u/Aljowoods103

Please Help Understand an Unusual Dichotomy w. Woman I’m Dating?

First, for clarity, this is NOT another “does she like me” nor “what is she thinking” post. We’ve had enough of those. However….

I have been on 3 dates with this woman and I’m really starting to like her a lot. But she is simultaneously way too conservative for me, while also being amazingly laid back and so fun to be around. Has anyone ever experienced this dynamic, and if so, **do you have any advice on what to expect and if I should be concerned?**

I’ll give an example. She told me tonight that she never kisses before the 10th date (fucking 10th!?!?!), has only slept with a ‘couple’ guys (she’s 34), is Greek Orthodox Christian though she doesn’t practice much, and she refuses to let me know where she lives. All very conservative. Fine.

However, at the same time she is very feminist and confident (which I love), loves telling dirty jokes, is open about sex as a conversation topic, and (nsfw) we talked about porn and masterbation for about an hour tonight.

So the main question is, **how does one go about dating a fun, carefree, beautiful woman while she is ALSO far more conservative than me?** Do I just wait it out? Accept that sex is not part of this? Try to sway her? Etc.

Thanks for any advice!!!

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u/Aljowoods103 — 16 hours ago