¿Cuál es el mejor consejo que le darías a un adolescente que está confundido sobre lo que siente por una chica? M-14 F-14
Ok so I genuinely need outside opinions because I think I’m overthinking this too much.
I’m a teenager. I’m originally from Peru, but I live in Málaga right now, and I started talking to this girl from Bordeaux.
At first it was just normal chatting, nothing serious. Just random conversations, jokes, basic stuff. But over time I started getting more attached than I expected and now I think I actually like her.
The problem is I have zero idea what she feels.
Sometimes the conversations are actually really good — she replies fast, asks me stuff, keeps it going, and I feel like “ok maybe this is going somewhere”. And then other times she gets dry or takes longer to reply and my brain instantly goes into overdrive like “yeah she’s done with me, I’ve been delusional this whole time” 💀
Also the whole situation is even worse because:
different countries
different languages
So I’m constantly trying to decode basic messages like it’s some secret mission when she probably just typed normally.
I don’t wanna be the annoying guy who overtexts, gets weird, or looks desperate. But I also don’t wanna just act cold and ruin something that maybe isn’t even anything yet.
Right now my brain is basically:
I like her
I have no clue if she likes me back
I’m probably overthinking every single message
I’m slowly losing mental stability over notifications 💀
So yeah… what do I actually do here?
Do I just keep it normal and chill and see what happens? Do I step back a bit so I don’t get cooked emotionally? Or am I already too deep in this and it’s too late anyway?
Any honest advice from people who’ve been through this would actually help a lot.