We keep seeing my mom?
Hi! This is really really weird and I don’t know what’s going on, if anyone may be able to provide some insight that would be awesome, and thank you in advance.
My parents are both dead. My dad’s been gone for 10 years this year, and my mom died a little over a year ago. I often have really vivid dreams, always have, and after my mom passed I moved back into my childhood home with my boyfriend (m25, we’ll call him N, I’m f25) to give it a fresh coat of paint and a little love before we sold it. Since we’ve moved back, I’ve kept having super vivid dreams, but now it’s mostly featuring my parents. I’ve had dreams about my dad for the last ten years, and it’s fine, he usually comes running up to me with a big smile and we sit and talk and catch up.
With my mom though, it’s different. She always has her back to me in these dreams, and while my dad would be walking toward me, she would be walking away from me. I don’t really need to get into the psychology behind that, the dreams aren’t the weird part. The point is I never see her face in my dreams. Anyway.
This is the weird part. My mom passed in the house, and I thought she might still be hanging around, but now I don’t think it’s my mom anymore. I’d see weird glimpses of something moving around a corner or see her walk around the corner in the kitchen, but ALWAYS with her back to me, but it was definitely her. She had always dyed her hair jet black and was about 5’8 and thin, and that is what I’ve been seeing. A tall, thin lady with her jet black hair. But I’ve never seen her face. Yesterday N and I were talking about it, because he’s seen weird stuff here too, heard footsteps at night with me, etc, so it’s not weird to bring it up. He mentions he’s seen my mom twice in the last three days. Okay, cool, not weird.
Then he tells me she had no fucking face. She apparently poked her head around a corner and fucking looked right at him but instead of her face it was her hair and just smooth white where her face should be. TWICE. And that’s when I realized I have never seen her face either. Now I’m thinking that it might not actually be my mom, whatever is hanging out here. Does anyone have any experience with this or any ideas as to what it could be if it’s not her???
For reference, neither of us are on any medications or have any sort of history with any disorders, and we’ve both separately seen and heard things going on. He’s been my best friend for almost 18 years, so there’s no reason for him to lie or gaslight me about it. He’d straight up tell me I was crazy if he didnt believe me. CO detectors are working fine, that was the first thing I checked. My dog will respond to it too, he’ll lift his head up or perk his ears and look as well.