u/Alive-Blue-8433

I loathe it when friends or family ask personal questions and ask details that are none of their business. I try to be my best and speak the truth, but when it comes to asking personal questions, I get angry and flustered. It’s rude to ask in the first place and some think it’s their right to know. I’ve lost friends and family members have become distant when I don’t tell them things. For example, a new purchase- how much did you pay for that? Why did you buy that? How did you afford that? Sometimes I have just flat out lied to them or lie about it to make them feel better but I feel worse. I’ve tried to change the subject but some keep the topic going until they get an answer. So I just lie. Am I wrong?