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I 28F am at the heaviest weight of my life 575lbs (I know 😩) at 168cm. I am trying my best but I am struggling with seeing no results. My issue is I have so many body related hurdles in the way. I struggle with pain in many issues but mainly my back and feet. I always feel like I’m one wrong step away from throwing my back out entirely and it does go out multiple times a year. My feet swell so bad by the end of the day that I cannot move them. So my activity is very limited. I also live remote with no access to gym/pool etc. I am on pre portioned meals and I eat strictly this with sugar free electrolytes/soda. I just keep seeing more and more posts about people my age or even younger passing away from obesity and I’m terrified that will be me soon if something doesn’t change. I just feel hopeless sometimes. It seems like diet isn’t doing much of anything but I’m having a hard time finding ways to get my heart rate up without needing to do much walking/ movement that is very painful for me. Any advice or even just success stories/encouragement would be great.

My boyfriend (26M) and I (27F) have been together for almost a year and a half and I always thought we were on the same page about monogamy. We’re both pretty jealous people and he’s very emotionally mature even at his age. We’ve gone through a lot together and no I don’t meant cheating or anything bad just life issues and we’ve bonded to closely with eachother. We’re best friends. Today out of almost thin air, when we were kind of teasing eachother over text while I was at work he asked if I would be open to having a threesome and sharing him. Idk if it was the heat of the moment but I felt physically ill when I read it. I went from horny and happy to sick to my stomach from one text. The fact that he would even consider it feels so wrong to me.. I would never even consider another man fantasy or not and I just feel so taken aback. I didnt reply and I don’t even want to go home and face him. He hasn’t followed up either. The thing is, I feel like even just saying no I’m not ok with that isn’t even enough because just the thought that he wants to sleep with someone else to me is making me mental.

Long story semi/short my sister is has absolutely trashed the room I let her stay in in my house (for free might I add) it’s a very small room maybe 10x12 at most. But there’s tons of garbage, old dishes with fruit flies, probably 6-7 bags worth at least. But surprisingly the floor is not completely covered in garbage it seems like most of it is on the headboard of the bed, on one side of the bed overflowed from an giant garbage bin, and a bit scattered elsewhere potentially under the bed. Another big issue is the clothes. She has so many clothes. Most of which needs thrown away but some is Brand new and salvageable. The garbage has attracted carpet beetles and I CANNOT. With bugs! I would like her bed, bed frame, rug, small vanity and old chinchilla cage removed and hauled off. I have serious mobility issues but willing to help where I can. But realistically does anyone know around what cost am I looking at or have any advice or alternatives. Rest of the house is clean.

I’ve worked at my job for over two years and I find each day it’s getting harder and harder to show up because of bullying. For reference I work in childcare and Ive grown such a bond with all these kids that it makes me horribly sad to think I might have to literally quit and leave them because of coworkers and my boss’ antics. For starters, I have a boss and she has a directors assistant that works directly under her. When I was hired the owner/director (my boss) was out of town and the directors assistant was the one who hired me. When I met my boss for the first time she was incredibly rude to me and I feel like she may have judged me because of my weight (I’m 300lbs) which honestly didn’t bother me because I know I’m a good worker and I like to see people get proved wrong when it comes to the quality of work they think I’ll do. However things only got worse about 6 months in. Because it’s childcare people constantly get sick and call out and because I was new I felt that it was my job to stand up and fill in where I could, try and make a good impression especially since I could feel that no one really liked me. So I singlehandedly covered EVERYONES shifts where I could for another 6 months straight. I would work sometimes open to close 10-12 hours a day. But then I started getting in trouble for that too because they were paying out too much overtime to me so my boss started saying that I can’t take anyone’s shifts if it puts me over 50 hours. Well then I had to start telling people no and once that happened everything got so. Much. Worse. Like I had no purpose anymore. I work in a room with toddlers and two to three other teachers. One of those teachers is an avid.. call outer? They hate me so much they won’t even acknowledge me if I speak, so I’m quiet all day apart from talking and taking care of the kids. Recently though they teamed up with my other coworkers and the bullying has been so bad I’ve spent time crying in the bathroom or my car. I come in every day and there’s breakfast, toys, garbage all over the floor in the eating area (which is supposed to be cleaned up by the openers) and as soon as I get there they take the kids outside to play and leave me to clean it even though it’s not my job. I’m also the mid day person so I have to clean lunch (the messiest meal of the day) which we have 18 toddlers and it’s supposed to be a two person job but my other two coworkers leave me to get the kids cleaned up, changed, then clean up their entire food mess entirely alone while they sit and play with kids on the floor. Same thing with anytime a kid has a poopy diaper, they make me change it with some excuse why they can’t. If things happen in the morning, it’s never communicated to me and then I end up getting in trouble with parents and I’m completely blindsided at the end of the day. I’ve tried to talk to my boss and she said that I need to talk to them myself because we’re “all adults” but I feel like I am the ONLY one doing anything. My coworkers get to sit and play with the kids but any activities I don’t get to participate only clean up the mess, lunch clean it up, poopy diapers, clean that up, take out all the heavy cots and set them out while also trying to change 18 diapers back to back got it no problem 😪. These aren’t things I can just choose not to do as well because as much as I want to be petty I have so much love for these kids that I don’t want them to have to suffer either. This whole thing breaks my heart and I just really want to know what is it about me that makes people hate me at work so much when I’m showing up every single day, doing more than my fair share of work. I’m friendly, I don’t stink. Is it just because I’m overweight? Oh and for the first time in two entire years I requested 4 days off 2 months in advance so I could go back to visit family I haven’t seen since 2024 and it got denied because the directors assistant needs just ONE of those days off to go to her sisters baby shower

Genuine fatigue for food shoppers. For context: my mom is disabled and I live across the country. Was excited when I found out I was able to Walmart grocery deliveries to her (she lives 10 minutes out of town) and I always tip generously for the extra drive. Usually $30+ because It’s saved me a lot of hassle of finding ways to get food to her. That being said.. LIKE ARE YOU KIDDING ME? I genuinely question if common sense should even be called such anymore because it’s not as common as you’d think. If someone orders a pound of ground beef WHAT WOULD POSSESS YOU TO OFFER A FULL $44 RACK OF BEEF RIBS AS A SUBSTITUTION?? It’s almost comical like it feels intentionally idiotic. This week I had a small order of staples I sent her way.. milk, eggs, bread, butter, oil and a few household supplies.

No milk available… in the entire store apparently because there was no substitution offered and (no way to chat with the shopper) is another great Walmart+ feature too. Asked for bland Sara Lee white bread. Apparently “fork split English muffins best I can do” was the vibe. should I be complaining? Probably not but here I am anyways because genuinely how do people get by in life being this way

Going out of town tomorrow AM. Ordered a carry on from Amazon (so I don’t have to pay $70 to check my big suitcase) last night to be delivered today between 4 am and 10am. That didn’t happen, then they said between 12 and 6pm. It’s currently 6pm and it says it was out for delivery and hour ago with it saying delivered by 10pm. But now it says expected by tomorrow 6pm but still says out for delivery😪 (good weather and all that btw)