u/Almonds2

Husband is likely logical in only wanting one due to our resources and mental health. So that's what we're doing. I have been spending a lot of time w friends and family who are pregnant with a second or have a second. My heart drops to my stomach whenever I see them. The rollercoaster of my own emotions on this topic is overwhelming me. Not to mention the roller coaster through each menstrual cycle that obviously does not result in a baby. I thought I had somewhat accepted this but i cried in front of my loved ones a few times this week.

This sub has been so helpful for me. I'd love some more encouragement about what one and done has done to positively impact families' lives.