Here is a step-by-step guide on how to shift your concept of self to change your reality, drawing from the principles of the Law of Assumption and the practical application of Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT).

1. Accept Consciousness as the Only Reality

The first step is accepting that "Consciousness is the one and only reality".
Circumstances, people, and events are not independent facts; they are the "outpicturing" of your state of awareness.

• The Cause: There is no "secondary cause." You are not a victim of fate or other people; your world is entirely the result of your own consciousness.
• The "I AM": Your "I AM" is the first cause-substance. When you say "I am poor" or "I am unwanted," you are defining the arrangement of your world. To change the world, you must change how you define "I AM".

2. Identify and Release the "Old Man" (Old Story)

You cannot put "new wine into old bottles." To become the person you want to be, you must completely drop the personality and beliefs of the person you no longer wish to be.

• Observe Your Reactions: To discover your current concept of self, observe your reactions to life. Your automatic reactions reveal where you live psychologically.
• Use EFT to Release: Find specific EFT scripts/Videos to help you release the "Old Story." This involves acknowledging your current feelings (fear, doubt, unworthiness) and choosing to let them go.
• Example: "I am choosing to release this old identity right now... I let go of the self who believed in limitation".
• Target Specific Blocks: It's helpful to identify the specific "mask" or identity you are wearing, such as "The Victim," "The Waiter" (waiting for the 3D to change), or "The Seeker" (who is always looking but never finding).

3. Install the New Identity (The Law of Assumption)

Once you have released the old story, you must assume the feeling of the wish fulfilled. This is not just wishing; it is a radical psychological transformation where you become the person who already has your desire.

• Assume the Feeling: You must feel yourself right into the situation of your answered prayer. Ask yourself, "How would I feel were my wish realised?" and let that feeling monopolise your attention.
• Ignore the Evidence of the Senses: You must deny the evidence of your senses and assume the feeling of the wish fulfilled even if the 3D world contradicts it. This is often referred to as "Brazen Impudence"—refusing to take "no" for an answer from the world of facts.
• EFT for Installation: Use tapping to anchor this new state.
• Example: "I am choosing a new identity right now. I am the version of me who already has my desire... My assumption has already hardened into fact".

4. There Is No One to Change But Self

If you are struggling with a specific person (SP) or a relationship, you must realise that "there is no one to change but self".

• Everyone is You Pushed Out (EIYPO): People in your world only reflect your internal beliefs. If you feel disrespected or unwanted, they must reflect that. To change them, you must change your concept of yourself to one who is "chosen," "prioritised," and "cherished" 
• Stop Trying to Change the Mirror: Trying to force others to change is as fruitless as breaking a mirror because you don't like your reflection. Change your own face (consciousness), and the mirror must change

 

5. Persistence

You must remain faithful to your new concept of self. You cannot be the new person for a moment and then return to the old reactions.

• Frequency: It is the frequency of returning to the feeling of the wish fulfilled that makes it natural. You must wear the new feeling until it becomes your nature.
• Do Not Check the 3D: Stop looking for proof in the outside world. Waiting for proof confirms you do not have it. You must accept that your inner assumption is the reality.

By systematically releasing the old identity through EFT and persistently assuming the feeling of the new identity, your "assumption, though false, if persisted in will harden into fact".

Nice simple step by step one for you guys today.

Xx MWAH

When it comes to manifesting a specific person (SP) using the Law of Assumption or similar principles, blocks often arise from internal resistance, limiting beliefs, or misalignment with your desired state.

Here are the most common blocks people encounter, based on widely discussed manifestation concepts:

Doubting it's possible

Thinking your SP is "out of reach" or that manifesting them defies logic creates resistance. If you assume it’s unlikely, your reality reflects that.

Obsessing Over the ‘How’

Fixating on how they’ll come back or change their behaviour shifts focus away from assuming the end result, stalling the process.

Lack of Self-Concept

If you don’t see yourself as worthy, lovable, or deserving, your SP won’t reflect that back. A weak self-image undermines the assumption they want you.

Clinging to the old story

Repeating past rejection, arguments, or their current disinterest keeps you stuck in that version of reality instead of assuming a new one.

Impatience or Desperation

Checking for results or feeling needy signals you don’t fully believe it’s already yours, which pushes the manifestation away.

Focusing on Their Free Will

Worrying about “forcing” them or their independence contradicts the assumption they naturally align with your desire.

Negative Assumptions About Them

Assuming they don’t care, won’t change, or are against you reinforces that reality instead of the one you want.

Overcomplicating the Process

Thinking you need endless techniques or perfect conditions blocks the simplicity of just assuming it’s done.

Emotional Attachment to Lack

Feeling lonely, sad, or incomplete without them is being aware of the “absence” rather than the fulfilment of having them.

External Validation Seeking

Relying on their actions or words to confirm your manifestation means you’re not fully living in the end state internally.

Inconsistent Assumptions - Being Double-Minded

Flip-flopping between “they’re mine” and “they’re not” confuses your subconscious and dilutes the outcome.

Fear of Failure

Worrying it won’t work plants seeds of doubt that grow into a reality where it doesn’t.

Overanalysing Their Current State

Obsessing over their social media, who they’re with, or what they’re doing now keeps you tethered to the unwanted present.

Not Letting Go

Holding too tight to the outcome, instead of assuming it’s done and moving on mentally, creates tension.

Unresolved Inner Conflicts

Guilt, shame, or past baggage about relationships can silently sabotage your belief in a happy outcome with your SP.

**Step 1: Know You Are the Source of Everything.** The foundation of a new story is recognising that your external reality is merely a projection of your internal state. You must stop focusing on anything that appears to be "outside" of you, as there is no power in the external world that can say "no" to you.

**Step 2: Abide Only in the Present Moment.** Realise that there is no past and no future; there is only the eternal now. Any memory of the past is just a story being told in the present, and any fear of the future is an assumption being made now. To change your story, you must change what you are inviting into this specific moment.

**Step 3: Identify Your Current Story.** Acknowledge that you either have what you want or you don’t, and this is determined by the narrative you currently believe. Ask yourself: "What story am I telling myself right now?". For example, if you are noticing a lack of contact from a specific person, your current story is one of "lack" and "absence".

**Step 4: Declare Your Word as Law.** You must fully believe that the new story you tell yourself is true right now. This step requires the conviction that your "I AM" awareness is the only creative power and that whatever you claim must be proven to you by reality. Your assumption does not need a "backup" from the 3D world; it is true because you said so.

**Step 5: Change the Story in the Now.** Do not waste time trying to figure out "why" an old assumption is playing out. Instead, instantly switch the narrative in the present moment. If the 3D shows a lack of money, you change the story to: "I have more than enough money right now". This is the "Deny, Choose, Be" method: deny the authority of the 3D, choose the preferred reality, and be the person who already has it.

**Step 6: Persist Without Contradiction** As long as you do not go against the new story, it must manifest. You are the only person creating your life story, and there are no outside influences that can stop a sustained assumption from hardening into fact. Techniques like affirmations or scripting are not used to "get" something, but rather to remind you of the new story and help you stay in that state.

Nice simple one today!

Your dream home is not something you're waiting for — it's something you're choosing to claim right now. This tapping session works through the doubts, fears, and old assumptions that have been keeping you locked in the story that your dream home is out of reach, too expensive, or meant for someone else.

Your one job is to live in the end. When you hold the assumption of already having your dream home, the 3D has no choice but to catch up through the bridge of incidents — and this session rewires your identity to stay there.

Perfect if you:
➤ Keep focusing on your current living situation instead of the home you want
➤ Secretly believe you need the money sorted first before you can "have" it
➤ Feel unworthy of a beautiful home or like dream homes are for other people — not you

Timestamps
0:00 Introduction & why Kylie uses "home" instead of "house"
1:18 How the session is structured (3 rounds explained)
1:45 The philosophy — releasing doubt & living in the end
2:55 Starting on the Karate Chop Point — Setup Statements begin
4:28 Round 1: Acknowledging the old story (Top of Head)
8:03 Round 2: Releasing round — letting go of the old identity
9:57 Round 3: Stepping into the new identity — living in the end
12:36 Guided visualization — feeling yourself walk into your dream home
14:17 Kylie shares her personal story of how she manifested her own home
15:07 Closing + how to work with Kylie

There's a phrase Neville used that doesn't get talked about nearly enough: brazen impudence.

It sounds bold. Shameless, even. And honestly, that's exactly what it is.

What it actually means

Brazen impudence is the refusal to take no for an answer — not from other people, not from circumstances, and not from the 3D world showing you the opposite of what you want.

It's the psychological stance of someone who has decided something is true and won't be moved from it. Not through force or white-knuckling. Through bold, unwavering persistence in the new story.

Neville pulled this from the original meaning of the word importunity in scripture — which, when translated properly, literally means brazen impudence. The parable it comes from is about someone who keeps knocking on a door at midnight, refusing to leave without what they came for. That quality of shameless inner persistence is what he was pointing to.

What it looks like in practice

It doesn't mean fighting against what you see in the 3D. It's more grounded than that.

It means when your senses say it's not here yet, you don't accept that as the final word. You return to the inner state that says it's done. Not anxiously. Not desperately. With the quiet confidence of someone who has already decided.

The 3D can do whatever it wants. Your job is to hold the assumption with the kind of boldness that doesn't need external confirmation to stay standing.

Where people drift

The moment you glance at the mirror and let it update your inner state — that's where brazen impudence slips. You had the new story, the circumstances looked the same, and you quietly shifted back to the old one.

Neville described it as falling off the colt. You were riding the assumption, and then you looked back. That's all it takes.

Brazen impudence is the quality that keeps you on. Not because you're forcing it, but because you've decided — and that decision is held with enough boldness that doubt simply doesn't get a foothold.

The energy behind it

There's a shamelessly confident quality to this state. You're not desperate. You're not anxious. You're not waiting for permission from the 3D to believe what you've already decided is true.

That's what Neville meant by habitual occupancy of the wish fulfilled. You live there. You return there without apology. You don't leave just because reality hasn't caught up yet.

The 3D always catches up. The only variable is how boldly you hold the inner state while it does.

So hold it. Shamelessly. Persistently.

xx

What if you got your desires today?

What if today turned out to be the best day of your life?

What if everything just worked out perfectly?

What if unexpected money got wired to your bank today?

What if everything you have been working on suddenly showed up right NOW?

What if that special person is picking up their phone to call you right now?

But… they don't have my number

But.. they blocked me on everything

But… they told me they don't want me

But … I am not owned any money

But… Money can't show up out of nowhere

But.. but but but but but…

Stop blocking everything with your butts…

Be open to magic & miracles happening daily.

Hey everyone, Just thought I would share another post on Mirror Theory but this one is more in the context of relationships.

I see a lot of posts in the community asking things like : *“Why is my SP ghosting / cheating / refusing to commit?”*

The answer is more simple than you think: **Mirror Theory + Law of Assumption.**

**1. Your relationship is a mirror**

Your SP isn’t “doing” anything *to* you. They’re reflecting what you already believe about **yourself** and **love**.

* They pull away? → You believe (somewhere) that love leaves.
* They won’t commit? → You don’t fully see *yourself* as “the one.”
* They treat you like an option? → You’ve been treating *yourself* like an option.

The 3D (their texts, silence, actions) has **zero creative power**. It’s a neutral projector showing your inner movie. Change the film inside, and the screen updates automatically.

**2. Law of Assumption says: “What you assume = what you experience.”**

Assumptions harden into fact. If your dominant assumption is *“People always leave me,”* guess what shows up?

But flip it: *“I am deeply loved, chosen, and safe in love”* → the mirror **has no choice** but to reflect that.

**3. Real examples (no names, just patterns I’ve seen here):**

* **“My SP says they’re not ready.”** Inner belief: *“I’m not ready to receive the love I want.”* Fix the inner → they suddenly text, “I’ve been thinking about us.”
* **“They keep flirting with others.”** Inner belief: *“I don’t trust myself to be enough.”* Shift to self-trust → they delete dating apps, post you, go all-in.
* **“We fight over nothing.”** Inner belief: *“Love has to be hard.”* Assume *“Love is easy, peaceful, fun”* → arguments dissolve into laughter.

**4. How to use it (practical, no fluff):**

a. **Catch the mirror.** Next time they trigger you, ask: *“What must I believe about ME for this to be my reality?”*

b. **Release the old story.** Feel the hurt, then let it go (EFT, journaling, whatever works).

c. **Assume the new.** Live *as if* you are already the version who is loved exactly as you want. Feel it real in imagination.

**5. The golden rule:**

**You don’t change them. You don’t wait for them. You change YOUR relationship with YOU.**

When you become the prize in your own eyes, they start treating you like one. It’s not magic - it is just law.

*“Everyone is you pushed out.”* – Keep pushing out the version of you that’s already loved.

I used to think I was "one of those people" who took forever to change.

You know the type - I'd start strong, fall off in three days, convince myself I'd tried my best, and resign myself to "that's just how I am." For years, I genuinely believed that real transformation was this long, gruelling process that required therapy, journaling, affirmations for months, and maybe a few breakdowns along the way.

OMG - I use to even tell the story, that every breakdown is a breakthrough!
I was the queen of Breakdowns..  I was even hospitalised several times many many years ago for having a "Menty B".

Then I realised something wild.

The reason change felt hard, slow, and messy wasn't because change IS hard, slow, and messy. It's because I *believed* it was. And the mirror was just reflecting that belief right back to me.

**Change Doesn't Happen TO You - It Happens AS You**

Every stuck pattern, every "I can't let this go," every time you slip back into old ways - it's all just the mirror showing you what you assume about your ability to shift.

The 3D isn't resisting you. It's reflecting what you believe about change itself.

Think about it - if you believe "change takes time" then of course it's going to take time. If you believe "old habits die hard" then yeah, they're going to cling on for dear life. If you believe "I always fall back into my old ways" then guess what's going to happen on day four?

**Common Beliefs That Keep You Stuck**

* **"I try to change but fall back in 3 days"** → Believing old you always wins. Shift to "new me is permanent" and watch the habit actually stick on day four.
* **"I affirm but the old story screams louder"** → Believing old beliefs are stronger. Shift to "new beliefs overwrite instantly" and watch that old voice fade mid-sentence.
* **"Change feels slow and painful"** → Believing growth requires suffering. Shift to "growth is effortless" and watch yourself change in one breath.
* **"I need proof before I believe I've changed"** → Believing evidence comes first. Shift to "faith first, evidence follows" and watch proof arrive unasked.
* **"Old habits sneak back when I'm stressed"** → Believing stress controls you. Shift to "I control my state" and watch new habits kick in automatically.
* **"I keep revisiting the same trigger"** → Believing some things can't be revised. Shift to "everything rewrites now" and watch that trigger become a funny old story.
* **"I say 'it's done' but brace for the old pattern"** → Believing change isn't final. Shift to "change is sealed" and watch the old never return.

**So What Do You Do?**

Stop trying to change. Stop working on yourself. Stop doing all the techniques hoping they'll shift something outside of you.

Just decide you're already the changed version. Right now.

Not tomorrow. Not after you see proof. Not after 30 days of affirmations. NOW.

Ask yourself - what do I believe about my ability to change? About how long it takes? About how hard it is?

Then decide differently.

"I change instantly and permanently." "Growth is effortless for me." "The new me is who I am now."

And then just BE that. Live as the version who's already shifted. Walk through your day as them. Think as them. Move as them.

**The Mirror Has No Choice**

You're not trying to become someone new. You're deciding you already are someone new.

The mirror doesn't argue with that. It just reflects the decision.

You shift first. The mirror catches up.

xx K

Look, you already know there is no past. You have heard it a thousand times. You have probably heard me say it a hundred times - BUT are you actually *living* like that is true?

Because here is what I see all the time: someone spirals into the old story for a few hours, then thinks they have "ruined it" and have to start over from scratch.

**That is not how this works.**

# You Always Have the Final Say

The only rule is this: when you think of your desire again, think of it from the new story. That is it.

It does not matter if you spent all morning in doubt. It does not matter if you had a moment of panic or fell back into the old assumption. **What matters is where you land.**

You could spiral for three hours straight, and then decide: "Actually, no. This is done. This is mine." And if you keep choosing that—if that is where you consistently return to—THAT becomes your dominant assumption.

This is not about maintaining perfect thoughts 24/7. It is about **choosing again**. Every single moment is a fresh choice. You are not building on yesterday's thoughts. You are choosing right now, in this moment.

When you wake up tomorrow, you are not the same person who went to sleep. You are choosing your story fresh. The old story only exists if you pick it back up again.

Every moment is brand new. You are not dragging anything forward unless you choose to. **You are choosing your story right now in every moment.** 

What story are you continuing to choose over and over?

xx

Every delay, every "success," every time you spiral into doubt—it's all showing you what you *actually* believe about your power to manifest. The 3D isn't testing you or blocking you. It's just reflecting back your assumptions about how this whole thing works.

**The shift that changes everything:**

Manifestation doesn't work *for* you. It works *as* you.

The external world mirrors how you see yourself as the creator.

**15 belief patterns and their mirrors:**

1. **"It works for everyone but me"** → Belief: I'm broken/different → Shift to: "The law works perfectly through me" → SP texts first try
2. **"I can manifest parking spots but not money"** → Belief: Big things are harder → Shift to: "All desires arrive with equal ease" → $20K lands same week as finding $20
3. **"Things show up then disappear"** → Belief: Good things don't last for me → Shift to: "What's mine stays and grows" → Manifestations become permanent
4. **"I have to do techniques daily or it won't work"** → Belief: Effort = worthiness → Shift to: "Being is enough" → Manifest while literally napping
5. **"The 3D keeps showing the opposite"** → Belief: Physical reality is stronger than my state → Shift to: "The 3D follows my assumptions" → Opposite reality flips within 24 hours
6. **"Old scenarios keep triggering me"** → Belief: Past determines future → Shift to: "Now rewrites everything" → Old pattern revised, never repeats
7. **"I need angel numbers to know it's working"** → Belief: Faith requires proof → Shift to: "I am the proof" → Signs follow instead of leading
8. **"My manifestations always take forever"** → Belief: Delay is part of my story → Shift to: "Instant is normal for me" → Same-day manifestations
9. **"I always doubt right before it happens"** → Belief: Doubt is inevitable → Shift to: "Certainty is my default state" → No wobble, straight manifestation
10. **"Everyone manifests their SP except me"** → Belief: Love is harder for me → Shift to: "Love comes easiest to me" → SP reaches out within hours
11. **"Affirming makes me feel desperate"** → Belief: Wanting blocks having → Shift to: "I affirm from already having it" → Calm replaces desperation, desire follows
12. **"The bridge of incidents feels chaotic"** → Belief: The path must be messy → Shift to: "My path is smooth" → Events align perfectly
13. **"I give up after a few days"** → Belief: Persistence isn't natural for me → Shift to: "I persist effortlessly" → Manifestation on day 4
14. **"The universe keeps testing me"** → Belief: I'm being punished → Shift to: "Everything serves my desire" → "Test" becomes the actual delivery
15. **"I say 'it is done' but keep checking"** → Belief: I need confirmation → Shift to: "I know without looking" → Stop checking, it arrives

**How to actually use this:**

**Watch your results like a diagnostic tool.** Experiencing delay? Ask yourself: "Where do I secretly believe the law fails?"

**Connect every 'failure' to a creator belief:**

* "Nothing's moving" → I believe I'm powerless
* "Got the opposite" → I assume resistance is real

**Release and reassume:**

* Use EFT/tapping on the limiting belief
* Revise your last "failure" into instant success
* Affirm: "I am the operant power. It is done."

**Live as someone who's mastered this:**

* Talk in past tense about your desire
* Treat 3D lag like background noise
* Celebrate before seeing evidence

**Persist.** One shift in how you view yourself as creator = one shift in reality. What "took months" can now take minutes.

**Bottom line:**

Manifestation isn't a tool you use. It's a mirror showing you what you believe about yourself as creator.

Stop asking the law to work. Become the law.

The 3D says "it is done" when you stop questioning *if* and start knowing *that*.

EIYPO applies to manifestation results too. The 3D that just delivered your desire? That was you finally believing you're the one who creates it.

Here's a visual I want you to sit with for a second.

Picture yourself holding the entire world in the palm of your hand. Every person, every circumstance, every desire, all of it right there. You are the source of everything that appears in your 3D.

Now, from that vantage point — does your desire feel bigger than you?

It can't be. Because it's coming from you.

You Are the God of Your Reality

Neville was clear on this. You are not a small human trying to reach something that exists out there beyond you. You are the operant power. The creator. Everything in your 3D — every single thing — originates from your consciousness.

Which means nothing in your reality gets to be greater than you. Not a person. Not a sum of money. Not a relationship. Not any desire, no matter how big it feels.  YOU are the one making it important or special or putting it right up there on the pedestal.

You are making your desire seem this big :

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((Massive thing))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

While you are thinking, you are this big:

((You))

The moment you see yourself as the source, the whole dynamic shifts. Your desire stops being this towering thing you have to earn your way toward. It becomes something that simply belongs in your world because you put it there.

It Was Never About the Desire

The subject was always your conception of yourself.

When you know yourself as the one who creates — rather than the one who waits and hopes — your desire becomes ordinary. Normal. Just another thing in your reality, the way your phone is just sitting on the bench without you marvelling at it.

Neville said the time it takes for an assumption to manifest is directly proportionate to how natural it feels to already have it. Not thrilling. Not a milestone. Just yours.

That naturalness doesn't come from convincing yourself harder. It comes from remembering who you actually are.

You are greater than any state, not some powerless being.

xx

Most people cross their fingers and hope — calculating odds, waiting on luck, and quietly believing winning happens to other people. This tapping session walks you through releasing that old "unlucky" identity and stepping into the self-concept of someone who wins constantly, naturally, and without needing to figure out the how.

Winning isn't about odds. It's about identity. When you assume the feeling of victory before the result, you become the source of the outcome — not a passenger waiting on chance.

This session moves through three rounds — acknowledging the old story of doubt and unworthiness, releasing it completely, and then anchoring in the brand new identity of someone who wins prizes, raffles, money, cars, and whatever else they enter. You were born a winner. This tapping helps you remember that.

Perfect if you:
➤ Keep hoping instead of claiming — you enter things but never really expect to win
➤ Feel like luck is something that happens to other people, not you
➤ Want to embed "I am a natural winner" into your self-concept at an identity level

Timestamps
0:00 Why your identity — not luck — determines what you win
1:04 The old story: calculating odds and hoping instead of claiming
3:08 Let's start the tapping — Karate Chop setup statements
4:38 Bonus: How Kylie applies identity work to health manifestations
6:03 Setup statements begin — "Even though I still have a habit..."
7:58 Round 1: Acknowledging the old identity (hoping, doubt, unworthiness)
10:39 Round 2: Letting go of the unlucky self
12:26 Round 3: Stepping into the winner identity
15:28 Closing visualisation — feel what it's like to be a natural winner

I just want to point out that there is no such thing as "blocks" - they are just thoughts or beliefs and when you ideally shift into the state of the wishfulfilled - these automatically fall away. HOWEVER, in saying that it can be helpful to clear some of the stuff in the way that's perhaps hindering you getting into the state of the wishfulfilled.

To identify your limiting beliefs about manifesting—those subconscious thoughts that hinder your ability to achieve your goals—follow these practical steps:

1. **Reflect on Your Goals and Resistance**: Start by thinking about what you want to manifest, like financial abundance, a new job, or a relationship. Notice any immediate feelings of doubt, fear, or resistance that arise. For example, if you want to manifest wealth but feel uneasy, ask yourself, "What am I afraid of?" or "Why don’t I believe this is possible?" Write down thoughts like "I’m not good enough" or "Money is hard to come by."
2. **Journal Your Thoughts**: Use journaling to dig deeper. Ask questions like:
   * What do I believe about my ability to achieve this goal?
   * What negative thoughts or patterns keep coming up when I think about manifesting this?
   * What did I learn about this topic (e.g., money, success, love) growing up? Common limiting beliefs might include "I don’t deserve success," "Manifesting is unrealistic," or "I always fail."
3. **Notice Self-Talk and Triggers**: Pay attention to your inner dialogue throughout the day, especially when you’re stressed or faced with challenges. If you catch yourself thinking, "This never works for me," or "I’m not the type of person who gets what they want," those are clues to limiting beliefs. Also, notice situations that trigger strong emotions—feeling jealous of someone’s success, for instance, might point to a belief like "There’s not enough to go around."
4. **Examine Past Experiences**: Reflect on past attempts to achieve goals. Did you give up quickly? Did you feel unworthy of success? For example, if you tried manifesting a promotion but didn’t believe you were qualified, you might uncover a belief like "I’m not smart enough" or "Others are always better than me."
5. **Use Visualization to Uncover Blocks**: Visualize yourself achieving your goal in vivid detail. As you imagine it, note any discomfort or negative thoughts that pop up. If you’re visualizing a dream career but think, "This feels impossible," that’s a limiting belief to explore.
6. **Ask Empowering Questions**: Challenge your thoughts by asking, "Is this belief absolutely true?" or "What evidence do I have that contradicts this?" For instance, if you believe "I can’t manifest wealth," recall times you’ve successfully attracted opportunities or resources, no matter how small.
7. **Look for Patterns in Behavior**: Limiting beliefs often show up in self-sabotaging behaviors. If you procrastinate, avoid taking risks, or downplay your achievements, ask why. A belief like "I’m not worthy of success" might be driving those actions.

**Example**: Let’s say you want to manifest a loving relationship but keep thinking, "I’ll never find the right person because I’m too flawed." That belief—"I’m too flawed"—is a limiting one. You can challenge it by listing your positive qualities or recalling past relationships where you were valued.

**Next Steps -**  Once you find your limiting beliefs, find a tapping video on my channel that relates to that subject and tap them out.  :)

Peace Out
x K

You know what quietly keeps desires on hold? The invisible rules you've attached to them.

This is what we call conditioning your desires. Any "I have to first" or "it won't work unless" — these are conditions you've placed between yourself and what you want. And because it's law of assumption, they work perfectly. The condition becomes the assumption, and the assumption becomes the reality.

What it looks like in practice

See how many of these feel familiar:

• I have to feel it real before it will manifest
• I have to reach Sabbath otherwise it won't work
• I have to feel "safe" to manifest
• I need to do nervous system regulation first
• I have to see movement or a sign before I believe it's working
• I have to lose weight before I'm ready for the relationship I want
• I have to be completely healed first
• I need to affirm enough times before my subconscious will accept it
• I have to clear all my blocks first
• I have to "FEEL" insert any feeling here before I will believe it
• I have to feel deserving of it
• I have to detach and stop wanting it before it shows up
• I have to feel certain or be in the KNOWING — any doubt means it's not working
• I need to do the technique perfectly every single night
• I have to have the perfect mental diet

Every single one of these is just another assumption. One that says your desire isn't available to you right now.   These are just some examples, the list could be thousands.

The truth of it

Neville said: "You are already that which you want to be, and your refusal to believe this is the only reason you do not see it."

There is no checklist. There is no process to complete first. Creation is finished. All realities already exist. Your only job is to choose the one you want and accept it as yours — now, not after you've ticked every box.

You are the I AM. God didn't say "let there be light, once conditions are met." There was just light.

The conditions you've placed on your desires aren't requirements. They're assumptions. And like every other assumption, they'll keep showing up in your reality for as long as you hold them.

Drop the conditions. Claim it now.

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This is sort of continued on from my last post about affirmations….

[Affirmations Post](https://www.reddit.com/r/lawofassumption/comments/1s7e5mz/affirmations\_are\_not\_used\_to\_get\_something/)

Imagine you are stepping into a brand-new reality, and you decide that you are a powerful king, or a queen, or a brave superhero. To help yourself feel extra brave and strong, you might put on a shiny paper crown or a red superhero cape.

When you hear the phrase "you are the technique," it means that the paper crown and the red cape do not actually have any magic in them. The magic is entirely inside of *you*.

**Techniques Are Just Props** When use "techniques" ..like repeating the same words, writing things down in a notebook, or closing your eyes to picture a scene…..  BUT they are really just like putting on the paper crown and superhero cape. These actions are simply props to help keep your mind focused on the new identity you have chosen.

**You Are the Magic.** The only reason any of these props work is because *you* are doing them, and you are the one with the power. If you decide that wearing a red cape makes you unstoppable, you will act unstoppable. It doesn't work because the fabric is magical; it works because *you* made a firm decision about who you are, and you accepted it as true for you.

**Do Not Give Your Magic Away.** Sometimes, people forget they are the ones with the magic. They start to think the paper crown is the boss. They think, "If I don't wear my crown today, or if I don't say my magic words perfectly, I can't be the king anymore." When you do that, you give your power away to a normal piece of paper.   

"You are the technique" simply means you are the boss, you are the magic, and everything flows through you. You only use the tools when they make the experience more fun for you, or if it helps the "ego mind" to accept the new story - but you never actually *need* them.

Here's the thing: You're asking the wrong question.

The question assumes there are two separate people—you over here with your feelings, and them over there with theirs. But that's not how reality works according to non-duality.

# There's Only One Consciousness

In non-duality, there is no separation. There's not "you" and "them" as two separate beings with two separate sets of feelings.

There's just one consciousness—one awareness—experiencing itself through what appears to be separate forms.

So when you ask, "If I feel strongly about them, do they feel strongly about me?"—you're operating from the illusion of duality. You're thinking there are two of you. But there aren't.

**There's only one consciousness, and you're both it.**

# What Your Feelings Actually Are

Your strong feelings aren't happening in isolation over here while their feelings are happening independently over there.

Your feelings are arising within consciousness. Their feelings are arising within the same consciousness. It's all one movement.

The question isn't whether your feelings create their feelings. The question is: **What state of consciousness is being expressed?**

Because in non-duality and Law of Assumption, everyone is you pushed out. Not in the way most people think—not like they're puppets you control. But because they are literally reflecting back the consciousness that you are.

# The 3D is Just a Mirror

If you're feeling intense desire, need, or longing for someone—that's a state. And that state gets reflected back.

But here's where people get confused: they think "I love them so much, so they must love me too!" But if that love is coming from lack—"I need them, I'm incomplete without them"—that's the state being reflected.

And lack reflects more lack. Distance. Unavailability.

It's not about whether your strong feelings equal theirs. It's about what those feelings reveal about your state of consciousness.

# Consciousness is the Only Reality

This is Neville's first principle: Consciousness is the only reality.

Not two consciousnesses. One.

When you're operating from wholeness, from knowing yourself as the I AM—as pure awareness—there's no separation. There's no "me over here" seeking validation from "them over there."

There's just consciousness, expressing itself.

And when you're in that state—when you're not seeking, not lacking, not needing them to complete you—the 3D has to reflect that wholeness back.

Not because you made them feel something. But because there was never anyone separate from you to begin with.

# The Bottom Line

Your strong feelings don't automatically mean they have strong feelings for you—because that whole framework is based on duality.

What matters is the state those feelings are coming from.

If they're coming from lack, seeking, or incompleteness—the mirror shows you that. If they're coming from wholeness and knowing there's no separation—the mirror shows you that too.

There's no "them" to change. There's only consciousness, and what it's expressing through the illusion of form.

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We hear the phrase "walk by faith, not by sight" all the time, but what does it actually mean for us as conscious creators?

When we walk by sight, we are letting the physical 3D world dictate how we feel and what we believe is possible. But walking by faith means choosing to gently turn our focus inward and trusting the beautiful reality that our imagination sees, long before it appears in the physical mirror.

**Sometimes, you just have to take a leap of faith.**

I remember lying in bed recently, having this realization: *What if it really is just a leap of faith?*  What if we literally don't have to "do" anything to get our desires?  What if - we just... trusted? …Had Faith
 
It can feel a little scary at first to stop "trying" and to completely drop the effort. We are so used to the idea that manifestation has to be hard work or a struggle or a process. But when you hit that point of "Why not?", everything can change. You choose to surrender. 

Why not just trust that Source has your back? Why not trust that everything is already working out and coming toward you?

**Believing is seeing.**

For so much of our lives, we are taught that "seeing is believing"—that we need physical proof before we can relax. But the Law of Assumption asks us to gently flip that around.

When you take that leap of faith, you realize that having it within *is* the full manifestation. It is the only evidence you will ever need. There is no waiting for the 3D to reflect it, because you know it's already yours.  It is Done. 

I invite you to try this. What if, for the next 7 days, you just took a leap of faith?  What if, whenever something happens in your 3D, you simply said, *"I don't care. I trust that Source has my back and this is getting sorted out"*?  You removed your attention from it?

Can you have faith - just for 7 days?

Here's something worth really sitting with.

It's never about the actual circumstance — the text that didn't come, the bill that arrived, the silence, the rejection. None of that has any power in itself.

What actually matters is what you make it mean.

**The Circumstance Is Neutral**

Every single thing that shows up in your 3D is, at its core, neutral. It has no inherent meaning until you assign one. The moment you decide what something means, you've created an assumption. And assumptions harden into fact.

That's the Law of Assumption in action — not in your big visualisation sessions, but in those split-second moments where something happens and your mind immediately goes *"this means that."*

Your SP takes two days to reply. Neutral event.

But then you go: *"They're losing interest. This always happens. I'm too much."*

That's not a fact. That's a story. And now it's an assumption being fed into your reality.

**Attention = Your Creative Currency**

Think of your attention as life-force energy — and wherever you point it, you're giving life to that thing. Breathing it into existence. Feeding it.

When you fixate on a circumstance and keep turning it over in your mind, you're not just thinking about it. You're literally investing your creative power into it. You're making it *matter* — and matter it will, because that's how this works.

*Matters = turns into physical matter.*

That's not a metaphor. It's mechanics.

**The Meaning Makes the Manifestation**

Two people can experience the exact same event and walk away with completely different realities — because they assigned different meanings to it.

Person A sees their SP's silence and thinks: *They're pulling away.* Person B sees the same silence and thinks: *They're just busy. We're solid.*

Same 3D event. Two completely different assumptions being written into their reality.

Neither meaning is inherently true. But both will harden into fact depending on which one gets the attention.

**So What Do You Actually Do With This?**

Start noticing the meaning you assign in real time. Not to judge yourself for it — just to catch it.

When something happens, ask: *What am I making this mean? And is that the meaning I want to keep feeding?*

You're not trying to force positive spin onto things. You're recognising that the meaning was always a choice — and that you get to choose again.

Because at the end of the day.. YOU are the one making things "MATTER"

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