u/Aleera1234

I (28F) have been blessed with an eater (26M) He is new of course as I’m his first real relationship but we are 10 months in and he’s still always eager to go down.

Now, sadly I can’t necessarily stand it for long. Not because it doesn’t feel good, it’s okay, but the poor guy can’t practice because IM GIGGLING and wriggling. My upper outer labia is so sensitive any touches comes of as either itchy or ticklish! (Yes he has a beard but this also happens with fingers)

As for the giggles they happen ofc but also when we make out for more then a few seconds. I just feel a well of emotions and can’t stop myself! It makes him uncomfortable sometimes, worried I’m laughing at him but I swear I’m not!

Anyone else struggle with this??

Hello beautiful people!!

I (27F) have a wonderful partner (26M) and guys he’s an eater. Well, he wants to be and I want him to be too! I’m his first real relationship and he’s been doing absolutely amazing overall but we are struggling a *smidge* in the bedroom.

Oral.

Me giving head (easy, amazing, fun)

Me receiving head (nervous, feeling eh cause I can’t relax!)

We are both very aware you need to practice to get good but I find it hard to even want to let him cause I’m so nervous about anything going on. I have good hygiene and such, no complaints from him, he actually adores it down yonder but yea.

How do you lovey ladies get out of your head and just let a man dine? I yearn for the ability to relax and be content with pleasure being purely for me instead of mutual or giving on my side.

ATM thinking of having a glass of wine to help with my internal courage cause sober me is just too caught up! He has done literally nothing to make me as nervous as I get, he is the goodest of boys with lots of verbal affirmations and eager to please.

Any advise would be great 😩👏🏻