Just had to break up and feeling sad
I guess I had never broken up with someone before, always been dumped! I know I did the right thing but I feel so guilty and sad for hurting someone.
We had a lot of fun together, but have very different lifestyles and I ignored the red flags for a long term relationship, and now I'm just getting a lot of hatred and meanness. It had only been 5 months so I thought stupidly that we could talk about it as adults.
I'm glad it didn't go further but wishful thinking to hope that he could realize that we aren't super young anymore and could be mature about a break up but it's really hurting. I feel sad and lonely and bad for hurting him, but I also know he wasn't always that great for me. I think it's natural but I just wanted to connect with a community that might be feeling the same way 😞