state.

They ghosted you because you ghosted yourself first.

You Abandoned Yourself

When you make someone else your sole source of happiness and validation, you are completely abandoning yourself. You probably placed them on a massive pedestal, shrinking yourself down and forgetting that you are the operant power of your reality. When you stop prioritising yourself and neglect your own needs to focus entirely on them, the 3D mirror has absolutely no choice but to reflect that neglect right back at you. You ghosted yourself and your own worth, so the mirror had to ghost you.

Your Default Identity was "The Ghostee"

Even if things were going perfectly on the surface, your underlying concept of self was secretly running the show. If you carry a deep-seated belief like "I am not good enough,"or "people always leave me," or "I never get chosen," you are actively wearing the mask of that limited identity. Because reality constantly materialises your identity 24/7, your person was forced to play the role of the "ghoster" to perfectly match and prove your inner assumptions right. It is always a flawless mirror.

Then, when you react to the silence aka 3D - you keep it alive.

The silence on your phone right now is your old identity playing out on the screen of space. Every time you check your phone and see no text, you feel that anxious drop in your stomach, then you are actively keeping the old identity alive.

By reacting emotionally to the silence and waiting for a response, you are actively confessing to the mirror, "I do not have them," which guarantees the mirror will keep reflecting that exact absence back to you.

So how do I fix this?    The same way you fix anything.  You change your identity - aka who you believe yourself to be.  The CONCEPTION of yourself.

Choose Yourself First: Turn all that desperate, chasing energy completely inward. You must become your own priority. When you prioritise yourself, stand in your own worth, and drop the need for them to complete you, reality—and everyone in it—has absolutely no choice but to prioritise you.

Claim Your New "I AM": Drop the identity of the person who gets left behind. Decide right now: "I am unforgettable. I am the prize. I am always chosen, and everyone I want, wants me more"

Then stay UNMOVED by the 3d, UNMOVED by Thoughts, UNMOVED by any temporary emotions or feelings, UNMOVED by circumstances, UNMOVED by anything that isn't what you want until it's done.  Simply because that's just who you are now. 

Tap it out :

Even though I was ghosted because I ghosted myself - I choose to love and accept all of myself - with or without this person

Even though I probably feel like shit - I know these are just temporary emotions and they don't change who I am choosing to be

Even though this happened to me, I know that every moment is a new moment - and things can change in an instant if I assume they can.  

xx
K

SP Series :

• You can have a High Self Concept and still not have your SP
• My SP is Being Hot and Cold
• My SP is an Aovoidant
• What do you mean that I have to choose myself before my SP will?
• SP Blocked Me

Let’s get one thing straight about your physical reality: The universe you are studying with such anxiety and care is simply a dream, and you are the eternal dreamer dreaming it.

Seeing the 3D as a dream..  Takes away so much resistance.

There is no time in a dream..  It doesn't matter what happened in yesterday's dream, it doesn't matter who you were, what you looked like, you can choose to be anyone you want, do anything you want, go anywhere you want.    

So many of you are so sucked into the illusion of the 3D world, thinking it's this fixed, solid thing that you have no power against, you don't realise the whole thing is coming from you, IT IS YOU!!   It's your consciousness giving you the experience of the game of life.

Most of you are walking around treating your current circumstances like they are solid, fixed, and unchangeable. You look at your bank account, your SP's behaviour, or your current job, and your logical brain tries to figure out how it could possibly change. You think you need to figure out the "how" or find a realistic path from A to B.

But here is the secret: Because the 3D is just a dream, it doesn't have to make logical sense.

When you go to sleep at night and dream, you don't worry about the logic of how you suddenly teleported from your childhood home to a beach in Paris. You just accept it. The waking 3D world operates the exact same way. Your three-dimensional reasoning is extremely limited. It does not matter if your reason or your senses deny your desire. Your dimensionally greater self has ways of bringing things to pass that your logical mind knows nothing of.

In a dream you are not worrying about the fact that you are the one creating this dream and everything in it - are you?    All the people, places and things are all just apart of the dream.. It's no different to the 3D physical plane.   All people, places and things are all just apart of YOUR experience here.    They are ALL here in YOUR dream to give you an experience.

Stop dragging yesterday into today.   You hear me say all the time in my videos, - every moment is a new moment to choose again.   AND I MEAN IT.  

You are trapping yourself by believing that today has to be a logical continuation of yesterday. It doesn't! The 3D is not a continuous, unbreakable chain. You have absolutely no history. Every single moment is a brand new moment, and you are completely born anew in every moment.  Every moment is a NEW DREAM!

There is no past and no future; there is only the eternal now. If your reality sucks today, it is not connected to yesterday’s dream or last week’s failures. The only reason today looks like yesterday is because you are actively choosing to drag your old self and your old assumptions along with you.

So just for today, can you start seeing everything as just a dream? …   a new dream in every single new moment…

Xx
K

Let’s get one thing straight about your physical reality: The universe you are studying with such anxiety and care is simply a dream, and you are the eternal dreamer dreaming it.

Seeing the 3D as a dream..  Takes away so much resistance.

There is no time in a dream..  It doesn't matter what happened in yesterday's dream, it doesn't matter who you were, what you looked like, you can choose to be anyone you want, do anything you want, go anywhere you want.    

So many of you are so sucked into the illusion of the 3D world, thinking it's this fixed, solid thing that you have no power against, you don't realise the whole thing is coming from you, IT IS YOU!!   It's your consciousness giving you the experience of the game of life.

Most of you are walking around treating your current circumstances like they are solid, fixed, and unchangeable. You look at your bank account, your SP's behaviour, or your current job, and your logical brain tries to figure out how it could possibly change. You think you need to figure out the "how" or find a realistic path from A to B.

But here is the secret: Because the 3D is just a dream, it doesn't have to make logical sense.

When you go to sleep at night and dream, you don't worry about the logic of how you suddenly teleported from your childhood home to a beach in Paris. You just accept it. The waking 3D world operates the exact same way. Your three-dimensional reasoning is extremely limited. It does not matter if your reason or your senses deny your desire. Your dimensionally greater self has ways of bringing things to pass that your logical mind knows nothing of.

In a dream you are not worrying about the fact that you are the one creating this dream and everything in it - are you?    All the people, places and things are all just apart of the dream.. It's no different to the 3D physical plane.   All people, places and things are all just apart of YOUR experience here.    They are ALL here in YOUR dream to give you an experience.

Stop dragging yesterday into today.   You hear me say all the time in my videos, - every moment is a new moment to choose again.   AND I MEAN IT.  

You are trapping yourself by believing that today has to be a logical continuation of yesterday. It doesn't! The 3D is not a continuous, unbreakable chain. You have absolutely no history. Every single moment is a brand new moment, and you are completely born anew in every moment.  Every moment is a NEW DREAM!

There is no past and no future; there is only the eternal now. If your reality sucks today, it is not connected to yesterday’s dream or last week’s failures. The only reason today looks like yesterday is because you are actively choosing to drag your old self and your old assumptions along with you.

So just for today, can you start seeing everything as just a dream? …   a new dream in every single new moment…

Xx
K

This EFT tapping session is built for anyone who keeps circling the idea of their dream car but never quite lands in the feeling of already owning it. You start on the karate chop point with three setup statements that name the exact resistance most people carry: the quiet belief that it is probably going to be hard, the doubt that keeps rising every time you look at your current vehicle, and the old story that dream cars belong to other people. From there the tapping moves through the points, first acknowledging every limiting assumption, then deliberately releasing the idea that you need the money first or perfect conditions, and finally installing the new identity of the version of you who already drives that car.

The core rule this session reinforces is that manifestation is never about making something appear from nowhere. It is about deciding it is already yours, living from that decision in imagination, and refusing to argue with the opposite evidence the 3D still shows. Once you claim “I already have it” and keep returning to that state, the outer world has no choice but to rearrange itself to match.

Perfect if you:
➤ Still catch yourself focusing on the lack of the car more than the end result
➤ Feel a resistance or impossibility whenever the topic of your dream vehicle comes up
➤ Prefer tapping that ends with a vivid sensory scene so the new assumption feels real in the body, not just the mind

Timestamps
0:00 Channel intro and dream playlist context
2:00 Coaching and shop mention
3:32 Karate chop setup statements
5:29 Round one – acknowledging the resistance and old story
9:09 Round two – releasing doubt, lack and separation
10:32 Round three – stepping into the identity that already has the car
13:31 Closing statements and the decision that it is done
14:18 Guided visualization – sitting in the car, feeling the seats, steering wheel, smell, sound and the final sensory detail
18:00 Outro

Struggling to persist in the new story and thinking it means white-knuckling, saying affirmations thousands of times, or fighting the old thoughts? This EFT tapping session releases the identity that finds it hard to persist and installs the version of you who stays in the new story easily and effortlessly.

Persisting simply means continuing to tell the new story of who you are — whatever story you keep telling is the version of yourself you are manifesting.

Perfect if you:
➤ Keep flipping back to doubt and old thoughts the moment you try to stay in the end
➤ Feel exhausted from trying to control your mind all day and judge yourself for “not persisting hard enough”
➤ Want to drop the belief that faithfulness requires effort and become someone for whom persistence is natural and easy

Timestamps
0:00 Why persistence is not effort or white-knuckling
2:05 Releasing the identity that struggles to stay in the new story
5:15 Karate chop setup statements
7:00 Top of head – acknowledging the old struggle and wavering
9:42 Releasing the belief that persisting is hard
11:13 Stepping into the new identity where persistence is easy
14:19 Embodying the feeling of effortless persistence throughout your day

Getting blocked is usually the moment most people completely lose their minds, spiral into panic, and declare that their manifestation is ruined.

But in the Law of Assumption, a block is never a final verdict. The 3D physical world is just a neutral mirror reflecting your internal state. If your SP blocked you, the only reason they did it was because they are playing out YOUR script.  Whatever you were projecting at them.

There is no single reason why a block happens. It could be a few different things.

Here are the most common reasons your SP's reflection just threw up a wall:

1. It could be a reflection of your own fears. You might be unconsciously holding onto a dominant assumption that "I am annoying," "I am too much," or "People always abandon me or "love is not safe for me"or hundreds of other similar fears. The 3D mirror is brutally literal. If your underlying fear is that you are bothering them, the mirror has absolutely no choice but to physically remove your access to them to prove your assumption right.
2. It could be an "Extinction Burst." If you recently leveled up your self-concept and decided you are the prize, the old version of your ego will feel threatened. It will throw an "extinction burst"—a sudden, painful 3D circumstance like a block—just to test you. It is the old reality screaming as it dies, throwing its dirtiest trick at you to see if you will react emotionally, drop your crown, and go back to your old, insecure state.
3. It could be a "Dead Printout" (The Lagging Mirror). You might be in a fantastic state right now, but the 3D physical world is made of dense matter and moves slower than your consciousness. A block can simply be the "exhaust fumes" or the dead printout of the desperate, lacking state you were in a few weeks ago. The screen just hasn't caught up to your new identity yet.
4. It could be overwhelming pressure. If you have put them on a massive pedestal and are constantly checking the 3D for their validation, you are blasting them with heavy, needy energy. Because there is only One Mind, they can feel that pressure. They might simply be reflecting that suffocating energy by throwing up a wall to get away.

The Fix: How to handle the block. Regardless of why the block happened, the fix is exactly the same: you must stop reacting to it.

Reacting emotionally to a blocked screen is like screaming at a mirror because you don't like your reflection. It is a dead 3D circumstance, and circumstances are inherently meaningless until you assign them a meaning.   Stop giving it attention (see my last post about your attention is your currency)

If you decide the block means "it's over," then it's over. But if you look at the block, laugh at the 3D glitch, and boldly declare, "This doesn't matter, I am now someone who is loved and chosen no matter what," then the mirror has absolutely no choice but to catch up to your command.

Take your power back, turn your back on the screen, and let the 3D atoms rearrange themselves!

SP Series :

• You can have a High Self Concept and still not have your SP
• My SP is Being Hot and Cold
• My SP is an Aovoidant
• What do you mean that I have to choose myself before my SP will?

Getting blocked is usually the moment most people completely lose their minds, spiral into panic, and declare that their manifestation is ruined.

But in the Law of Assumption, a block is never a final verdict. The 3D physical world is just a neutral mirror reflecting your internal state. If your SP blocked you, the only reason they did it was because they are playing out YOUR script.  Whatever you were projecting at them.

There is no single reason why a block happens. It could be a few different things.

Here are the most common reasons your SP's reflection just threw up a wall:

1. It could be a reflection of your own fears. You might be unconsciously holding onto a dominant assumption that "I am annoying," "I am too much," or "People always abandon me or "love is not safe for me"or hundreds of other similar fears. The 3D mirror is brutally literal. If your underlying fear is that you are bothering them, the mirror has absolutely no choice but to physically remove your access to them to prove your assumption right.

2. It could be an "Extinction Burst." If you recently leveled up your self-concept and decided you are the prize, the old version of your ego will feel threatened. It will throw an "extinction burst"—a sudden, painful 3D circumstance like a block—just to test you. It is the old reality screaming as it dies, throwing its dirtiest trick at you to see if you will react emotionally, drop your crown, and go back to your old, insecure state.

3. It could be a "Dead Printout" (The Lagging Mirror). You might be in a fantastic state right now, but the 3D physical world is made of dense matter and moves slower than your consciousness. A block can simply be the "exhaust fumes" or the dead printout of the desperate, lacking state you were in a few weeks ago. The screen just hasn't caught up to your new identity yet.

4. It could be overwhelming pressure. If you have put them on a massive pedestal and are constantly checking the 3D for their validation, you are blasting them with heavy, needy energy. Because there is only One Mind, they can feel that pressure. They might simply be reflecting that suffocating energy by throwing up a wall to get away.

The Fix: How to handle the block. Regardless of why the block happened, the fix is exactly the same: you must stop reacting to it.

Reacting emotionally to a blocked screen is like screaming at a mirror because you don't like your reflection. It is a dead 3D circumstance, and circumstances are inherently meaningless until you assign them a meaning.   Stop giving it attention (see my last post about your attention is your currency)

If you decide the block means "it's over," then it's over. But if you look at the block, laugh at the 3D glitch, and boldly declare, "This doesn't matter, I am now someone who is loved and chosen no matter what," then the mirror has absolutely no choice but to catch up to your command.

Take your power back, turn your back on the screen, and let the 3D atoms rearrange themselves!

SP Series :

• You can have a High Self Concept and still not have your SP
• My SP is Being Hot and Cold
• My SP is an Aovoidant
• What do you mean that I have to choose myself before my SP will?

There are two parts to this post - they are both equally important.

Part 1 - For all the people saying - I have been in the wishfulfilled for blah blah time and still don't have my desire.   

Part 2 - Is for all the people putting too much focus on their problems, instead of the solutions.   

Let me say this three times over, so it really really really sinks in.

Your Attention is Life-Giving Energy
Your attention is Life-Giving Energy
Your Attention is Life-Giving Energy

What do you mean, Kylie?   Attention or Focus can also be described as "I am being aware of"   "I am placing my awareness on… "  or I have noticed that….  Sometimes its so sneaky that you don't even realise you are doing it.

You are manifesting the totality of your consciousness (or awareness) in every single moment.     Not JUST what you are affirming for..  NOT just what you are heavily focused on in a 10 min session.    No.    It's the totality of your conscious awareness. 

In conscious creation, your attention is your ultimate currency. Neville Goddard taught that your attention is literally "the sap of life that keeps alive and sustains the things of your world". Whatever you put your focus on, you are actively breathing life into.  Most of you are actually doing this without even realising it, because it's just happening in the background.  If you are AWARE of the lack of your desire, you are BREATHING LIFE into that lack. 

The Pink Donut Effect

Here's a simple way to see it in action. Say you notice a pink donut somewhere today — on a billboard, in a shop window, wherever. You weren't looking for it, you just observed it. That single act of observing has planted the seed for pink donuts to show up again. Not because it's a sign, and not because you've drawn it to you — it's just the nature of how reality works. Whatever you observe, you give your attention to. Whatever gets your attention gets reinforced.

This is exactly why Neville was such a huge advocate for revision at the end of each day. It's you deliberately reversing whatever lack you observed, before it gets the chance to sink in and keep reinforcing itself.

Part 1: Still Waiting in the Wish Fulfilled

If you've been in the wish fulfilled for a while and still don't have your desire, it's probably because you're being too aware of the lack of it, unknowingly. When you wake up first thing in the morning, what is your first automatic thought about your desire?    It is - I still don't have it, it hasn't happened, maybe today is the day..  It might not be a straightforward conscious single thought; it could just be a silent awareness that you don't have it.  Being aware of the lack of it.
But that awareness..  Is still your attention and attention is life giving energy.

Part 2: Too Much Focus on the Problem 

Have you ever noticed that the more you try to "fix" a 3D problem, the worse it seems to get? If you are constantly analysing your lack of money, stressing over a silent SP or pouring attention on a 3P.  Basically, fighting any unwanted circumstance, you are making a massive mistake: you are actively paying for your own suffering.

Stop BREATHING LIFE INTO YOUR PROBLEMS (Circumstances). When you try to fight the 3D mirror, you are giving it your focused awareness, which is exactly what it needs to survive. By reacting to it, worrying about it, or complaining about it, you are feeding it.  You keep feeding it your life-giving energy and expecting it to go away.

How to Dissolve Any Problem There is only one way to kill an unwanted circumstance: you must starve it.

Neville explicitly stated, "To dissolve a problem that now seems so real to you all that you do is remove your attention from it". You must completely turn your back upon the problem and your limitations.

When you remove your attention from a given state, you literally drain the lifeblood from it. Without your attention to feed and sustain it, the problem has absolutely no choice but to wither, fade, and pass away.. The best denial of a problem is total indifference.

***

Imagine that you have a torchlight on your forehead.. And whatever you are observing (inside of you OR outside of you) you are feeding it life to create again and again and again.

Spend Your Currency Wisely

You are a creator, and your focus is your magic wand. Take your power back by refusing to give your attention to anything you don't want.

So tell me…..    What have you been "aware" of today? 

XX
K

There are two parts to this post - they are both equally important.

Part 1 - For all the people saying - I have been in the wishfulfilled for blah blah time and still don't have my desire.   

Part 2 - Is for all the people putting too much focus on their problems, instead of the solutions.   

Let me say this three times over, so it really really really sinks in.

Your Attention is Life-Giving Energy
Your attention is Life-Giving Energy
Your Attention is Life-Giving Energy

What do you mean, Kylie?   Attention or Focus can also be described as "I am being aware of"   "I am placing my awareness on… "  or I have noticed that….  Sometimes its so sneaky that you don't even realise you are doing it.

You are manifesting the totality of your consciousness (or awareness) in every single moment.     Not JUST what you are affirming for..  NOT just what you are heavily focused on in a 10 min session.    No.    It's the totality of your conscious awareness. 

In conscious creation, your attention is your ultimate currency. Neville Goddard taught that your attention is literally "the sap of life that keeps alive and sustains the things of your world". Whatever you put your focus on, you are actively breathing life into.  Most of you are actually doing this without even realising it, because it's just happening in the background.  If you are AWARE of the lack of your desire, you are BREATHING LIFE into that lack. 

The Pink Donut Effect

Here's a simple way to see it in action. Say you notice a pink donut somewhere today — on a billboard, in a shop window, wherever. You weren't looking for it, you just observed it. That single act of observing has planted the seed for pink donuts to show up again. Not because it's a sign, and not because you've drawn it to you — it's just the nature of how reality works. Whatever you observe, you give your attention to. Whatever gets your attention gets reinforced.

This is exactly why Neville was such a huge advocate for revision at the end of each day. It's you deliberately reversing whatever lack you observed, before it gets the chance to sink in and keep reinforcing itself.

Part 1: Still Waiting in the Wish Fulfilled

If you've been in the wish fulfilled for a while and still don't have your desire, it's probably because you're being too aware of the lack of it, unknowingly. When you wake up first thing in the morning, what is your first automatic thought about your desire?    It is - I still don't have it, it hasn't happened, maybe today is the day..  It might not be a straightforward conscious single thought; it could just be a silent awareness that you don't have it.  Being aware of the lack of it.
But that awareness..  Is still your attention and attention is life giving energy.

Part 2: Too Much Focus on the Problem 

Have you ever noticed that the more you try to "fix" a 3D problem, the worse it seems to get? If you are constantly analysing your lack of money, stressing over a silent SP or pouring attention on a 3P.  Basically, fighting any unwanted circumstance, you are making a massive mistake: you are actively paying for your own suffering.

Stop BREATHING LIFE INTO YOUR PROBLEMS (Circumstances). When you try to fight the 3D mirror, you are giving it your focused awareness, which is exactly what it needs to survive. By reacting to it, worrying about it, or complaining about it, you are feeding it.  You keep feeding it your life-giving energy and expecting it to go away.

How to Dissolve Any Problem There is only one way to kill an unwanted circumstance: you must starve it.

Neville explicitly stated, "To dissolve a problem that now seems so real to you all that you do is remove your attention from it". You must completely turn your back upon the problem and your limitations.

When you remove your attention from a given state, you literally drain the lifeblood from it. Without your attention to feed and sustain it, the problem has absolutely no choice but to wither, fade, and pass away.. The best denial of a problem is total indifference.

***

Imagine that you have a torchlight on your forehead.. And whatever you are observing (inside of you OR outside of you) you are feeding it life to create again and again and again.

Spend Your Currency Wisely

You are a creator, and your focus is your magic wand. Take your power back by refusing to give your attention to anything you don't want.

So tell me…..    What have you been "aware" of today? 

XX
K

Feeling scared that doing what you love won't pay the bills? This EFT tapping session clears the deep-rooted belief that passions don't pay so you can finally earn abundantly from the work that lights you up.

In the Law of Assumption, whatever you assume to be true becomes true for you — creation is already finished, and you get to choose the new story of being paid well for your joy.

Perfect if you:
➤ Feel unworthy of earning money from your passion and keep calling it "just a hobby"
➤ Carry the fear that others can succeed at this but you can't
➤ Want to drop the old story and lock in the identity of someone who loves what they do and gets paid abundantly for it

Timestamps
0:00 Introduction and business series context
2:36 The limiting belief: passions don't pay
5:08 Karate chop setup statements
6:43 Top of head – acknowledging the old story and insecurity
9:51 Releasing the belief that passions don't pay
11:10 Choosing the new identity of abundant passion income
13:46 Living in the end – imagine being paid well for what you love
15:25 Final embodiment and close