How many of you feel like you can’t get any advice from people who are around you…
They just don’t understand. They won’t have the “right” advice because they’re in a ‘normal’ life.
And how many of you feel like you’re constantly lost?
Anyways- you’re not alone.
Mine is 21 and I’ll tell you… I am exhausted and was told today that ‘I was never meant to be a mom…’
Painful. And from the one person I love more than anyone in the world.
But he was driving when he shouldn’t have been, got his vehicle stuck- walked to my house at 3 am (it’s Monday) and demanded that I help him move his vehicle and if I don’t - I hate him. I am a terrible mom.
And after slammed doors, me stepping in between him and his dad at 3 am (because we work), and the infamous quote of, “You were never meant to be a mom. You clearly don’t love me…” all I want is to call someone. But who? Who do you call? No one, not my dad, not my other family and not even my used to be best friend (friendship ruined over parenting advice & trump), will understand. And even my relationship is being torn apart due to this. I haven’t had sex in over a year. We rarely skip a drama free week Even though he is 21.
Anyways-
That’s the start of my week. And I need to hear from you If possible…
You are clearly not alone in your struggle… I looked for online support groups. This was the best I could find so far.