I(30M) gf(40F) relationship advice will be helpful in my situation?
Hi iam 30M and my gf 40F, we been in a relationship from 2020, we meet online and became friends first and we went into relationship later few months, we spend most of the time long distance relationship and we meet till now only two times in person. Everything was going good for first year later one day when I texted in WhatsApp she acted weird not texting my messages not attempting my calls, she is totally avoiding me, i was so frustrated and felt lost, later few days she texts me back saying my phone hacked Iam getting weird messages from your phone,but whatever message she think got from me was written by me, i was surprised to see my gf have some mental health issues, then we meet in person she visited my place where iam going to college ,then i started to ask her what happened she said had issue with hacker few years ago and death threat from her ex few years ago, and she said that hacker started to mess with her phone sending weird messages and acting like you and texting me, but whatever the messages she got is spam and other messages is written by me in whatsapp. She told me went to doctor for sleep issue never mentioned why she went to psychiatrist, deep down i know she went for this issue i never confronted her though.So now from two weeks she isn’t texting me and she is weird avoiding i was loosing my patience and today she called me crying saying she lost her pet, even though i was mad at first after she lost her pet, i started talking to her and consoled her,she told me sleeping and slept off, i got a call from later in day and we spoke about her pet and everything, suddenly she disconnects the call and says you aren’t my bf, stop texting me or i will contact police, i called her and said it’s me your bf but she disconnect the call and says stop acting like him, you aren’t him and abusing in WhatsApp like she is talking to hacker, this her second phone got in a year, she thinks her phone is hacked every few months of buying one, but the thing is i really like me but i don’t know what to do, iam worried she is gonna be like this forever, so she get this every few months she things someone spying her and wants to attack her, i try to tell her there is no hacker is attacking you just overthinking,but she starts again in month or so same stuff, iam so lost in this relationship and i don’t want to hurt her leaving her in this situation, but i don’t really see life with her, sometimes i loose myself thinking about her, buy at the end iam not happy, just saying back when she say i love you,i really like some kind suggestions,thank-you.