I don’t know what to do next ?
Alright guys so I’m M32 and my partner is F30 weve been together for 15 years ,got 3 children together found out around 2 years ago that she had been messaging another guy on snapchat , social media etc (he lives 2 hours away ) she swore it was just a friend they had never met nothing just spoke online not even phone calls so I decided to let it go beacuse of the kids skip to around 4 months ago when I found her messaging the same guy again after a big bust up and her grovelling I forgave her and we carried on for me to now find that the same day I found her she made a new Snapchat account and completely carried on speaking with this guy sending nudes videos everything you can imagine on the secret snapchat she had her work friends (female) so they all know about it and today i found a Valentine’s Day card hidden from the guy turns out they have been speaking for over 10 years ! Really don’t know what to do my heads a mess just been trying to go the gym as much as possible to stop thinking about all the questions I have beacuse she won’t give me any answers