Not extreme jealousy, more subtle moments. For example, if your love interest mentions another person in a way that unexpectedly bothers you a bit, even when there’s objectively nothing to worry about and no real room for misinterpretation.
Do you withdraw or become quieter? Get more observant? Act completely normal externally but think about it internally?
We connect really well in person and on calls, he’s present, engaged, and warm. But between interactions he often goes quiet for a few days and isn’t very active over text.
I’m trying to understand:
INTJs, in a slow-burn connection that hasn’t been clearly defined yet but with strong emotional connection building, how do you decide whether to keep investing vs stepping away?
Do you tend to continue building the connection while figuring things out, or do you pull back early if you’re unsure about long term viability? What helps you decide and for how long will that take?
How similar is this to situationships as I find that the line is a little blur here.
How deep does your love tend to go once you actually fall for someone?
And what does that depth look like for you? Can it be described?
I’ve heard that they aren’t expressive beings, but I know them to enjoy depth.